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100 Funny Maid Of Honor Speech Examples To Steal- {Bridesmaids Too!}

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Freaking out about having to write a Funny Maid of Honor Speech ? Fear not, we have brought in a stand up comic who is sharing her best examples of quotes to add in to your speech.

It is a great honor to be chosen as the maid of honor for your best friend’s wedding day. You’ve known each other for years, and it makes sense that you would want to stand with her on her big day. But now the pressure is on! It’s up to you to write a speech that will get everyone laughing, crying and celebrating!

You may not know what story or words you might want to say just yet, but don’t worry! We’re here to help.

Our advice? Be yourself, share your memories, and most importantly: don’t screw up!

Tips For Writing Winning Bridesmaid Speeches

The maid of honor speech is an important part of any wedding because it’s a time for the maid of honor to tell a few jokes and share some light-hearted memories about how she feels about the bride.

A maid of honor speech can be great if you’re funny, but it can also turn out less than desired if you’re really not that comical…be sure to know your audience, and don’t force anything so its not awkward.

● Choose your humor style wisely : Be careful to choose something that matches your personality. If you are not that funny, don’t attempt some sort of stand up comedy routine on stage when all eyes are on you. You’ll only end up making everyone else uncomfortable and embarrassed for you.

● Keep it short : This is not a time to tell old stories about how you two met 10 years ago. This is a time to tell the bride and groom how much they mean to you, why they should marry each other (if for no other reason than love) and how happy you are for the both of them.

● Don’t be afraid to get personal : While people will expect light-hearted jokes and funny stories, they’ll also want to hear about the person standing up there and not just some comedian pretending to be funny. Tell the bride how close you are, tell her why you feel she deserves someone like him that will love her as much as he does, and try not to cry while saying all of this.

● Don’t make it about you : You’re not the star of this show so try not to talk too much about yourself and your own feelings for the bride. This is a time for her, make sure she hears how happy you are for her no matter what happens in the future with her and her new husband.

● Don’t be offensive : If you have any jokes that you think may be a little on the edgy side, make sure they are appropriate for your audience. Don’t tell any jokes about race or sexual orientation at a wedding and if you do have to go there, remember who is likely going to laugh; you.

● Practice : Make sure you practice your maid of honor speech in front of someone you trust because you’ll want to see how others will react to your humor. If it’s not funny, scrap it and be prepared to tell the bride how much she means to you in a different way.

● Be comfortable : When it comes time for the maid of honor speech, be sure that you are in a place where you feel completely comfortable like at home or some place in your home town where you’re comfortable and not nervous because everyone around you knows how funny you are. If that’s not the case, then make sure to get there early with a glass of water or a calming beverage so you can be ready by the time it is your turn.

● Memorize it : If you feel comfortable doing so, try memorizing your maid of honor speech. This will also help you get rid of any jitters that you may be feeling as well!

● Give it a rest : If this is your first time speaking in front of people, don’t go overboard. Limit yourself to just one or two maid of honor jokes and then save the rest for a time when you’re more comfortable being the center of attention.

● Talk loud enough : No matter what size crowd or how big the room is, try to make sure that they can all hear you with ease. This means speaking up loud and clear so everyone’s attention isn’t on your voice but your actual words.

● Don’t forget about the groom : While it may be easy to just focus on the bride, don’t forget that there is a groom there that you may have to talk about as well. Make sure that he hears how great of a guy he is and all the things that you know he’ll be good at in the future.

● Don’t be nervous : While it’s great that you care about giving a good maid of honor speech, don’t let it get to you too much because if you are really nervous then your speech will reflect that as well.

● Don’t be a downer : If you know something about the bride and groom, keep it to yourself. Nobody wants to hear anything bad about their newlywed friends so try your best not to say something that’s going to make people feel sad or even worse; upset with you! Just give all the positives and leave it at that.

● Be yourself : If you are a funny maid of honor, then be funny! If you’re not, then just go with what feels natural to you because if the bride and groom love you for who you are, everyone else will too.

● Don’t take it so seriously : This is your friend’s big day but don’t worry about it too much because if you do, you may end up putting too much pressure on yourself and then your maid of honor speech will suffer because of it.

● Don’t overdo the brag : If the bride is your best friend, then she already knows all the amazing things that you have done and how proud you are of her. When it comes to the maid of honor speech, save your bragging for other times when it will be appropriate and not in this case when the bride has just gotten married!

● Skip the drama : It’s not a big deal if you accidentally forget someone’s name or get nervous when you’re up on stage giving your speech. The bride and groom will not only understand but they’ll also love you a lot more for it because everyone gets nervous, especially on the big day!

● Don’t talk badly about others : Nope, you don’t want to do this because nobody likes that type of person. Even if someone in the bridal party or even the bride and groom aren’t your favorite people, just skip their names in your speech.

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Funny Maid of Honor Speech Examples From A Stand Up Comic

**Warning…Kerry is a stand up comic, so some of these we probably wouldn’t say out loud, but take these examples and make them your own…maybe a little more appropriate for the big day! ha!

Without further ado, here is our stand up comic friend Kerry, to help you out!

I remember hearing about someone’s maid of honor speech and how funny it was. I think it had to do with not being at all surprised that the bride picked her best friend! It wasn’t exactly what most people would say, but it had all of us in stitches.

I’m sure you want your maid of honor speech to be perfect, so take a few moments to jot down some ideas on paper first. That way you can revise the speech until you are completely satisfied! Just remember – there is no right way to be funny. There is only your own way, which might not even involve a pun or punchline.

Funny Maid of Honor Quotes

• I’d like to take a moment to thank everyone who helped out with planning the Bachelorette Party. And I extra want to thank everyone who lied and told the groom we were scrapbooking.
• I still remember when the bride would throw on makeup and fix here hair before going out in public with the groom. He must be thrilled that she is now comfortable wearing jammies and a pony tail on their date nights.
• When the bride and groom first met, she asked if I thought he was too good looking for her. Silly, right? He’s not even good looking.
• I know the groom loves the bride for being so laid back and accommodating. He has no idea that she’s going to toss out his childhood action figures by this time next week.
• I am thrilled that my dear friend chose such an amazing man. You should’ve seen the cast of characters that came before him!
• The bride once told me that she loved how the groom was confident and didn’t let her boss him around. Don’t worry, groom, she’ll get there.
• I knew he was the one for her when she told me he was a school teacher. He must be pretty amazing for her to marry a man with that salary.
• It seems like only yesterday that the bride was out partying and dancing with a man in a fireman’s uniform. Wait, that was yesterday. That whole Bachelorette party is already a blur. 
• May the bride have a long happy marriage where she never wears any of the lingerie she received at her shower.
• I would love to be the first person to ask when you’ll be having a baby, but I’m pretty sure at least two people did so when the bride was still walking down the aisle.
• I have never known the bride to love anyone as much as she loves the groom. OK, maybe she has, but those guys thought she was bonkers. 
• From this day forward, you will never have to get another bikini wax. 
• The dear bride has a wonderful sense of humor. She said the funniest thing recently. What was it? Oh yeah, “You’ll wear that dress again one day.”
• I know the bride will love the groom in sickness and in health. Even if health means he becomes obsessed with CrossFit.
• It has been my honor to carry Kleenex, lip gloss, and an extra tampon for you today as you join your life with the man you love.
• The bride is the type of woman who’d drop everything to bail someone out of jail. You should all have her on speed dial. But not tonight. She’s busy.
• I know the bride loves you to the moon and back, but when you become parents, she’s gonna love that kid all the way to Mars.
• These two are so in love that they didn’t even consider a prenuptial agreement. But what would be the point anyway with all their student loan debt.
• I’m not saying that the bride changes her mind a lot, but I am going to hang on to the receipt for their wedding gift. 
• They like to tell people they met at work, but really they met on Farmers Only. Turns out the groom was entirely misinformed on what he thought a “backhoe” was.

• I am a tad nervous to speak in front of a crowd, so I’m picturing everyone in their underpants. On that note, check out the groom! Hubba hubba!
• The bride has always been like a sister to me. Look out, groom, she’s going to borrow all of your nicest heels.
• When these two first met on Tinder, she didn’t even mean to swipe right. She accidently sneezed when browsing the app. I, for one, am so happy she ordered extra black pepper on her lunch that day.
• I would do anything for the bride. I’m just glad that she now has a husband who can do most of it, though, so I can sleep in on weekends.
• I wanted to share the story about how much nicer the groom is than her last fiancé, but this morning she told me the groom didn’t know about him.
• I have seen this gal do a keg stand at a frat party and talk back to a cop. Congratulations, groom, on choosing her to be the mother of your children.
• It’s not that you’ll never be right again, groom, it’s that you’ll never be able to admit it.
• I have seen the bride at her worst, and I love her anyway. I can teach you how to do that too, groom, because it’s a comin’.
• This woman has always been my partner in crime. I’d love to share more stories but can’t on the advice of counsel.
• I will always be a sister to you. Unlike your actual sister who is already vomiting in the ladies’ room.
• I am beyond thrilled to be the one you chose to lift your dress so you can pee.
• When she first asked me to be her maid of honor, I said no. I didn’t think they were a good fit. So, um, yeah. Cheers.
• It is a rare occurrence that someone’s one night stand turns into a happy marriage. Hopefully not too rare.
• They say not to bring up exes in a maid of honor speech, but how else can I tell the groom what a vast improvement he is over those losers?
• For those who may not know me, no, I am not the bride’s good-looking sister. I’m her super good-looking best friend.
• The two of us have stuck together through thick and thin. After today, she has the groom to stick with her through thick.
• The groom is so wonderful that I didn’t even have to threaten him by saying, “If you hurt her, you’ll have me to deal with!”. I mean, yeah, I did threaten him. I just didn’t have to.
• I want to thank the bride for including me today. And for inviting her hot cousin who’s on leave from the Marine Corps. Save me a dance, sergeant?
• When she asked me to be her maid of honor, how could I say no? I mean, there’s an open bar. 
• Thank you for allowing me to say a few words. Most weddings don’t have a maid of honor speech, so that’s a little preview to who is in charge around here.

• The bride once said she wanted 5 kids. Not sure how many the groom wants. If 10 years from now they have 5 kids, we’ll know who wears the pants in this marriage: No one. 
• I know the two of you will never have to worry about finances because she’s never going to let you drop $500 on a PS5.
• The bride is strong-willed and won’t take flak from anyone. After all, I’m the one who told her not to marry this clown, yet here we are today.
• It’s odd to see the bride sipping water instead of her usual red wine. If you guys want to think it’s because she doesn’t want to stain her dress, then I won’t elaborate.
• There really is someone out there for everyone. I mean, if this guy can land a hottie like the bride, then there’s hope for the rest of you uggos.
• I’m so sorry for getting a little choked up. I always get this way after doing body shots out of a groomsmen’s navel.
• I’ve been given a long list of things that I am not to bring up during this toast. On that note, cheers.
• This has been such an amazing reception even though I didn’t get any of the bacon-wrapped shrimp.
• A word of advice: You never need to go to bed angry. Especially in this day and age when you can legally purchase edibles in most states.
• I promise I will make this short and sweet. I can tell the groom is looking for a good excuse to empty another glass.
• Some men find it important to marry a woman who takes good care of the home and does the cooking. Some men.
• I love the bride because she doesn’t care what anyone thinks as evidenced by her wearing white today.
• I knew the bride was really into this guy when she stopped taking her birth control by the second date.
• The bride is an amazing woman. When you drink yourself sick, she’ll make sure you’ve had some Gatorade before she laughs at you.
• At first, I thought the bride just wanted to throw a wedding. Then when I learned that the groom was unemployed, I knew she was doing this for love.
• It’s sweet to hear everyone wish you happiness today as if you won’t both be at each other’s throats once you have kids.
• The two of us have so many fond memories together. I’m so happy that she found the person who will hold her hair back after a night of partying for the rest of her life.
• I lived with the bride back in college. That’s how I know she’ll be a great wife. She won’t get on your case for not cleaning because she is an absolute slob.
• It is my duty as the maid of honor to ask that gal in the back who wore a white dress, “Who the heck do you think you are?”

• From this day on, the bride will never have to hide her feelings about how much time the groom spends playing Call of Duty.
• These two agree on so many things. If they can just figure out whose method of loading dishes is correct, then there’s nothing they can’t achieve.
• Before we toast, I want to remind everyone who hasn’t gotten them a gift yet that these two were too polite to ask for cash. But I’m not. So yeah, get them cash.
• The bride has never been one to back away from a challenge. That’s why she married a guy who needs so much work.
• Your wedding day may seem like the end of a journey, but the truth is your journey is just beginning. Planning the wedding was the easy part.
• I tried to talk them into running away to marry in Vegas, but these two really wanted to waste a ton of money on overcooked pork medallions. 
• Today marks the day that the both of you realize all those little annoying quirks you each have are here to stay.
• From now on, the bride will never have to laugh at the groom’s lame dad jokes. She can roll her eyes with the rest of the world.
• I pray that years from now, the two of you have a good laugh when you look at the China you never used and remember the argument you had when choosing it.
• Your marriage marks the day when you finally understand why couples get so excited about weekend trips to Bed, Bath, and Beyond.
• It takes some nerve for a bride to choose an old college roommate as her maid of honor.
• I appreciate the couple’s desire to keep costs down, but an outdoor wedding in Phoenix in June is pushing it. 
• This wedding is a long time coming. They had hoped to marry during the peak of Covid so that they could keep the headcount low.
• I know the bride just adores the groom. She is marrying him even after meeting his crazy mother.
• I was a tad nervous to give this toast today, but when I saw that the groom’s dad brought his new 25-year-old girlfriend as his date, I figures there’s nothing I could do to make this more awkward.
• I want to start by saying that the bride will not be doing a bouquet toss today. She doesn’t want any of you to have to plan a wedding during an international pandemic.
• The bride looks like an absolute princess today. I sure hope she doesn’t bail by midnight and leave behind one of her expensive shoes.
• Sorry for the late start today. The bride was not feeling well. She totally wasn’t in the restroom saying “I can’t go through with this” while her mother cried.
• As most of you know, it is my duty as maid of honor to collect money for those making bets against how long it’ll be before they’re sleeping in separate beds. Over/under is 6 months. 
• I always knew these two would end up taking that walk down the aisle. Most people thought he’d never propose to the woman who drank herself sick on their first date.

• The bride and groom are such a great fit. As you can tell by the decorations today, these two are both very, very frugal.
• Just remember, groom, that you think her little quirks are adorable. You forfeit the right to complain about them when they inevitably get on your nerves.
• I’m delighted to be here today as the maid of honor. After all, I’m the one who convinced her to go out with the groom in the first place. 
• I knew it was true love when she learned he was a Steelers fan and wanted to marry him anyway.
• Irregardless of what the bride told you, me has always been a good public talker.
• I never thought I’d be here celebrating this marriage. After all, the night they first met, she’d been eyeballing his roommate.
• When the bride told me she was getting married, I assumed it was because she wanted to throw a party using all those great tips from Pinterest. After meeting the groom, I think I’m right.
• I am so happy that these two married for love because considering how much time they spend in the sun, their looks will not last.
• Before we raise our glasses, I promised the groom’s Aunt Pat that I’d announce that she didn’t get any of the sausage-stuffed dates.
• I want to make sure that everyone has a drink in their hand before I get started. Because if you guys aren’t drunk, then I won’t seem very funny.
• I know the groom dearly loves the bride because he saw those pictures of her before she lost the weight, and it didn’t scare him off.
• Most women say they’d love their husbands even if he was chubby and balding. I know that’s true for the bride because he already is.
• I can’t wait to call you two up in 78 days to tell you that your marriage has outlasted most of the Kardashians’. 
• When these two first got together, they bought the most adorable dog. I hope I’m on the short list to take him in when they have kids and can’t stand him any longer. 
• I don’t know the groom that well, but based on his taste in women, he must enjoy Harry Potter and stories about what her cat did this weekend.
• I’d like all the groom’s friends to know how much the bride enjoys spending time with you. Remember that when he flakes on plans and blames her.
• I have so enjoyed celebrating with these two today, but I would like to announce that I am busy on whichever weekend you choose to have a gender reveal party.
• I just know that the groom will make a wonderful father. He already has a terrible sense of humor. 
• What a lucky man the groom is! He leaves here today with my fantastic friend as his wife. She leaves here today with some flowers that will be dead by morning.
• These two are such a progressive couple who don’t believe in gender roles. That’s why he does all the cooking and not because she doesn’t even know how to turn on the stove.

No matter what, remember to never embarrass the bride or groom, and keep it about them. Know your audience, so you aren’t left with awkward silences and feeling stupid. The Maid of Honor speech is an honor to give, just make sure the humor matches the tone of the wedding and the audience.

Sara, a seasoned expert in wedding planning and date ideas, brings a wealth of experience to our couples blog. With a background in the television industry and hands-on involvement in a dozen weddings, including working as a wedding assistant on "My Fair Wedding with David Tutera," Sara has an innate understanding of the magic that makes weddings truly special. Growing up with four sisters has given her unique insights into the dating world, making her a go-to source for practical and heartfelt dating advice. Her knowledge and enthusiasm make her the perfect guide for couples seeking to infuse their relationships with creativity and love.

120 Maid of Honor Jokes for Speech (Funny Examples)

• by Marisa Jenkins
• October 29, 2023
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Everyone in the bridal party, be it a bridesmaid or maid of honor , has a crucial role to play in the wedding. They are there to assist the couple in everything wedding-related: planning, celebrating, and everything in between.

As a maid of honor, one of your most meaningful tasks is to give a speech at the reception. There are plenty of directions you can go with your speech — sentimental, hopeful, witty, and so on. If you want to write a funny speech , below are some jokes to make it even more humorous. 

Maid of Honor Jokes for Speech to Make Everyone Giggle

Maid of honor jokes about memories and misadventures.

As the bride’s maid of honor, you most likely have an arsenal of funny, awkward, or downright embarrassing memories. You can incorporate a few anecdotes into your speech for the reception to get some laughs out of the newlyweds and your guests.

• “When [the couple’s names] asked me to prepare a speech for the reception, they specifically asked me not to tell any humiliating stories. So I thought, ‘Why should I bother writing a speech, then?’ That’s all I have for you all, have a great night!”
• “[Bride’s name] told me at the last minute to remove anything embarrassing or inappropriate in my speech, so here goes. I can’t talk about her exes, or that one time she got black-out drunk in Ibiza, or that time she hit on our college professor…”
• “Remember the time she cut her own bangs before picture day? Let’s just say she was way ahead of the DIY trend! Thank God she decided to splurge on a wonderful hair and makeup team for today…”
• “We used to play house a lot as kids. Now she gets to play house for real with a slightly bigger budget!”
• “She was the only kid who thought cooties were a type of cookie. And she wondered why boys kept running away!”
• “Our childhood lemonade stand was a flop, but look at her now, turning lemons into champagne!”
• “Remember our attempts at a rock band? [Bride’s name] is still the only person I know who can play air guitar out of tune.”
• “She’s always been a trendsetter. She wore mismatched socks before it was cool… or maybe she just couldn’t find the matching ones. I don’t know. Let’s ask her mom about it.”
• “I remember when she was three years old, she thought her shadow was a ghost. She’s a born entertainer!”
• “She believed she could talk to squirrels. That was an interesting phase. Now, she’s found someone who speaks her language. Congrats to both of you!”
• “Remember the time she mistook a Halloween party for a formal event? She still rocked that vampire costume! That felt like a true Mean Girls moment.”
• “I remember when we had a slumber party with our cousins. Her attempt at a surprise breakfast in bed turned into a fire alarm test. But hey, the firefighters were nice! And at least we learned the fire alarm worked!”
• “Our newlyweds are so adventurous they decided to take us on a road trip without a map… or cell service. At least we didn’t wither away in the outback! And we found the best tacos in town!”
• “Remember our ski trip a few years back? We didn’t end up doing much skiing, but we sure had a lot of snowball fights. I swear I still shiver because of those!”
• “[Bride’s name] loves throwing surprise parties. One time, she booked an Airbnb so she could surprise me. Turns out, she decorated and invited everyone to the wrong unit! Even the homeowners were surprised!”
• “Our last camping trip was cut short because we needed to find the nearest hospital. Someone, I’m not naming names, decided not to believe me when I said the plant was poison ivy, not regular ivy.”

Jokes About Wedding Planning and the Wedding Day

As a bridal party member, you likely had some involvement in the wedding planning process. Your maid of honor speech during the reception can include some insight into the entire process and the resulting magical day. Laughing about the stress can be a great way to look back on the months you spent pouring over details and technicalities!

• “Everyone, please raise your glasses for a toast. We need to recognize the people who made this amazing night possible. Please give a warm round of applause to the lovely bartenders at the open bar! You guys have changed my life for the better.”
• “The bride has been planning this wedding since she was five. The groom has been planning it since she found out the engagement ring price!”
• “Figuring out the seating chart was more complicated than a high school math problem. But don’t worry, there won’t be a quiz later!”
• “Where would [ the couple’s names ] be without the magical and effervescent Pinterest? It is truly the pillar of every engaged couple’s dreams. If you can only see how many wedding-related boards [ bride’s name ] has on her account.”
• “The bride’s been on a strict wedding diet of Pinterest, bridal magazines, and cake tastings !”
• “Invitations are the only part of the wedding where you can tell people where to go and what to do without offending anyone!”
• “They say marriages are made in heaven but so is thunder and lightning. Just kidding! The real storm was the RSVP list. I know which of y’all didn’t respond until the very last minute…”
• “I know I speak for [ the couple’s names ] when I say that “wedding budget” is just code for “how to spend a down payment on a house in 24 hours”!
• “[ The couple’s names ] wanted a small, intimate wedding, but they both have big, loud families . Good luck to the DJ tonight!
• “The wedding dress is beautiful, the flowers are stunning, the venue is picturesque, and the couple is… punctual! That’s a first for you guys! Let’s give them a round of applause!”
• “They say rain on your wedding day is good luck, but what about a bird flying into the reception hall? Extra good luck?”
• “Today is the happiest day of our lovely newlyweds’ lives… until they get the catering bill! Or until something inevitably goes wrong! Or both!”
• “I’ve heard of getting cold feet… but the groom seemed to be wearing snow boots when he walked down the aisle! Care to explain, [ groom’s name ]?”
• “The bride and groom are like a pair of scissors—effective together but dangerous if separated. Especially when it comes to the wedding cake!”
• “The real heroes of tonight are definitely the catering team. Where would we be without the delicious appetizers or the scrumptious meal? We’d all be hangry!”
• “Wedding planning: where the “I do” turns into “What have we done?” real quick!”
• “The couple’s love is never-ending, much like the endless group texts about wedding planning details.”
• “Today is the day the bride and groom will remember forever, and it’s also the day their bank account would like to forget!”
• “I never knew the bride was fluent in a second language until wedding planning began. It turns out she’s fluent in ‘Bridal-ese.’”
• “They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it takes an entire wedding party to hide the bride’s Pinterest from the groom.”
• “Wedding planning is where you learn your dream wedding and your wallet aren’t on speaking terms.”
• “Marriage is all about compromise. For instance, the bride wanted a gold wedding theme, and the groom preferred silver, so they compromised on platinum!”
• “Today, we raise a toast to the beautiful beginning of a lifetime of happy “we do’s” and even happier ‘yes, dear’s!”
• “Here’s to [ the couple’s names ]’s gorgeous wedding day: a brief reminder that eating, drinking, and dancing are all socially acceptable ways to cope with emotions!

Maid of Honor Jokes for Reception Speech About the Future and Married Life

Mark this once-in-a-lifetime moment with a playful jest about married life and the future that lies ahead of the newlyweds. A tasteful and well-executed joke in a maid of honor’s speech will balance out all the sentimentality and emotions of the day.

• “May your children have loving, kind, and, most importantly, rich parents. They deserve nothing less.”
• “I hope you cherish this wonderful wedding weekend you spent the last 10 months of your life planning. Tonight will be one of your last opportunities to party all night and ignore your responsibilities. Congratulations, though!”
• “They say married life is like a rollercoaster: there are highs, lows, and the occasional loop-the-loops. However, my biggest wish for you two is that all your ups and downs be isolated in the bedroom.”
• “Welcome to marriage, where the line that separates ‘soulmates’ and ‘cellmates’ is so blurred some people don’t even know it’s there.”
• “Getting married is like agreeing to an update for an app on your laptop without reading the terms and conditions. You’re essentially going in blind. But I know you two are adventurous, so congratulations on this one, guys!”
• “May God give you as many kids as you want. I don’t really understand why anyone would want to have kids, but I guess they are cute sometimes.”
• “They say a man stays incomplete until he finds the love of his life to marry. Once married, though, he is finished. Done for . Good luck, [ the groom’s name ]! I sincerely wish you the best.”
• “May “I do” not be the last thing you two agree on. Congratulations, Mr. and Mrs. [ the couple’s last name ]!
• “Once you start having kids, do know that I will ask you every day if I can borrow them. Your kids are going to be so spoiled by the best aunt to grace this world. Hey, I already have ideas for TikTok handles we can use for your babies. Let’s talk later, okay?”
• “I saw this quote from Eddie Cantor: Marriage is an attempt to solve problems together which you didn’t even have when you were on your own. I’d like to add to dear Eddie’s words: Marriage is also constantly attempting to solve problems of your own making.”
• “I heard that marriage kind of like a walk in the park… if that park had no paved paths, dog poop everywhere, and ticks waiting to bite you.”
• “I will end with this quote from the iconic Socrates: By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy. If you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”
• “I once heard that marriage is full of surprises. Maybe one day, you’ll find out your spouse has a talent that they’ve hidden from everyone. Maybe one day, you’ll find a skeleton in their closet. You just have to take everything in stride.”
• “Today marks the end of their solo adventures and the beginning of their joint venture. And I don’t just mean a joint bank account!”
• “They say marriage is all about compromise. For instance, if [ bride’s name ] wants to watch a romantic comedy and [ groom’s name ] wants to watch an action film, they compromise and watch the romantic comedy.
• “Marriage is when a man and woman become one; the trouble starts when they try to decide which one.”
• “Remember: the most effective way to remember your wedding anniversary is to forget it once!”
• “The secret to a happy marriage… well, it remains a secret. I’m sure you’ll be fine, though!”
• “The future is bright for these two, much like [ groom’s name ]’s head under the spotlight! Just kidding.”
• “Their future is as sweet as the bride’s love for chocolate. And let’s just say, that’s a LOT of sweetness.”
• “Here’s to their journey into the future, may your love grow stronger with every passing argument over who left the lights on!”

Jokes About the Bride or the Groom and Their Dynamic

Before entering a relationship, the bride and groom were individuals with their own personalities and quirks. You can playfully and jokingly point these out in your wedding reception speech as a maid of honor.

• “Just remember: you should probably not question your partner’s choices. After all, they chose to marry you. Think about that for a moment.”
• “As Rita Rudner once said: marriage is so great because you have finally found that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.”
• “I have one last thing to say to our dapper groom, [ the groom’s name ]. I’d be careful of what you say to my sister if I were you. Only I am allowed to bully her and make her cry, do you understand? I’ve been training karate for years, so do not cross me.”
• “Being with you two every step of the way while you plan your wedding was a real eye-opener. I’ve seen both of you get hangry on separate occasions. I know it’s real love because not once did you rip each other’s throats when the other is being grumpy.”
• “I hope we have a historian here with us tonight because someone needs to get this moment in the history books. It’s the first time [ the couple’s names ] ever refused a drink from an open bar. I’m getting emotional just thinking about it.”
• “Oh, gosh. I don’t even know how to begin. [ The bride’s name ] has been my best friend , my sister from another mother, for almost two decades. She is such a loving, caring, kind, gorgeous, talented, generous — wait, that’s not true, why did you include that here?”
• “Hey, [ the bride’s name ], good call marrying an archaeologist! You can sleep well at night knowing the older you get, the more interested [ the groom’s name ] will be in you.”
• “The bride looks absolutely stunning today, and the groom looks absolutely stunned!”
• “I heard [ bride’s father’s name ] describe [ bride’s name ] as someone who lights up the room. I completely agree! She does it by flicking a switch… because she’s absolutely afraid of the dark.”
• “She’s always been environmentally conscious, especially when it comes to recycling… her wardrobe for every date night!”
• “She believes in a balanced diet… a cupcake in each hand!”
• “She’s a planner. She had their wedding day planned out before the groom even proposed. Talk about foresight!”
• “Our groom is a man of few words… but he sure does have a lot of opinions on football.”
• “[ Groom’s name ] is as romantic as a love song, just one performed by a heavy metal band. So there’s a lot of screaming involved, too.”
• “They say opposites attract. [ Bride’s name ]’s a morning person; [ groom’s name ]’s not a person until morning!”
• “Mr. and Mrs. [ couple’s last names ], you complement each other perfectly. [ Bride’s name ], you’re the brains of the operation, and [ groom’s name ]… well, you’re really good with remote controls!”
• “They’re like a fine wine and cheese pairing, classy separately but a little cheesy together.”
• “They complete each other’s sentences, usually because one of them can’t remember what they were going to say. Some signs of aging we’re having, huh?”
• “They’re the modern-day Romeo and Juliet, only their families actually get along, and they both don’t die a tragic death in the end!”

Maid of Honor Jokes for Speech With Funny Advice

A wedding reception speech—whether or not you are a maid of honor—is a wonderful opportunity to share some advice for the newlyweds. You can add humor to the wording and your delivery; doing so will uplift the mood of your guests and the couple.

• “Having a short memory is a double-edged sword. Sometimes, it’ll make your life the absolute worst: overlooking a chore, putting your keys somewhere that is not your key holder, and whatnot. But sometimes, having a short memory is essential. Maybe it’s best to forget that one disagreement or that one fight. My point is to use your memory wisely.”
• “A lot of people say that for a happy marriage, all you need is love. I disagree. You also need patience, a great sense of humor, and a bottle of wine every now and then.”
• “Remember the golden rule of marriage: own up to your mistakes and shut up when you’re right.”
• “[ The groom’s name ], once you accept that [ the bride’s name ] is always right, I guarantee you will have a long, happy, and conflict-free marriage.”
• “Ruth Bader Ginsberg once said, ‘In every good marriage, it pays sometimes to be a little deaf.’ In my opinion, I think it also pays to be a little mute sometimes, or blind — actually, it pays to shut off at least one of your senses sometimes.”
• “Marriage is equal parts give and take. You either give something to each other after asking for it multiple times or just take it without the other’s permission.”
• “Marriage is like a deck of cards, but you only start with two hearts and a diamond. As time goes by, you’ll find yourself looking for clubs and spades.”
• “Never go to bed angry. Stay up and plot your revenge. Just kidding!”
• “Never underestimate the power of telling your spouse, ‘You’re right, I’m sorry.’”
• “For a happy marriage, have a shared checking account and an undisclosed chocolate stash. Or any midnight snack of choice. Trust me, you’ll need it.
• “A successful and healthy marriage requires falling in love with each other many times—always with the same person, of course! Don’t fall in love with someone else, that’ll be bad.”
• “Marriage is like fine wine, it gets better with age… most of the time. Sometimes, old wine just makes you dizzy. I’m praying that your marriage is the good type of old wine, though!”
• “Always hold each other’s hands, even if it’s just a romantic walk to the fridge at midnight.”
• “Keep the spark alive. One idea: do the dishes even when it’s not your turn! Revolutionary, I know!”

Self-Centric Maid of Honor Jokes for Your Reception Speech

Being chosen as a maid of honor is a fantastic feeling. However, it also entails a lot of responsibility and, unfortunately, stress. The reception is your chance to poke fun at or uplift yourself for your role.

• “A huge reason why [ the bride’s name ] and I are best friends is because we have the same sense of humor. We’re essentially 13-year-old boys in adult women’s bodies. So if you don’t find my jokes funny, you’re also saying [ the bride’s name ] isn’t funny. You wouldn’t insult a bride on her wedding day, would you? So you’re all morally obligated to laugh at my jokes.”
• “[ The bride’s name ] gave me several months to write a heartwarming and sentimental speech. I hope it isn’t obvious that I wrote my speech at the very last minute.”
• “When [ the bride’s name ] first asked me to give a speech at her wedding, I thought, wow! It would be an honor. Now that I’m standing in front of you all tonight, here at this lovely venue, I would say the honor is yours because I look absolutely stunning in this dress!”
• “[ The bride’s name ] and [ the groom’s name ], I want to congratulate you two for a lovely, majestic, and unforgettable wedding ceremony. Do know, however, that it will only get more incredible because of my speech.”
• “I heard that the majority of wedding speeches give advice to the newlyweds about married life. All I can give you are motivational quotes I see on Pinterest because I’m single, ready to mingle, and thus completely clueless about what it’s like to be married.”
• “To the people at the back, can you hear me? Well, actually, who am I kidding? Half of you probably don’t care about what I have to say, anyway. At least have the courtesy not to care in the back where you can’t hurt my feelings.”
• “People say two is better than one. Maybe they’re referring to marriage, about how couples can complete each other. But I don’t know, they might be talking about two maids of honor , am I right, [ the second maid of honor’s name ]? We’re definitely the highlight tonight.”
• “When I asked [ the bride’s name ] for advice about giving a speech, she told me to just be myself. But I thought that was such a bad piece of advice. I mean, we wouldn’t want everyone here to fall in love with me, would we?”
• “Last week, [ the bride’s name ] told me to try not to make the speech all about myself. And I was like, damn it! I had to rewrite my entire speech. So, thanks for that, [ the bride’s name ].”
• “Our lovely newlyweds wanted to go over my speech yesterday just so they can make sure that what I’ll be saying is appropriate. I thought, well, where’s the fun in that? So maybe I hid one or two pages from them yesterday… gotta keep them on their toes, am I right?”
• “Before I begin the wonderful speech that I totally did not write yesterday, I want you all to know that if you don’t want to clap or clink your glasses , I also accept cash and online transfers. My Venmo is written on the program.”
• “Watching you two get married earlier, I couldn’t help but wonder, “What’s so good about signing a piece of paper that binds you to another person for the rest of your life?” But then I look at my wallet on payday, and I understand just how happy a piece of paper can make you.”
• “Now that the ceremony is over, I’ve finally accomplished my most important role as the maid of honor: changing [ the bride’s name ]’s relationship status on Facebook to “Married.” You better get on that, [ the best man’s name ].”
• “Be a maid of honor, they said. It’ll be fun, they said. Try peeing in a floor-length dress!”
• “Everyone tells you how big of an honor it is to be chosen as a maid of honor. What no one tells you is how many stress dreams you get of the big day.”
• “I never knew I had a hidden talent for arts and crafts until I was up at 3 a.m. gluing tiny bows on bachelorette party favors.”

Word Play and Witty Maid of Honor Jokes for Speech

Sometimes, a good old pun can make your great speech even better. Feel free to add dad jokes and other witty plays on words to add humor and personality to your speech. These will get a laugh from everyone—from your youngest nieces and nephews to the uncles and grandfathers in your audience. 

• “You know it’s been an emotional day when even the wedding cake is in tiers.”
• “Before I start with my speech, I want to share a little anecdote. I don’t know if many of you are aware, but our lovely [the couple’s names] found it difficult to get someone to speak at the reception.They said they called their funniest friend first, but they rejected the offer. Afterward, they asked their most charismatic friend, knowing they could really engage a crowd. That friend also said no. Their third call was to their most attractive friend, who said no, too.Finally, they called me. I felt bad for rejecting them three times already, and I figured, “Well, I’ve got nothing to lose, anyway.” And now, here I am.”
• “If marriage is the answer, what the hell was the question? Because it sure isn’t, ‘How do I save money for the future?’”
• “[ Groom’s name ] accidentally booked a romantic getaway for their first anniversary… in a haunted hotel. Thank you for at least not ghosting [ bride’s name ].”
• “Thanks a lot for hyphenating your last names! Now I can’t use any of those “she stole his last name” jokes…”
• “Marriage is a workshop… one works, and one shops!”
• “Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution? Just kidding, here’s to [ couple’s names ], may your marriage be as sweet as your wedding cake!”
• “Here’s to Mr. and Mrs. [ couple’s last names ], a picture-perfect couple… just don’t try to picture their credit card bills after this beautiful day!”
• “When [ bride’s name ] texted me if I can be her maid of honor… do you want to know what I said? I told her, ‘Aisle be there!’”
• “They say marriage is a three-ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering. But with these two, it’s nothing but endless marry-ment!”

Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, what is essential is that you write your speech from the heart. Be genuine with what you say. If there is a maid of honor joke for a speech above that you find funny — and the newlyweds will appreciate — then feel free to include it in your speech.

However, be mindful that some jokes might be inappropriate because of several factors. For instance, there might be children in attendance , or the guests are more conservative. Starting from the ceremony, observe the crowd then make adjustments if necessary.

Marisa Jenkins

Marisa Jenkins is a wedding planner and event coordinator. Her main goal for WeddingFrontier.com is to simplify the wedding planning process by sharing her years of expertise in the industry.

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How to write a funny maid of honor speech + 55 creative one-liners you can steal.

When it comes to wedding speeches , the Maid of Honor holds a special place – she's not only the bride's closest friend but also the one tasked with creating a memorable and entertaining speech. Infusing humor into your maid of honor speech can be a brilliant way to celebrate the couple's love and bring smiles to everyone's faces. In this guide, we'll show you how to write a funny maid of honor speech that will leave a lasting impression. Plus, we've got a treasure trove of 50+ funny quotes that you can steal to sprinkle that extra laughter!

Set the Tone: Warmth and Laughter

Begin your speech with a warm welcome and a touch of nostalgia. Recall heartwarming anecdotes that showcase your bond with the bride and her journey to find her perfect partner. Transition smoothly into humor by sharing light-hearted stories that highlight the bride's quirks or funny moments you've shared together.

Timing is Everything: Pace Out the Humor

Humor in your speech should be balanced and well-timed. Mix in funny anecdotes between heartfelt moments to maintain a good flow. Remember, you're celebrating love, so keep the humor light, and avoid jokes that could be misinterpreted or offensive.

Personal Stories: Highlight Fun Quirks

Share stories that bring out the bride's unique characteristics or the couple's funny experiences. Perhaps the time the bride got lost in her own hometown or when the couple's cooking experiments turned into hilarious disasters. These relatable anecdotes will have the audience laughing and nodding in agreement.

Teasing the Groom: Good-Natured Jabs

Gently teasing the groom can be a hit, as long as it's all in good fun. Highlight endearing qualities or quirks that make him the perfect match for the bride. Remember, the goal is to make everyone smile, including the groom!

Be Yourself: Authenticity Matters

While it's great to gather inspiration from quotes and tips, your speech should reflect your genuine feelings and relationship with the bride. Inject your personality into the speech, and don't be afraid to share your own heartfelt wishes for the couple's future.

Quotes to Steal: Example One-Liners to Pump Up Your Punchline!

Injecting well-chosen quotes into your speech can be a game-changer. Here are a few gems you can use:

• "Marriage: where 'I do' turns into 'What do you mean you don't?'"
• "They say marriage is a three-ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffer-ring!"
• "I've known the bride since we were kids, and let's just say, she's upgraded her partner, but not her taste in snacks."
• "To the bride and groom: May your love be as endless as the open bar."
• "It's no secret why the bride picked me as her maid of honor – I'm the keeper of all her embarrassing stories! But since I've promised not to exploit them... See me afterwards for all the dirty details!"
• "Marriage is all about compromise – like the groom's decision to let the bride pick the wedding colors."
• "Today we celebrate two people who have found their 'weird' in each other. Congrats!"
• "To the couple: Remember, a successful marriage is just two forgivers living under one roof."
• "They say opposites attract. In this case, it's the bride's love for Netflix and the groom's obsession with the gym."
• "Marriage is like a deck of cards – it all starts with a heart and a diamond but ends up needing a club and a spade."
• "The bride and groom are a match made in heaven. By that, I mean they both never answer their phones!"
• "As the maid of honor, it's my duty to remind the groom that the bride is always right – even when she's wrong."
• "To the couple: May your love be like Wi-Fi, strong and never failing!"
• "Today we're not losing a friend, we're gaining a live-in therapist for the groom!"
• "Marriage is like a walk in the park – Jurassic Park, that is."
• "May your love be as everlasting as the wedding leftovers in my fridge."
• "The bride once told me she'd marry for money. Well, here's hoping she found it!"
• "Love is sharing your popcorn." - Charles Schultz
• "A toast to the newlyweds: May your love be like fine wine – improving with age and causing no hangovers."
• "Marriage advice: Keep your spouse happy and your wine glass full."
• "To the groom: Remember, happy wife, happy life. And the wife's happiness is directly proportional to the size of the diamond!"
• "If the couple can survive wedding planning, they can survive anything – even assembling IKEA furniture together."
• "Here's to love: the only thing stronger than the bride's opinion on the wedding cake."
• "Today we celebrate the couple's love story – a tale of two people who said they were 'just friends' until they realized Netflix counted as a third wheel."
• "The bride and groom have shown us that true love is sharing the TV remote without complaint."
• "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." - Mignon McLaughlin
• "Let's raise our glasses to the groom: thanks for convincing the bride that 'organized chaos' is a decorating style!"
• "Marriage is like a walk in the rain – wet, unexpected, and sometimes you step on something squishy."
• "The bride and groom are so in love, they even finish each other's… leftovers!"
• "Marriage is finding that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life." - Rita Rudner
• "Here's to love: the only force that can make the groom stop playing video games."
• "To my bestie: I've always known you're the star of your own rom-com, and today, the sequel begins!"
• "To the couple: May your love be like a smartphone – always charged and never disconnected!"
• "To the groom: Congrats on officially getting a lifetime subscription to my best friend's quirks!"
• "Today we celebrate the couple's love – a bond stronger than the groom's urge to leave his socks everywhere!"
• "A toast to the couple: May your marriage be as long and joyous as the wait for the cake to be served!"
• "Marriage is like a roller coaster ride – sometimes thrilling, sometimes terrifying, but always better when you're holding hands."
• "Here's to the bride: a woman who finally found someone to laugh at her jokes!"
• "To the groom: They say a man is incomplete without a wife – and you're about to be totally complete!"
• "To the bride: You're not just gaining a husband, you're gaining a permanent roommate who will finally understand why your closet needs three sections!"
• "To the couple: May your love be as endless as the list of chores the groom has yet to learn!"
• "Marriage is like a garden – you need to water it, nurture it, and occasionally pull out the weeds (or socks)!"
• "Today we celebrate the union of two people who are as perfect together as peanut butter and jelly – and just as messy!"
• "Cheers to my partner in crime: I've seen your relationship from day one, and let's just say, I've got some stories that would make great blackmail material!"
• "They say that behind every great man is a great woman. In this case, the bride is just hoping the groom remembers to take out the trash!"
• "To the bride: You've always had a knack for finding the perfect accessory – now you've just added a groom to your collection!"
• "They say best friends share everything – and today, my secrets about you are officially shared with the groom!"
• "Here's to the bride: May she be as happy with the groom as she is with her online shopping orders!"
• "Marriage is like a box of chocolates – sweet at first, but sometimes you get the one filled with nuts!"
• "To my bestie: Today, we're not just celebrating your marriage, we're celebrating the fact that someone else will now have to deal with your indecisiveness!"
• "The bride and groom are like the perfect cup of coffee – strong, warm, and occasionally keeping each other up all night!"
• "To the groom: They say love is blind, but I think you're in for a real eye-opener!"
• "To the bride: You're about to enter a new chapter where 'His and Hers' become 'Ours and Ours' – especially when it comes to closet space!"
• "To the bride: May your marriage be as strong as your love for pizza!"
• "To the groom: Welcome to a lifetime of deciphering the intricate codes of my best friend's shopping wish list!"

Writing a funny maid of honor speech requires a delicate balance of wit, charm, and heartfelt sentiment. By incorporating carefully chosen quotes and personal anecdotes, you can craft a speech that leaves the audience in stitches while celebrating the love story before them. Remember, a smile might be the best gift you can give the newlyweds, and your funny maid of honor speech will surely create cherished memories for years to come.

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How to Write a Funny Maid of Honor Speech

Craft the perfect maid of honor speech blending humour and sentiment with these expert tips. Learn how to create laughter-filled memories!

Introduction

Being maid of honor gives you a wonderful opportunity to celebrate your friend (or sister!) and bring joy to their wedding day. A speech filled with humor and heartfelt sentiment is the perfect recipe! With some preparation, you can wow the guests with a hilarious and touching toast.

Crafting a great (and funny!) maid of honor speech takes a bit of thought and planning. If you're struggling to find your funny bone, consider using Wordwell's AI speechwriter . Answer a few questions about the happy couple and you'll get a personalized draft to work from. Our editing tools help you customize the speech until it's just right. It's a great way to overcome writer's block and deliver a truly memorable toast!

Ready to tackle it yourself? Follow our six top tips to write a maid of honor speech that strikes the perfect balance between heartwarming and entertaining, with bonus quotes and funny one-liners.

Expert Tips for Funny Maid of Honor Speeches

Tip 1. know your audience - this is key for humor.

The key to a truly side-splitting maid of honor speech is understanding who you're speaking to.  The guests will likely be a mixed crowd of family, friends, and maybe even colleagues of the happy couple. Tailor your humor to suit the audience.

• Playful Teasing: If you have a close bond with the bride and her partner, and everyone is comfortable with some good-natured ribbing, a few funny stories about their quirks or mishaps can get the laughs rolling.
• Avoid Sensitive Topics:  Steer clear of inside jokes that exclude guests (especially family members!) and topics that might be considered embarrassing, crude, or offensive.
• Age Appropriateness: Consider the age range of the guests. Will there be many children and older relatives present? Adjust your jokes accordingly!

Remember, you want your humor to be inclusive and lighthearted. The goal is to make everyone laugh along with you, not at the expense of the bride or her partner.

Tip 2. Share Amusing and Endearing Anecdotes

Sprinkle your speech with funny and touching stories that highlight your bond with the bride and showcase her relationship with her partner. The best anecdotes are concise, focus on humorous or unexpected twists, and build up to a satisfying punchline.

• Focus on the Couple: Choose stories that celebrate the bride and her partner, capturing their personalities and love story.
• Keep It Concise: Avoid rambling; a quick, well-timed story is best. Highlight the absurdity, the awkwardness, or the unexpected twist in your tale.
• Timing is Key: Use pauses to create impact and deliver punchlines confidently. A little practice will make this feel natural.
• Be Positive: Make sure your stories paint the bride (and anyone else you mention) in a positive, endearing light.

Example: "Remember that time [bride's name] convinced us that dressing up in our most embarrassing outfits from high school was a fantastic idea for a night out? Let's just say her neon leggings and oversized scrunchie were a sight to behold...especially when we bumped into her new boss...from a job she started that week...though they thought our gear was classic! That adventurous spirit is just one of the reasons why [bride's name] is so fun to be around, and something that [Partner's name] most loves about her."

Important Note:  Always make sure your stories paint the bride (and anyone else you mention) in a positive, endearing light while still being humorous. If in doubt, leave it out!

Tip 3. Incorporate Quotes and Sayings for Humor and Depth

Sprinkling in funny or meaningful quotes can add a dash of wit and wisdom to your speech. Here's how to find and use them effectively:

• Humor or Sentiment: Decide whether your goal is primarily to get a laugh or to make a heartfelt point. This will guide your quote choice.
• Source it Right: Use quotes from renowned comedians, movies, literature, or even pop culture for humor.  Opt for quotes about love, friendship, or life's journey for sentiment.
• Relevance is Key: Choose quotes that are relevant to the bride and her partner's relationship, personalities, or values.
• Short and Sweet: Opt for short, easily digestible quotes. Long-winded ones can lose the audience's attention.
• Set it Up:  Briefly introduce your quote with a sentence explaining its context or connection to your point.
• Funny: "A good marriage is one where each partner secretly suspects they got the better deal.” – Unknown
• Sentimental: "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Where to Find Great Quotes:

• Quote Websites (BrainyQuote, Goodreads Quotes)
• Movies & TV Shows
• Books the couple loves
• Internet searches with keywords like "funny marriage quotes" or "heartfelt friendship quotes"

Pro Tip: Use quotes sparingly!  One or two well-chosen quotes add impact.  Too many scattered throughout your speech can become a distraction.

Tip 4. Master Pacing and Timing

The pace and timing of your speech are just as important as the content itself!  Here's how to ensure your speech flows well and keeps the audience engaged:

• Varied Rhythm:  Mix things up! Alternate longer, heartfelt moments with shorter, punchier jokes and anecdotes. This keeps the audience engaged and avoids monotony.
• Strategic Pauses: Use short pauses for emphasis and impact. A pause before a punchline builds anticipation, while a pause after lets the audience laugh.
• Don't Race: Speak clearly and at a moderate pace. Rushing makes you harder to understand and diminishes the impact of your jokes and emotional moments.
• Time It Out:  Rehearse your speech with a timer. This helps you get a sense of your overall pacing and identify sections you might want to trim or expand.
• Room for Flexibility:  Be prepared to adjust your pace slightly on the day depending on the audience's reactions and the general energy of the room.

Pro Tip: Record yourself practicing! Listening back helps you pinpoint areas where you might want to adjust your pacing for maximum impact.

Remember, a well-paced speech keeps the audience engaged and emotionally invested. Take your time, breathe, and enjoy sharing this special moment with your loved ones!

Tip 5. End on a Sentimental Note

After all the laughter, it's crucial to wrap up your speech with a heartfelt sentiment that expresses your love and best wishes for the bride and her partner. Here's how to make it count:

• Sincerity is Key: Transition from humor to genuine emotion. Speak from the heart and express your gratitude for being part of their special day.
• Personalize It: Share a specific wish for the couple, a cherished memory, or a heartfelt observation about their love story.
• Choose Your Words Wisely:  Opt for simple, yet impactful language. Avoid clichés and focus on expressing genuine emotion.
• A Toast to the Future: Raise a glass to the bride and her partner. Wish them love, happiness, and a lifetime of joy on their journey together.

Example: "To [bride's name] and [partner's name], may your love continue to grow, your laughter never fade, and may you always find strength and comfort in each other. Cheers to a lifetime of love and adventure!"

Pro Tip: Practice this part of your speech extra carefully. As emotions run high, it's easy to get choked up. Taking a deep breath, a slight pause to compose yourself, and a genuine smile can help carry you through those tender moments.

Tip 6. Practice Makes Perfect

The more you practice your speech, the more confident and comfortable you'll feel on the big day. Here's how to make your practice sessions count:

• Out Loud and Proud: Don't just read your speech in your head.  Practice delivering it out loud as if you were in front of the wedding guests.
• Mirror, Mirror: Practice in front of a mirror to observe your body language, facial expressions, and overall delivery.
• Record Yourself:  Use your phone to record your practice sessions. Play it back to identify areas for improvement in timing, pacing, and emphasis.
• Feedback is Key: Ask a trusted friend or family member to listen to your speech and offer constructive feedback.
• Don't Overthink It: While practice is essential, avoid over-rehearsing to the point where your speech sounds robotic. Aim for natural and conversational delivery.

Remember, practice helps you feel prepared, polished, and ready to share your love and laughter with the happy couple and their guests.

Bonus: Perfect One-Liners for Funny Maid of Honor Speeches

Add a dash of humor with these 17 clever one-liners, perfect for a funny maid of honor speech that keeps everyone chuckling.

• "I must admit, I’m only here for the cake and the open bar. But since I have everyone’s attention, let’s talk about the bride and groom!"
• "[Bride] and [Partner] are the perfect couple – a match made in heaven. She's always right, and they know to never suggest otherwise!"
• "Marriage is like a roller coaster—you scream, you hold on tight, and sometimes you just have to throw your hands up in the air and enjoy the ride!"
• The secret to a long and happy marriage is…still a secret. But I’m sure [Bride] and[Partner] will figure it out!"
• "[Bride] and [Partner] have truly mastered the secret to a harmonious relationship: She's the head planner, and he's the head nodder!"
• "They say you don't marry the person you can live with – you marry the person you can't live without. Luckily for [partner's name], [bride's name] can't live without someone to kill spiders."
• "I've always known that [bride's name] has great taste. After all, she chose me as her maid of honor – and, of course, [partner's name] as her husband."
• "A toast to the newlyweds: may your love be as strong as [bride's name]'s Pinterest obsession."
• "I've always admired [bride's name] for her ability to turn any situation into a party. So, [partner's name], I hope you're ready for a lifetime of impromptu dance parties in your living room."
• "Now that [bride's name] has found her Prince Charming, it's time for me to stepdown as her fairy godmother."
• "Here's to [Bride] and [Partner]—a match made in heaven, like peanut butter and jelly, or online shopping and free shipping!"
• "They say you can't put a price on love, but clearly, they've never planned a wedding."
• "The best advice I can give to the newlyweds is to always remember the three most important words in a marriage: 'You're right, dear.'"
• "I’ve been told that a good speech should be like a mini-skirt: short enough to be interesting, but long enough to cover the essentials."
• "They say the key to a successful marriage is communication. Or was it separate bathrooms? Either way, good luck!"
• "[Bride] and [Partner] are like peanut butter and jelly: they're both great on their own, but together, they're truly irresistible."
• "[Bride], I've always known you were quite the catch, but [Partner], you're the one who managed to reel her in – hook, line, and sinker!"

Bonus: Amazing Quotes to Balance Humor in Funny Maid of Honor Speeches

A heartfelt quote can convey your love for the bride concisely. We've gathered 32 fitting quotes for humorous maid of honor speeches, adding elegance or nostalgia. These quotes will help you connect with listeners and create a lasting memory for the newlyweds.

• "A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you." – Elbert Hubbard ‍
• "There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate." – Linda Grayson ‍
• "Friendship isn't about who you've known the longest. It's about who walked into your life, said 'I'm here for you,' and proved it." – Unknown ‍
• "A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked." – Bernard Meltzer ‍
• "Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one.'" – C.S. Lewis ‍
• "True friends are like diamonds — bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style." – Nicole Richie ‍
• "A good friend is like a four-leaf clover; hard to find and lucky to have." – Irish Proverb ‍
• "A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad." – Arnold H. Glasow
• "Friends are the siblings God never gave us." – Mencius ‍
• "True friends are always together in spirit." – L.M. Montgomery
• "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle ‍
• "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." – Dr. Seuss ‍
• "Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction." – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry ‍
• "You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they're not." – Jodi Picoult ‍
• "The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds." – Nicholas Sparks ‍
• "Love is not just looking at each other, it's looking in the same direction." – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry ‍
• "Love is a friendship set to music." – Joseph Campbell ‍
• "The highest function of love is that it makes the loved one a unique and irreplaceable being." – Tom Robbins ‍
• "If you live to be 100, I hope I live to be 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without you." – A.A. Milne ‍
• "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." – Lao Tzu

Appreciation and Acceptance

• "The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves." – Victor Hugo ‍
• "Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." – Franklin P. Jones ‍
• "The best thing to hold onto in life is each other." – Audrey Hepburn ‍
• "Love is the flower; you've got to let it grow." – John Lennon ‍
• "Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down." – Oprah Winfrey ‍
• "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." – Mignon McLaughlin ‍
• "Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession, friendship is never anything but sharing." – Elie Wiesel

Shared Experiences and Laughter

• "In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter and sharing of pleasures." – Khalil Gibran ‍
• "The best mirror is an old friend." – George Herbert

In summary, funny maid of honor speeches hinge on finding the right balance between humor, sentiment, and genuine emotion. By following the tips and ideas shared in this guide, you'll be well-equipped to craft a speech that not only leaves the audience laughing but also touches the hearts of the newlyweds. The key to success lies in being authentic, speaking from the heart, and personalizing anecdotes and jokes to match the bride and her partner's personalities. With thoughtful preparation and your own unique flair, you'll deliver a maid of honor speech that will be cherished for years to come.

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Crafting a Memorable Maid of Honor Speech: Tips and Inspiration

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Crafting a memorable maid of honor speech can be both an honor and a daunting task. It’s a chance to celebrate the bride in a heartfelt way while engaging the audience. Whether you’re a seasoned speaker or feeling the nerves, this guide will walk you through simple and effective steps to create a speech that will leave everyone touched and smiling. Remember, the key to a great speech lies in authenticity and personal anecdotes – sharing genuine stories and emotions will make your words resonate with everyone present.

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Matron of honor speech.

In the realm of weddings, the roles of Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor are distinct yet equally significant. While the Maid of Honor is typically an unmarried woman, the Matron of Honor is a married woman, often a close friend or relative of the bride. The Matron of Honor’s speech is a cherished moment during the wedding reception, filled with heartfelt memories and well-wishes.

Difference between Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor:

• Maid of Honor: Unmarried woman chosen for her close relationship with the bride.
• Matron of Honor: Married woman, offering a unique perspective on married life and advice for the couple.

Ladies and Gentlemen, Good evening! For those of you who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the Matron of Honor and [Bride’s Name]’s older sister/best friend. It’s an incredible honor to stand here today beside my beautiful sister/best friend on this special day. Growing up, [Bride’s Name] and I shared countless memories—sleepovers filled with secrets, endless laughter, and a bond that only sisters/best friends can understand. From the moment she met [Groom’s Name], I saw a light in her eyes that was new and wonderful. Seeing her so happy and in love filled my heart with joy. As someone who has been married for a few years, I’ve learned that marriage is a journey filled with beautiful highs and challenging lows. [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], you two have a love that is strong and resilient. Cherish each other, communicate openly, and never stop laughing together. [Bride’s Name], you are my confidante, my rock, and my inspiration. [Groom’s Name], thank you for loving her the way she deserves. I’m excited to watch you two build a life filled with love and happiness. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and endless joy. Congratulations, [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]!

Hello everyone! For those who might not know me, I’m [Your Name], the Matron of Honor and [Bride’s Name]’s college roommate/best friend. I’ve had the pleasure of knowing [Bride’s Name] for [number] years, and I must say, standing here today is an absolute joy. When [Bride’s Name] told me about [Groom’s Name], she couldn’t stop smiling. In fact, she smiled so much that I thought she had taken up a new hobby—face exercises! But in all seriousness, from the first time I met [Groom’s Name], I knew he was the one. The way they look at each other, with so much love and understanding, is something truly special. Now, as someone who has been through the ups and downs of marriage, I want to offer a bit of advice: always remember to keep the humor alive. Laugh together, especially during the tough times. It’s amazing how a little laughter can ease even the most stressful moments. [Bride’s Name], you’ve been my partner in crime, my cheerleader, and my voice of reason. [Groom’s Name], you’re incredibly lucky to have her, and I know she’s just as lucky to have you. So, here’s to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]—may your life together be filled with love, laughter, and lots of happy memories. Cheers!

Tips for Writing a Matron of Honor Speech:

• Start with a Personal Anecdote: Share a meaningful memory or story that highlights your relationship with the bride.
• Express Genuine Emotions: Speak from the heart, expressing your happiness and love for the couple.
• Offer Words of Wisdom: As a married woman, provide thoughtful advice and encouragement for their journey ahead.
• Keep it Concise: Aim for a speech that is heartfelt but brief, typically around 3-5 minutes.
• Practice: Rehearse your speech to ensure a smooth delivery and to manage any nerves.

Best Friend Maid Of Honor Speech

After years of helping Maids of Honor deliver awesome speeches, founder of Speechy and author of ‘The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches’, Heidi Ellert-McDermott, shares her tips. The first three-fifths of the speech should include revealing, entertaining stories that give an insight into the bride and your relationship with her. Don’t be shy of some affectionate teasing.

We’ve made a research and after surveying over 50,000 brides, the maid of honor choice was crystal clear: more than 51% of them chose their best friend as their maid of honor. This role isn’t just about tradition—it’s about an unbreakable bond. A best friend’s speech resonates deeply, filled with shared memories and heartfelt wishes.

“If you haven’t had the chance to meet me yet, my name is X. (Bride) and I have been best friends for about 10 years. We met in high school gym class, and we couldn’t stand each other at first. As you can see, things eventually changed for the better. When (Bride) first asked me to be her Maid of Honor I felt flattered. But as the big day approached, she also told me to give a speech and a toast. I’m kind of the shy type and tried my best to get out of it. But, as (Groom) can tell you, it’s almost impossible to tell (Bride) No and get away with it. I wanted to tell you both how absolutely spectacular you look today. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a better-looking couple (except for maybe my boyfriend and I). And I hope you’re all having a lovely evening and I’d like to I wish you two all the love and happiness in the world. How blessed you are to celebrate your love on this beautiful day. I know there are many happy years ahead for you. Let’s all raise our glasses to the bride and groom, and wish them a lifetime of love and happiness!”

“I never had a sister, but (Bride) has been like a sister to me for all these years. We have similar tastes, we like similar clothes… I knew (Bride) had found the one when (Groom) walked into her life. Well, I’m fine with that – she saw him first! Actually, you could see that it was love at first, second, and third sight. He is her Prince Charming and it seems to me he gives her all she needs – a strong arm, a sympathetic ear, and his credit card.”

“I met (Bride) 6 years ago, as we tried to survive in the concrete jungle of NY. To thrive there, your tribe is essential. We are quite protective of each other, so I was a bit skeptical of (Groom) when he first came into the picture. But as time goes by, I can’t imagine anyone else but him to be her one and only. They say that anyone can be passionate, but it takes a real pair of lovers to be silly. Well, together, (Bride) and (Groom) are two of the goofiest people I know.”

“Hello everyone, my name is X, and by my dress, you can tell that I am the Maid of Honor today. For many years, we have been through thick and thin, and we have shared many memories. Today is another great day to add to our collection of sweet memories, so I’m really looking forward to the cake! I know you will have challenges as all relationships do. But you know what’s great about love and relationships and marriages? It is learning to grow together. Caring and sharing, and lots of tenderness. And maybe a bit of patience, or maybe even a lot. So let’s raise our glasses to the power of love, that makes all these wonderful things happen! Today you start a completely new chapter of your lives. What can I say? Never forget the two most important replies: ‘you’re right, dear’ and ‘okay, buy it’. Love and cherish each other! These two are a rare find in today’s world. Here’s to the groom who has a bride so fair, and here’s to the bride with a groom who is so rare.”

Check out this touching maid of honor speech to get inspired!

How to write a maid of honor speech for best friend?

• Introduction: Begin by introducing yourself and expressing how honored you are to be the maid of honor for your best friend.
• Fond Memories: Share special and cherished memories you’ve shared together, highlighting the bond you both share.
• Praise and Qualities: Speak about your best friend’s wonderful qualities, accomplishments, and the ways they have positively impacted your life and the lives of others.
• The Friendship: Emphasize the strength and significance of your friendship, and how it has grown over the years.
• Love and Support: Show appreciation for the bride’s partner and express your excitement about their journey together.
• Gratitude: Thank the guests for being a part of this special day and acknowledge the couple’s families.
• Toast: Raise a toast to your best friend and their partner, wishing them a lifetime of love, joy, and happiness together.

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Sister maid of honor speech.

According to our research, the second most popular choice for the maid of honor role is the bride’s sister. While tradition often places the best friend in the spotlight, a sister brings a unique depth to the role. Their shared history, growing up together, and the intrinsic bond make a sister’s speech incredibly touching. With a wealth of childhood memories and a deep understanding of the bride, a sister’s words carry immense emotional weight. When delivering the speech, draw upon this shared journey, express genuine emotions, and celebrate the love that binds not only siblings but also the newlyweds.

“As you may know, I am the bride’s younger sister. As we were growing up, I always wanted to be like her. Do the things she did, have the things she had –  I was probably a bit annoying, I always wanted to tag along. She taught me how to care, how to share, and how to try to reach for the stars. And as I grew up I wanted to be just as beautiful, caring, smart, and successful as her. (Bride) has always set an example for me to follow. Over the years she has shown me how to love and care. Today she shows me how to find a best friend, a partner, and a true lover, all in one person. I hope that I am just as lucky someday. It’s a great happiness to find someone who loves you as much as (Groom) loves my sister. Today, I want to thank both of you for being a part of my life, and to celebrate the love you both share. Like many sisters, we weren’t always best friends. I remember fights, screaming, and door-slamming, but I couldn’t have picked a better sister and a friend. Now that we are older, I can finally admit how happy I am to have grown up with such a great sister. Having a sister is one of the greatest things in life. Having a little sister is even better because I liked to be bossy. (Bride) always wanted to be a bit more like me… But actually, there is so much that I admire about her! I have watched her grow into the gorgeous woman that she is. It is a great honor for me to be her big sister!”

“First of all, I want to thank you all for being here with us today. As most of you know I am (Bride’s) sister. As we grew, we were as close as can be. We were always in trouble and I remember wondering if there will be a guy brave enough for someone as wild as my sister is. Well, here he is!My sis has just tied the knot. And I do believe that (Groom) is her perfect match. And today I realize that all she needs is a guy who will love her just the way she is, with all her craziness. Their commitment to each other inspires all of us because that’s what we call true love. So let’s raise our glasses to this amazing couple!”

“I want you to know that it took me 3 weeks to write this speech over and over again. And I couldn’t think of anything perfect enough to describe just how much I love you. I couldn’t find words to define the kind of sister you are to me. This is your big day and there is so much I want to say… I Googled a lot of maid of honor speech examples. The one piece of advice I kept finding over and over again was to start off with a quote. I did some research and I think their love is best described by Dr. Seuss: “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because the reality is finally better than your dreams.”

“Love, be true to her; Life, be dear to her; Health, stay close to her; Joy, draw near to her; Fortune, find what you can do for her, Search your treasure house through and through for her, Follow her footsteps the wide world over – And keep her husband always her lover. – By Anna Lewis, from “To the Bride”

How to write a maid of honor speech for sister?

• Introduction: Start by introducing yourself and your relationship with the bride, emphasizing your sisterly bond.
• Anecdotes: Share heartfelt and funny stories that highlight your sister’s qualities, achievements, or memorable moments you’ve shared together.
• Praise the bride: Compliment her personality, kindness, and the positive impact she has on others.
• Address the groom: Welcome him into the family and share a warm message about their relationship.
• Express gratitude: Thank the guests for attending and acknowledge your parents and other family members.
• Toast: Raise a glass and propose a heartfelt toast to the newlyweds and their future happiness together.

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Funny Maid Of Honor Speech

As a close friend of the bride, you would have a lot of material for wedding speeches bridesmaids, you just need to know how to put them all together. A few sample wedding speeches would give you the right kind of inspiration to get you on your way.

“Well, for those of you who I haven’t had the chance to meet yet, my name is [NAME]. [BRIDE] and I have been best friends for around the last 10 years. We first met at work one day, when she stole my carrot cake out of the fridge in the lunchroom and I threw away her pineapple yogurt cartons in revenge. I never had a sister, but [BRIDE] has been my stand-in sister for all these years. You could say we are even closer than sisters. We don’t fight like sisters, but we do wear each other’s clothes. Somehow she can still fit into my clothes but I can’t fit into hers anymore. I’m sure that is just because her dryer must be shrinking them. I knew [BRIDE] had found the one when [GROOM] walked into her life. Sure, she dated a few guys…after I was done torturing them. But [GROOM] was different. Unlike those jerks, he was kind and thoughtful. And he had a job. You could see that it was love at first, second, and third sight. Clearly [GROOM] is charming and it seems to me he offers her what she needs – a strong arm, a kind ear, and an American Express Black Card. I trust [BRIDE] and [GROOM] completely. I remember the time I asked them to watch my dog Benji when I went skiing in Europe. They were so nice to help out. I got back and Benji was so happy to see me. He was 40 pounds lighter and now he sees a therapist twice a week. Of course, we are having fun today. The test of this relationship will be over the long term. Will she still love [GROOM] when he leaves his underwear on the floor and cuts his toenails at the dinner table? The answer is no. God, please, disgusting. No, seriously, I know they will have challenges as all relationships do. And [GROOM] will learn what all men learn eventually. Keep your wife happy! Happy wife, happy life. No, really, what’s great about love and relationships and marriage is learning to grow together. The communication it takes to keep a marriage going is massive. But half the fun is working things out, talking, communicating, and launching kitchen appliances at each other – real love. Today has been a great day. Family and friends are here, the sun is shining and the champagne is flowing. And we’ll need it to get through this chicken dinner.”

Sometimes the hardest part of being a maid of honor to your bestie might be writing the wedding speech. Speaking with your friend face to face is always easy, however, making toasts or speeches in front of a group of people would be totally different and not as easy. This is why anecdotes and funny wedding speeches maid of honor could help you cruise through your speech while giving the wedding guests a laugh at the same time.

Funny Lines For Maid Of Honor Speech

• “I did some research on how to give the perfect maid of honor speech, and the first tip I found was to imagine everyone in their underwear. So, here we are, ladies and gentlemen, welcome to my nightmare!”
• “Being the maid of honor is like being a ninja. You have to be quick on your feet, prepared for anything, and ready to attack at a moment’s notice. But instead of throwing shurikens, I’m armed with embarrassing stories about the bride.”
• “As the maid of honor, I’ve been given the responsibility of keeping the bride calm and relaxed throughout the wedding planning process. Which is why I’ve been slipping her Xanax in her coffee every morning.”
• “When the bride asked me to be her maid of honor, I was thrilled. But then I realized it meant I had to give a speech in front of all these people. So if I faint halfway through, just drag me off stage and make it look like part of the act.”

Bridesmaid Wedding Speech

A list of example wedding speeches maid of honor could act as a template of sorts, helping you figure out just how to structure your bridesmaid speech.

Some of the best wedding speeches maid of honor, shine a light on the friendship between the bride and her maid of honor, as well as the beautiful personality of the bride. Most introductions begin with the story of meeting the groom for the first time. The intro is usually a good time to inject a funny quote, poem, or actual occurrence.

“Hi everyone, I am one of the bridesmaids at this wedding and I just wanted to say how happy and lucky I am to be here to celebrate [bride] and [groom’s] wedding with everyone. Today, everything looks effortless. From the beautiful wedding ceremony to the food, music, and decorations at this venue, every little detail was planned by [bride] and [groom.] And lots of time was spent shopping for dresses and doing fittings. When you get to peek behind the scenes, you see how much work really gets put into planning a wedding. There were a lot of late nights and hours spent working on this wedding and I have to say that it all turned out quite beautifully. Let’s all give a round of applause for [bride] and [groom.] [Bride] and [groom,] thank you for such a wonderful day. I raise my glass to the two of you and wish you nothing but the best in your life together. May each day be full of love and laughter between the two of you.”

Speeches are generally not as difficult as we imagine. So, you can relax, go through these samples, and create one of the best wedding toast speeches made of honor.

Short Maid Of Honor Speech Examples

“Greetings to all of you. I’m [Name], the maid of honor. I would like to express a few words about the lovely bride and groom. [Bride] has always been a wonderful friend to me, and it’s an honor to be her maid of honor today. And [Groom], I am delighted that you are joining our family. You two are a perfect match, and I wish you all the happiness and love in the world. Let’s raise a glass to the happy couple!”

“Hello, everyone. I’m [Name], the maid of honor. [Bride], you look breathtakingly beautiful today, and I feel grateful to be a part of your extraordinary day. [Groom], you’re a fortunate man! [Bride] is intelligent, gorgeous, and has a heart of gold. I am confident that you both will have a lifetime of love and happiness together. Congratulations on your special day!”

“Good evening, all. I’m [Name], the maid of honor, and for those who don’t know me, it’s lovely to meet you. I have known [Bride] for several years, and I have never seen her as happy as she is with [Groom]. You two bring out the best in each other, and it’s evident that you are destined to be together. It’s an honor to stand here today as a witness to your love and commitment. Congratulations to the joyful couple!”

“Hello everyone, I’m [Name], the maid of honor. [Bride], you’re my best friend and I couldn’t be happier to see you marry [Groom]. You two are perfect for each other and I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness. Congratulations!”

“Good evening, all. I’m [Name], the maid of honor, and I’m honored to celebrate [Bride] and [Groom]’s special day. [Bride], you’re my best friend and I’m so happy to see you with someone as wonderful as [Groom]. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness. Congratulations!”

“Hi everyone, I’m [Name], the maid of honor, and I’m thrilled to celebrate my best friend [Bride] and her groom [Groom]. [Bride], I’m so proud of you and I know that [Groom] is the perfect partner for you. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love. Congratulations!”

“Good evening, everyone! For those who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], and I have the incredible honor of standing by [Bride’s Name]’s side today as her maid of honor. First and foremost, I want to say how breathtakingly beautiful she looks tonight. As I stand here, I can’t help but reflect on the journey that led us to this moment. [Bride’s Name] and I have been inseparable since childhood, and I am beyond grateful for the memories we’ve created together. We’ve laughed together, cried together, and supported each other through life’s ups and downs. And now, as I watch her embark on this new chapter with [Groom’s Name], my heart overflows with joy. I’ve witnessed the love between them grow and flourish, and it’s truly something special. [Groom’s Name], thank you for making my best friend the happiest she’s ever been. To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your love continue to blossom and may your journey together be filled with laughter, love, and adventure. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness. Cheers!”

“Hello, everyone! I’m [Your Name], and I have the honor of being [Bride’s Name]’s slightly crazy, but totally awesome, maid of honor! When [Bride’s Name] asked me to take on this role, I knew it would be an adventure. From choosing the perfect dress to planning wild bachelorette parties, we’ve had our fair share of laughs and tears. And let’s not forget about all the emergency wedding dress fittings! But in all seriousness, I couldn’t have asked for a better friend. [Bride’s Name] is compassionate, hilarious, and always there to lend a helping hand. She lights up every room she enters, and I know that [Groom’s Name] feels incredibly lucky to have her as his partner in crime. [Groom’s Name], welcome to the family! We’ve all been waiting for someone to take on the challenge of dealing with [Bride’s Name]’s terrible dance moves, and it looks like you’re up for it. To the happy couple, may your love be as endless as the dance floor at the reception. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness, laughter, and love. Cheers!”

“Ladies and gentlemen, distinguished guests, and most importantly, the beautiful couple of the day, [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name]. I’m [Your Name], and I have the privilege of being [Bride’s Name]’s maid of honor. Today, I stand here with a heart full of emotions, for I’ve had the honor of witnessing the love between [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name] blossom into something truly extraordinary. Their love is like a gentle breeze, calming our souls and reminding us of the beauty in life. [Bride’s Name], you’ve always been the ray of sunshine in my life. Your kindness, grace, and unwavering love inspire all who know you. And now, as you embark on this new journey with [Groom’s Name], I know that you’ll be a guiding light in his life as well. [Groom’s Name], thank you for cherishing and loving [Bride’s Name] with all your heart. Your dedication to making her happy is evident in every glance you share. Let us all raise our glasses to the newlyweds. May your love continue to grow, like the mighty oak standing tall through the changing seasons. May your days be filled with laughter, and your hearts forever intertwined. Congratulations, and here’s to a lifetime of happiness and love!”

When delivering a speech, remember to speak from the heart, keep it concise, and maintain a positive tone. Make sure to customize the speech to fit your relationship with the couple and the overall vibe of the wedding.

How to write a short wedding speech?

• Start by introducing yourself and briefly mentioning your relationship with the bride. This will help the audience understand your perspective and why you were chosen to be the maid of honor.
• Take a moment to express your gratitude for being a part of the special day and your well wishes for the newlyweds.
• Say a few words about the bride and groom, highlighting their qualities and how they complement each other. You can talk about their journey as a couple and your hopes for their future together.
• End your speech by raising a toast to the newlyweds.

Maid Of Honor Toasts

One of the tips for giving good wedding speeches – to use a good toast. A toast is basically well wished to the newlyweds and their family, followed by a signal for guests to raise their glasses.

If you are unsure what exactly to say, here are some beautiful maid of honor toast examples to inspire you.

• “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight. – Philippians 1:9”
• “Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. – Ephesians 4:32”
• “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Here’s to love, laughter and happily ever after. – Romans 12:10″
• “As (Groom) and (Bride) start their new life together, Let’s toast to the new husband and wife!”
• “Here’s to the husband And here’s to the wife; May they remain Lovers for life.”
• “Here’s to the health of the happy pair; may good luck follow them everywhere; And may each day of wedded bliss be always as sweet and joyous as this.”
• “May you grow old on one pillow. May their joy be as bright as the morning, and their sorrows be shadows that fade in the sunlight of love.”
• “Let’s drink to love, which is nothing—unless it’s divided into two with someone you love. May your joys be as sweet as spring flowers that grow.”
• “As bright as a fire when winter winds blow; As countless as leaves that float down in the fall; And as serene as the love that keeps watching over us all.”

As the maid of honor, you need to find the one speech, that is short and sweet, and resonates with you! Great Maid of Honor wedding speeches often includes great quotes . Famous quotes have a way of painting a picture that our own words can’t seem to do on their own.

The Maid Of Honor Speech Template

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The biggest worry that most maids of honor have is freezing and forgetting the speech. A great solution is breaking your speech into sections and writing them down on cards that you carry with you. As you practice your speech it will be easier to memorize, and having all the words with you will keep you from panicking.

To get you started, stick to our basic Maid Of Honor Speech Outline:

• Introduce yourself (your name, your relationship to the bride, and how long you’ve known each other)
• Thank everyone involved in the wedding planning for their hard work
• Talk about the bride (why she’s a good person and friend, share a story to illustrate it)
• Tell the love story (The most romantic version of how the bride and groom met)
• Talk about the groom (Compliment him, why he’s great for your friend, what he does for her etc)
• Celebrate the couple (Why they’re so good together)
• Wish the newlyweds wonderful things for the future You could also insert a quote or a poem.
• Toast to the bride and groom – Raise your glass, say: “Here’s to the happy couple”, take and sip and voila! You’ve nailed it!

How To Write The Best Maid Of Honor Speech Ever

We’ve all seen when speeches go wrong, so how you do you get it right? After years of helping Maids of Honor deliver awesome speeches, founder of Speechy , Heidi Ellert-McDermott, shares her tips.

• Introduce yourself & explain how you know the bride.
• Include humor throughout. Yes, your speech should be a loving tribute to a true friend, but it’s also meant to entertain a crowd.
• Once you’ve written your speech, try to edit it in half. Promise, your speech will be better the punchier it is. No one ever wished a speech was longer!
• Pay tribute to the bride’s partner with than a cursory platitude. Prove you genuinely know and like them!
• Rehearse as often as you can but use notes on the day. Delivering the speech shouldn’t be a memory test.
• Remember to smile throughout your delivery. It’s a powerful (and infectious) communication tool.

Don’t

• Resort to cheesy cliches about love and friendship.
• Google gags.
• Thank anyone. It’s not your job.
• Take up more than 10 mins mic time.
• Pretend the bride is perfect. Instead cherish the crazy character she truly is, with all her quirks and eccentricities.
• Talk over laughter when you deliver your speech. If you’ve written a funny line, leave a pause after you’ve said it to allow your audience to get the joke and respond. Don’t start talking till the last giggle has died down.
• Drink more than a glass of bubbles prior to your speech. Alcohol actually increases the stress hormone.

How to Get Started Maid of Honor Wedding Speech

• Know Your Audience: Consider the bride and groom’s personalities, the formality of the event, and the sensibilities of the guests. Tailor your speech to the audience.
• Start Early: Begin writing your speech well in advance. This allows time for revisions and practice. Don’t wait until the last minute.
• Personalize It: Share anecdotes and stories that reflect your relationship with the bride. Highlight special moments and inside jokes.

Examples of How to Get Started:

• Opening with a Quote: Start with an inspiring or humorous quote related to love or marriage. For instance,

“Maya Angelou once said, ‘Love recognizes no barriers.’ Today, we’re here to celebrate a love that knows no bounds.”

• Anecdotal Introduction: Begin with a personal story about your friendship with the bride.

“As I stand here today, I can’t help but think back to the time we met in kindergarten. Who would’ve thought that our friendship would lead us to this beautiful wedding?”

• Express Your Gratitude: Begin by expressing your gratitude for being chosen as the maid of honor.

“First and foremost, I want to thank [bride’s name] for giving me the honor of standing by her side today as her maid of honor.” Remember, the key to a memorable maid of honor speech is sincerity and a touch of humor, sprinkled with personal anecdotes that capture the essence of your relationship with the bride.

How To End A Maid Of Honor Speech

When figuring out how to write a maid of honor speech, keep in mind that the latter part of the speech should be where you talk about the couple. In that vein, it’s also important to know how to end the speech flawlessly. Here are a few tips.

• Keep it short and sweet. While you might have a lot to say, there are time slots for each speech, so keeping things short would be best.
• Use sentimental wedding quotes. You might have a maid of honor speech template you follow but adding inspirational quotes to your speech is a great way to wrap things up.
• Finish with a toast. At the very end, it is customary to raise a toast to the happy couple.

10 Maid Of Honor Speech Tips

After years of helping Maids of Honor deliver awesome speeches, founder of Speechy and author of ‘The Modern Couple’s Guide to Wedding Speeches’, Heidi Ellert-McDermott, shares her tips.

Planning Your Speech

• Think of the speechwriting process as writing a dissertation (only this time, don’t leave it till the night before your deadline!).
• Firstly, jot down all your ideas and favourite stories and then construct a central idea (narrative theme) that you stick to through. It could be that your friend is always right, or maybe the newlyweds prove that opposites really do attract. Whatever it is, make sure your speech flows from one idea to the next, rather than being a list of random thoughts.

Speech Structure

• Remember to introduce yourself and how you know the bride at the start of the speech and try to include humor within the first 30 seconds. Resist the urge to include any of those tired googled-wedding-gags and ensure your line is original and relates to the couple themselves or the surroundings you find yourself in.
• The first three-fifths of the speech should include revealing, entertaining stories that give an insight into the bride and your relationship with her. Don’t be shy of some affectionate teasing.
• Towards the latter half of the speech, introduce her partner and explain why the couple are suited. Again, make sure to include some good-natured humour here.
• The final fifth of your speech could be a full-on love-bomb of a tribute to your friend. Make sure you avoid the usual cliches and platitudes about friendship and instead, try to nail the bride’s individual characteristics and quirks that make you love her.

Edit Your Speech

• When you’ve finished writing your speech, try to edit it in half. You may not achieve it but once you get editing, you’ll be surprised by the amount of needless waffle that’s in there.
• Remember, a speech is better punchy, so be brutal. A good maid of honour speech is generally between 700 and 1,100 words. No more than 10 minutes airtime!

Choosing Maid of Honor Speech Quotes

True love is not about perfection. It’s hidden in flaws and imperfections. It’s about two people who see the best in each other, no matter what. Unknown

Talking about love and trying to sum up a friendship can be hard. Luckily, some clever people have already done it, and we can all exploit their genius! While plagiarism isn’t ever cool, finding the perfect quote to supercharge your speech is a great idea.

For the best maid of honor speeches, consider incorporating heartfelt quotes that resonate with the couple’s journey. If you’re aiming for unique maid of honor speeches, blend personal anecdotes with these quotes to create a memorable and touching tribute.

Founder of Speechy (the bespoke speechwriting service), Heidi Ellert-McDermott, shares her tips for hunting the perfect quote to honour your bestie.

How to Use Quotes

• Don’t resort to a generic ‘marriage advice’ quote. They’re over-used.
• Don’t overload your speech with quotes. One, maximum two.
• Quote recognisable names – or at least provide some context. Don’t quote someone you need to Google or someone who’s a random ‘relationship coach’.
• Once you add the perfect quote to your speech, script a comedy back ref or put it into the context of the couple’s real-life relationship.
• Remember, quotes can be used to add the necessary humor, as well as the sentiment.

Where to Find Quotes

• Don’t just search for ‘wedding quotes’ on Pinterest.
• Quotes become more meaningful if they come from somewhere that means something to the couple. Could the quote come from the bride’s favourite book, her partner’s favourite film, or maybe it’s from that song you play when you’ve both had a few too many dirty martinis.
• Quotes can be found everywhere from children’s books to rom-coms, from hip-hop classics to the great philosophers, from historical icons to classic sitcoms so enjoy the search!

Frequently Asked Questions

Does the maid of honor have to give a speech.

It’s definitely customary for the maid of honor to give a toast to the newlyweds at the reception, but usually, she gave a sweet speech.

How long should a maid of honor speech be?

A maid of honor speech should ideally be around 3 to 5 minutes in length. This timeframe allows you to convey your message effectively without losing the audience’s attention or making other speeches feel rushed.

What should be avoided in maid of honor speeches?

When delivering a maid of honor speech, there are a few things to avoid to ensure it is memorable for the right reasons:

• Avoid embarrassing or offensive stories: You shouldn’t share anything that may make the bride uncomfortable or might be inappropriate for the audience.
• Steer clear of inside jokes: Inside jokes may exclude or confuse other guests who are not familiar with the context. Keep your speech inclusive and relatable for everyone present.
• Don’t overshadow the couple: Avoid making the speech all about yourself or unrelated topics that detract from the celebration of the couple’s special day.
• Avoid excessive alcohol consumption: Excessive alcohol consumption can impair your ability to deliver a coherent and meaningful message.
• Don’t go on for too long: Avoid rambling or dragging out the speech, as it may lose the interest of the audience.

Remember, the moh speech is an opportunity to celebrate the couple and express your love and support for them.

We hope that now you have everything you need for your perfect maid of honor speech. So just keep all of this in mind as you prepare and deliver your maid of honor speech, and you will be amazing. Make the bride proud she chose you!

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A Step-by-Step Guide to Nailing Your Maid of Honor Speech

• Chapelle writes articles for The Knot Worldwide. She covers all things wedding-related and has a personal interest in covering celebrity engagements and fashion.
• Before joining The Knot Worldwide, Chapelle was an editorial intern for Subvrt Magazine.
• Chapelle has a degree in English writing from Loyola University New Orleans.

As a wedding party member, you'll likely be asked to speak at the wedding. In fact, giving a maid of honor speech is one of the most important maid of honor duties to complete on the big day. You may be a gifted orator, which means writing (and giving) a speech will be a breeze. But if the thought of speaking in front of a crowd makes you a little nervous, don't panic. With the help of Heidi Ellert-McDermott, professional speech writer and founder of Speechy , we've provided you with everything you need to know about the matron of honor speech. Learn what to say, how to say it and exactly how to get rid of any nervous butterflies. Use these tips, template, outline and more to write a perfect maid of honor speech that'll bring the house down.

In this article:

Printable Template | How to Write | Examples | Tips | FAQs

Printable Maid of Honor Speech Template

For those looking for a quick and simple reminder of how to write a maid of honor speech, bookmark this template. You could even save it as your phone or laptop wallpaper while you're writing to keep you on task.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech Outline

So, how do you write a matron of honor speech? It helps, but you don't need to be a professional speechwriter to write a special toast for the newlyweds. Use this guide to create a heartfelt message that'll make everyone laugh, cry or both.

1. Reflect on your relationship with the couple.

Think about your relationships with each person in the couple. This is your time to write down any personal moments you shared with them. These moments can bring some tears or laughs, but they show the wedding guests how you know the happy couple. Maybe you and one of the newlyweds went on an epic trip to Europe together. Or you and the newlyweds have known each other since high school and have plenty of silly and embarrassing stories from that time. No matter which memory you choose for your maid of honor speech, pick your favorite (appropriate) story and have fun with it.

2. Celebrate the couple's relationship.

Another part of your matron of honor speech should be dedicated to the couple's relationship. You can talk about when they first met, when you knew they were in love, or how you knew they were meant to be. If some details are a little fuzzy, talk with the other honor attendants or close friends of the couple to help refresh your memory. Overall, you want to paint a picture of how the couple was when they first met, how they've grown together and why they complement one another.

3. Avoid taboo topics.

There are certain topics you shouldn't have in your maid of honor speech. It doesn't matter how you try to deliver it. These taboo subjects are liable to offend someone:

• Negativity about marriage in general.
• Past relationships.
• Previous marriages/divorces.
• Drinking, drugs, gambling.
• "Adult" humor or any other mention of sex.

Remember, you don't want to cause any drama. Keep the focus of your speech on uplifting the happy couple and celebrating their love for one another.

4. Add jokes—but not too many.

Feel like you have a comedic gift? Consider adding some jokes, one-liners or funny marriage quotes to your maid of honor speech. Ensure you don't use any inside jokes or references only you and the newlyweds would understand. Your speech should be something every wedding guest can appreciate and laugh at. This also means your jokes shouldn't be too harsh or bring up any taboo wedding speech topics we previously listed.

Be deliberate about where you put your jokes and spread them out. You want them to add comedic relief to a sentimental toast, not seem like a stand-up routine. Start your speech with a funny opening line so the guests can laugh and get an idea of what kind of person you are—plus, laughs give you time to overcome any nerves you might have.

5. Create your maid of honor speech outline.

Get creative and personalize your maid of honor speech as much as you want. A customized script is much more endearing for guests. But when it comes down to it, a great wedding toast will include the following remarks:

• Start with an introduction—along with an explanation about your connection to the happy couple.
• Next, give a word of thanks to the couple for inviting you to be part of their special day.
• Say one or two personal anecdotes, like a favorite memory, joke or sweet sentiment that most guests will understand.
• Provide encouraging advice or a thoughtful quote about the newlyweds' future.
• Finish with a closing remark and an invitation for guests to raise their glasses.

Maid of Honor Speech Examples

Need more than a maid of honor speech template to help you? Then choose your favorite sample maid of honor speech below and use it to help get your creative juices flowing.

Funny Maid of Honor Speech

Hello! For those of you who haven't had the chance to meet me yet, my name is [Your Name]. [Newlywed's Name] and I have been best friends since high school, which means we've been on each other's top eight friends list for a while. That's for my old Myspace users out there.

Typically, public speaking makes me beyond nervous, but I knew I had to make a speech for one of the most important people in my life. I've known [Newlywed's Name] for a long time and have appreciated every special moment we've shared over the years. [Newlywed's Name] has a beautiful soul, and I'm so happy that [Newlywed's Name] has found someone who complements it.

As everyone probably knows [Newlywed's Name] isn't a shy person, so the fact that [Newlywed's Name] would always giggle and blush whenever referring to 'the hot coworker' and I knew something special was going to come out of it. I've gotten to know [Spouse's Name] really well over the years, and I can honestly say [Spouse's Name] is one of the most genuine and caring people I've ever met.

Everyone aims to find their one true love, their soulmate, the person that's going to love and cherish them for the rest of their lives. And that moment came for [Newlywed's Name]...when they met me 18 years ago. But in all seriousness, I wish you and [Spouse's Name] a long and wonderful marriage. Congrats to you both, and I hope you find a lifetime of happiness together. Cheers!

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Maid of honor speech for best friend.

Good evening everyone! I thought the most nerve-wracking part of being a maid of honor was giving the speech, but fixing [Newlywed's Name] shoe malfunction before the wedding ceremony is high on the list.

I think I've calmed down by now, so I'll continue. My name is [Your Name], and I've known [Newlywed's Name] since college. We sat next to each other one time in an eight A.M. Spanish class and have been inseparable ever since. We've known each other for so long I would consider us siblings now, and I'm so blessed to have such a wonderful person in my life.

[Spouse's Name] is charming, intelligent, thoughtful and to quote [Newlywed's Name] after their first date, 'sooo cuteee.' I consider myself a top-notch wingwoman and matchmaker, but even I couldn't have picked a better person for [Newlywed's Name] to fall in love with. Anyone can take one look at them together and see that they're a perfect example of 'meant to be.'

I'm honored that you both have not only chosen me to be a significant part of your big day but also a significant person in your lives. I'm excited to watch you two enjoy this new chapter in your lives as a married couple. I love you both so much!

Maid of Honor Speech for Sister

Hello everyone! If you couldn't tell already from our almost identical faces, I'm [Bride's Name] sister. We're only two years apart, so we've always been really close. We would do everything together, like that one time we got gum stuck in our hair on the same day and spent hours combing peanut butter into each other's hair to help get the gum out. Unfortunately, this didn't work out, and we had to chop a lot of hair off.

Regardless of all the trouble we've got ourselves into, I can't imagine sharing such fun memories with anyone else. I've always looked up to [Bride's Name] and continue to think of her as a great role model to me and many others. I feel so happy and proud to call [Bride's Name] my sister.

[Spouse's Name], you've come into our lives seamlessly, and I've never seen my sister happier. You're such a funny and loving person, and to this day, every time my sister talks about you, she gets giddy. I really do think you guys are perfect for one another, and I can't wait to see how you grow even more as life partners.

Everyone raise your glass to congratulate [Bride's Name] and [Spouse's Name]. May each day be full of love and laughter!

Maid of Honor Speech for Cousin

Shout out to Ellert-McDermott for writing the passionate maid of honor speech below.

Ladies and gentlemen, friends and family and all you lucky souls who scored an invite to the wedding of the century. My name is [Your Name], and I have the pleasure of being the maid of honor today, or as I like to call it, the 'official party planner, the emergency dress fixer and human tissue dispenser.'

You all know [Bride's Name] as this gorgeous, successful, brilliant person you see before you today, but I know her as my little cousin. And I don't care how many promotions she gets, how many exotic countries she visits or how married she gets, that's who she'll always be to me. Yes, the girl who, for several years, ate nothing but chicken nugget sandwiches and had a special tree she liked to wee behind when we visited Grandma.

Being the only girls in our tribe of siblings, we quickly became best friends and partners in crime. We loved playing dress-up, but rather than pretending to marry our Prince Charmings, we'd pretend to be lawyers or scientists. And we wonder why no one wanted to hang out with us.

Our geekiness lasted well into our teens and developed into a mild addiction to One Direction, "Glee" and astronomy. We'd spend hours staring into our telescopes, wondering what we would say when we became the first astronauts to land on Mars. Sadly, that dream never came to fruition, but [Bride's Name], as we all know, did become a lawyer—an incredibly successful one at that.

But seriously, watching [Bride's Name] achieve her dreams has been a delight because she's quite simply one of life's special people. I feel incredibly lucky to have been blessed with such a fun-loving, wise and caring cousin––a special type of friend who's duty-bond to be in my life forever.

I always knew that [Bride's Name] deserved to be loved by someone special, and I'm delighted to say that person is [Newlywed's Name]. I've had the privilege of getting to know [Newlywed's Name] well over the last three years, and I must say, you're a brave soul for marrying into our family and having to cope with our crazy Christmas traditions. But I think you've figured out our secret. The louder we are, the more we like you. And just to clarify, we like you very much.

You have a kind heart, a wonderful wit and you're willing to dance to One Direction after we've had a few beers. I can also see how much you love my cousin. I can see that you 'get her;' that you know just how she likes her coffee, that you understand her sarcasm is a sign of affection and that you appreciate how intelligent she is even if she insists on watching "Selling Sunset" at every opportunity she can.

You're an incredible couple, and I've no doubt your love will continue to grow with every passing day. As your maid of honor, I couldn't be happier for you, and I look forward to sharing more happy memories with you guys in the future. And with that, everyone please join me in a toast to the happy couple and a life filled with love and laughter.

Short Maid of Honor Speech

I would like to quote the famous American author, Mark Twain, who once said, 'To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.' This perfectly explains why [Newlywed's Name] and [Spouse's Name] have always radiated so much joy since they've met each other.

I do not doubt [Newlywed's Name] has found the person they will spend the rest of their life with. You both make a beautiful couple and may you continue to get the full value of joy out of life with one another.

Congratulations, [Newlywed's Name] and [Spouse's Name]!

Maid of Honor Speech Tips

Completing your matron of honor speech is a big accomplishment, but the work doesn't stop when you write the closing line. The right delivery is what makes it. Here are confidence tips for your maid of honor speech and other speaking engagements.

Don't procrastinate.

We recommend you start writing your maid of honor speech at least two months before the wedding day. As an honor attendant, you're expected to attend and plan numerous prewedding events, like dress fittings, the bach party and the rehearsal dinner , which means you won't have much time to write as the wedding day approaches. Also, it doesn't hurt to write a few drafts and ask someone you trust to edit your work. By preparing in advance, you'll be able to focus on writing a toast you're excited to read in front of a crowd and not have to worry about leaving a wedding event early so you can go home and write.

Add stories, not adjectives.

"Adjectives are just white noise in wedding speeches. Describing the newlywed as 'kind,' 'fun' or 'beautiful' is nice but doesn't really add much. Illustrate their characteristics and qualities by sharing the evidence of them in action," Ellert-McDermott, author of "The Modern Couple's Guide to Wedding Speeches," says.

Be true to yourself.

This is the time to open your heart and share a few favorite memories or silly stories that capture your relationship with the newlyweds. So don't feel pressured to write a maid of honor speech that sounds overly professional. A great maid of honor toast is about speaking honestly and naturally, so write how you generally speak. Don't forget this isn't the time to use inappropriate language since you'll be speaking to the couple's nearest and dearest. Your writing should feel like a natural extension of the way you talk. A genuine speech from the heart is impactful.

Remember to mention the partner.

"Yes, the focus of your speech is your friend and your relationship with them, but don't forget what the day's actually about. Try to make your tribute to their partner seem like more than a cliched afterthought," Ellert-McDermott advises.

Write it down.

Yes, you're expected to make an amazing speech, but that doesn't mean you must memorize it. Writing the entire speech word for word or just jotting down bullet points of your speech's outline can work wonders for your confidence. We suggest you read your maid of honor speech on index cards instead of reading it off your cell phone. Phones are more convenient, but the phone screen light that washes over your face as you're reading your speech distorts wedding photographs. To avoid ruining any wedding images, write your speech down instead. ( Psst. People say handwritten notes boost brain activity and optimize memory.)

Practice in front of an audience.

Practicing your speech is just as important as writing it. As with any public speaking gig, you'll become more comfortable with the material as you practice it. Read your toast aloud a few times to catch any spelling or grammar errors. This will also help you find a rhythm—you'll know exactly when you want to pause for reactions and emphasize certain points, which is key for staying within a designated time frame. You can also read your words to another wedding party member for feedback. When the time comes to stand up in front of the crowd, you'll be grateful for the pre-performance audience.

Stay calm, cool and collected.

Whether this is your first time giving a wedding speech or you're a pro, it's normal to feel a little nervous beforehand. Take a few deep breaths to calm your nerves and collect your thoughts. Speak slowly and clearly, and remind yourself that guests are excited to hear what you're saying. As nerve-wracking as it might feel to give a big speech at your loved one's wedding, their heartfelt reaction to your words will make your efforts worth it. As soon as your speech is over, you'll be free to celebrate with the newlyweds and the rest of the wedding party.

Don't forget to smile.

"Because they're nervous, speakers often forget to smile as they deliver their speech, but it's a simple and effective way to create a good vibe in the room. A smile is literally infectious, so make sure it looks like you're actually enjoying your time on the mic," Ellert-McDermott says. Putting on a soft smile also helps the photographer capture stunning pictures of you killing your speech.

Maid of Honor Speech Frequently Asked Questions

Delivering a unique maid of honor speech can seem daunting, but we're here to help you take the stress out of it. Here are answers to common questions regarding the maid of honor speech.

Does the maid of honor have to give a speech?

It's expected for a maid of honor to give a speech, especially if the other honor attendants are planning on giving one, but it's not required. Giving a maid of honor speech can be a fun experience, but it isn't for everyone. If public speaking makes you nervous, you can express yourself in other ways, like through song, dance or by creating a sweet love story presentation about the happy couple.

How long should a maid of honor speech be?

In addition to the matron of honor speech, there might also be a best man speech , toasts from the couple's parents or even a thank-you message from the newlyweds. Since there are several speeches to fit in with meal courses, dancing, games and additional reception activities , keep your salutations short and sweet. Aim to make your maid of honor speech a minimum of four minutes and at most six minutes—Ellert-McDermott suggests anything between 700 and 1000 words.

Wedding guests will be excited to hear your well-wishes and funny stories, but a long MOH speech can lose the wedding guests' interest (especially if it's full of too many personal inside jokes). A four-minute speech gives you enough time to speak about the couple's love story, offer a personal anecdote or two and finish with encouragement for married life.

How to Start a Maid of Honor Speech

"Like every other speaker, the maid of honor should say a quick hello and introduce themselves to the guests. They should explain how they know the bride and try to add some humor early on too. Tailor your speech to suit the style of the wedding. Is it a rock n roll affair or a traditional bash with children present? Consider your audience and decide if 'ladies and gentlemen' is necessary or overly formal (generally, it's the latter)," Ellert-McDermott notes.

How to End a Maid of Honor Speech

"Towards the end of the speech, the maid of honor should reiterate their joy in seeing their friend getting married. They may refer back to special memories they share with the bride and explain why she is such a great friend to them. The final few lines should be about wishing the couple well in their future life together and proposing a toast to them both," Ellert-McDermott suggests. Here is an example of a personal maid of honor toast ending from Ellert-McDermott:

Here's to a lifetime of drinking mojitos and dancing on tables. To Sophie and Taylor.

When does the maid of honor give a speech?

If the couple is following the traditional wedding speech order , the maid of honor gives her speech after the newlyweds' parents. Typically, following the maid of honor is the best man. That wedding speech order isn't for everyone since a couple's wedding party size and reception timeline impact the order too. Also, sometimes couples opt to have all the wedding speeches delivered during the rehearsal dinner. So check with the to-be-weds about the order to confirm your spot in the toast lineup.

What to do if there are multiple maids of honor?

If you are one of the multiple maids of honor , you and the others should keep your maid of honor speeches to three to five minutes long. Before delivering your speeches, we suggest you and the other maids of honor go over them together to make sure they aren't too similar (and if they are, to adjust accordingly). If you and the other maids of honor have a close relationship, want to create only one speech or you don't want to give your speech alone, consider doing a joint maid of honor speech. By doing a combined speech, you have more opportunities to be creative, like setting each other up for jokes or performing a heartfelt song together.

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The Most Hilarious Maid Of Honor Speeches Ever

We have all found ourselves at a wedding where the speeches and toasts just seemed to drag on. Either they're full of inside jokes to which we can't relate, the maid of honor or best man is clearly out of their element, someone is drunk beyond belief, or they just don't know when to call enough enough. If you're lucky, you've hopefully also been able to witness the opposite, where the speech is so good you're left in stitches from laughing so hard or wiping tears from your cheeks from the sweet message.  

While we may often think the best man is more likely to give the funny speech and the maid of honor to leave us tearing up, don't discount the maid of honor's ability to get the whole room laughing. I found some of the most hilarious maid of honor speeches and needless to say, next time I'm given the title, there's a lot to live up to!

Let's just set the bar low

"When I first sat down and started thinking about what I wanted to say here tonight, I kept thinking to myself, 'I can't believe Erin is getting married in less than an hour,'" said this maid of honor as she starts out the speech at her sister's wedding.  

What makes this speech especially funny though, is the nonchalant manner in which all of the jokes are told. She goes on to say how nervous she is and how she's trying the trick they were given in high school to picture the audience naked. "Yeah, it's not working," she said. "I'm still really nervous, and now I kind of want to puke."

As she goes on to welcome the groom into the family, she makes sure he knows how hard she's worked to set the bar low and hopes to keep it that way. "You remember that and we'll get along just fine," she advises.

Roasted and toasted

If you have ever been a maid of honor, then you know that the job consists of a lot more than you may have originally thought. Allie Cohen's sister, Shay, points out at the beginning of her hilarious speech, there's a lot more that goes into planning a wedding and oftentimes you're commanded into your role rather than simply asked.

When the mic is handed over though, it's all in the maid of honor's hands, regardless of the requests that the bride may have made earlier. In the case of this speech, the roasts and digs to the bride kept coming! "When I say I've learned a lot about who Allie and I are, I mean that I personally could care less about what the difference between a peony and garden rose is," she said, "but Allie does!"

You snagged a hubby and I don't know how

Just to get this hilarious speech started on the right foot, the maid of honor and little sister to the bride starts by calling her sister the wrong name. If you're hoping to break the ice and reduce the nerves, getting the crowd in a fit of laughter may just be the way to do it. Since talking in front of people can be a bit scary, why not toss your note cards to the side and instead just break into song?

This speech is a mash-up of a few songs you'll recognize like The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air theme song, "Popular" from Wicked , and "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz, with new lyrics just for the bride and groom. It's hilarious, sweet, and definitely worth keeping a few tissues nearby just in case. 

Let's dance, dance, dance

When it comes to writing your maid of honor speech, chances are you aren't writing it for a hopeful standing ovation, but rather you're just looking to make it extra special, especially if you're like this maid of honor, Jess, writing for her one and only sister. What comes of this speech though caught everyone by surprise and was so hilarious and amazing that it earned her a standing ovation at the end.

If you know Justin Timberlake's "Can't Stop the Feeling," then you will definitely understand how this maid of honor earned her praise. "Cheers to Chases! Let's dance, dance, dance!"

When your sister does standup

When your sister is a stand-up comedian, it should come as no surprise that you and all of your guests will be left in stitches. "I want to start off with a little disclaimer," said maid of honor Adriane Hamilton. "A lot of you are aware that I do stand-up comedy, so I'm sure there's probably a level of expectation that I'm going to come up here and just like Richard Pryor the heck out of this thing." She goes on to say, "I'm not going to do that, mainly because I think it would be in poor taste to light myself on fire at my little sister's wedding."

Does she light herself on fire? Definitely not, but does she kill the speech? Absolutely.

Girls just want to have fun

As the youngest sibling in my family, I can't relate to the excited anxiousness this matron of honor felt when awaiting the arrival of her baby sister, but as she points out in the video, she was late. "She wasn't just late, she was nine days late!" she said. "Do you know how long nine days is for an almost three year-old?"

She goes on to tell the story about how on the evening of the eighth day, her mom picked her up and they danced around to Cyndi Lauper's "Girls Just Want to Have Fun" and the next morning, her little sister came to join the fun. I think it's safe to say after watching this video, the fun continued all through her hilarious musical speech!

Hopefully she doesn't pass out

"I am Katie's maid of honor, so for all you single guys, maid means that I am single so find me later," said Sara Snyder as she started her speech at her best friend's wedding. She went on from there to point out that her friend ended the bio on their wedding website making note of her hope that Snyder wouldn't pass out during her speech. In order to avoid the need for paramedics to make an appearance at the reception, she resorted to plan B, a hilarious and personalized rendition of Taylor Swift's "Love Story."

Everybody just toast with me

There seems to be a trend with hilarious speeches including musical renditions, remixes, and mashups, but does anyone have what it takes to rap their way through their speech? Jennifer Gabrielli proves that she definitely does. "There's going to be a lot of toasting, get your glasses ready," she forewarns everyone. 

If you have ever heard Eminem's "Without Me" then you will definitely enjoy this interpretation. "This looks like it's meant to be so everybody toast with me, raise your glasses if you're thirsty, cuz tonight we're here to party," she sings.  

If she wasn't funny enough on her own, take note of the guy getting the black hoodie ready. This guy had one job!

You are right

When giving a maid of honor speech, it seems that someone always has an opinion or request. For this speech, the maid of honor makes note of her mothers requests. "My mom told me two things: don't burp and don't curse," she said. "Well mom, you get one thing, I'm not gonna burp."

She went on to mention how it's hard to come up with anything else to say about her sister that her parents hadn't already said, "because she really is the favorite, I mean, ideal child." As she continued on with her speech and all of the sweet things that her sister has taught her over the years, she looked the groom directly in the eyes and reminded him to say those three special words every single day, "you are right."

Let's slow jam this toast

If you are a fan of Jimmy Fallon and his "Slow Jam the News" on The Tonight Show , then you are going to love this maid of honor's slow jam the toast for her speech. She pulls up the brother and cousin of the bride to join her in this hilarious performance! 

"Little cupid must have been in the air that night because his arrow found his sight," said Kevin, the brother of the bride. As the maid of honor takes the mic back she says, "Let me skip ahead a few years, you know, Leesha and Paul were living their life young, happy, and free, when all of a sudden Leesha fell ill with a case of pregnancy. Nine months later, here comes V, the perfect little baby who calls me D." 

Just in case you're not sure, they will make sure you know that this is how you slow jam the toast!

Memorable moments

While it may be tempting to try to recreate these amazing speeches, don't worry about trying to be the funniest person in the room if you have a speech to give and this isn't your style. If you're more of the sweet and sentimental person, own that and remember that regardless which route you take with your speech, the bride and groom chose you to stand next to them on their special day creating such beautiful memories.

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To us here at Modern MOH, the writing and delivery of the maid of honor speech is the most sacred duty of them all. We feel this is your true time to shine and the greatest opportunity to show your bestie just how much her happiness means to you. By taking the time to construct a heartfelt and well-written speech, then delivering it to the best of your ability, you will help make your bride’s wedding day all the more perfect.

And while we doubt we were your first stop on the “ how to write a maid of honor speech ” search train, we do hope to be your final destination. You see, unlike most articles you’ll find on the subject of maid of honor speeches, we’re actually going to give it to you straight. No vaguely basic outlines or generically boring examples, just the cold hard facts.

Because we have some serious experience in the toast department, and if there’s one thing we’ve learned about writing a killer maid of honor speech, it’s this: there is no secret formula, no one best way . How could there be? Each and every relationship between a maid of honor and a bride is different from the next, just as each and every memory is uniquely yours. 

Lastly, we know the thought of having to give a wedding toast in front of a large group of people may be terrifying for most, that’s why we’re here to teach you a thing or two to ease those nerves. From start to finish, we have all the tips and tricks you need to know to bring the house down.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech in 5 Simple Steps

1. define your overall objective.

Before you begin writing your maid of honor speech, you must first define your objective. In other words, you need to have a goal you’re looking to accomplish. For example, are you hoping to make wedding guests laugh? Cry? Both? Do you want to talk about your history with the bride, about how you met the groom, or what their relationship as a couple means to you?

Knowing the answers to these questions will help you figure out the direction you should take when writing your wedding toast.

If you find yourself struggling to define your objective, simply think of your relationship with both the bride and groom. Do they have a great sense of humor? Is your time together spent mostly joking around and laughing? If so, try taking a comedic approach to your toast by cracking a few funny jokes along the way.

Or maybe you and your bride have been through some very serious times together that you want to share, in which case your speech may be much more emotionally moving. The great part about this objective is that it’s your own, so there is no one right or best way to go about it.

MODERN MOH TIP:  Touch on a little bit of everything. Start strong with a joke or two and finish out with a sentimental toast.  While there is no exact formula to it, a truly good maid of honor speech is both funny enough to get wedding guests laughing and moving enough to bring a tear to their eye. Secondly, don’t spend so much time talking about your history with the bride that you forget to talk about the groom. Even if you don’t have your own personal memories with your best friend’s new hubby, that doesn’t mean he should be left out of your speech. Instead, talk about their relationship as a couple and what it means to you, including your wishes for the bride and groom’s future together. 

2. Decide on Your Point of View

The key to writing a killer of maid of honor speech is to not think of it as a speech, but instead a story. And as the narrator of this particular story, it’s up to you to determine the point of view from which you tell it. While it may seem obvious that you’d write from the first-person POV, there are definitely some benefits to switching it up.

To begin with, writing from a third-person POV will give your toast a unique twist and a more story-like feel. For example, instead of saying “Taylor and I met on the school bus in the third grade and she’s been my best friend ever since” , you could say “When Taylor was in the third grade, she met a little girl on the school bus who remains her best friend to this day” .

Like the idea, but don’t think you can write an entire speech that way? No problem. Unlike what you were taught in grade school, you have the freedom to switch between differing points of view when telling your story. If you haven’t caught on yet, let us reiterate: there is no right or wrong when it comes to writing your speech.

MODERN MOH TIP: Take advantage of switching up points of view. Start with narrating from the first person point of view, especially if it’s easier for you to tell the history between you and the bride that way. When it comes time to talk about the couple, tell their story from an outsider’s perspective. If you do decide to go this route, don’t get so crazy with it that you start confusing your audience. The whole point of using different points of view is to enhance your maid of honor speech, not complicate it.

3. Determine Your Must-Haves

Now that you’ve defined your objective and decided on your POV, it’s time to determine your must-haves. By must-haves, we mean the anecdotes you absolutely want to include in your maid of honor speech. For instance, is there a particularly good memory you have with the bride that you definitely want to share with wedding guests? Or maybe you were there when the bride and groom met and you want to tell your side of the couple’s story?

Determining your must-haves before you begin writing your toast will guarantee you don’t forget to feature them. Not to mention, it will keep you from going off track when it comes time to put pen to paper. If you’re having trouble narrowing it down, keep this in mind: it’s much better to have one or two epic stories than a mix of mediocre ones.

MODERN MOH TIP: Don’t be that maid of honor that goes on and on about memories and “funny” inside jokes you have with the bride (no wedding guest wants to hear it, trust us). Instead, tell one or two really good stories that portray your friendship and then move on to her relationship with the groom and their history as a couple. Too many MOHs make the mistake of making their toast all about them and not enough about the couple whose wedding they are supposed to be celebrating. If you want to talk about yourself in front of a big audience, try Youtube.

4. Develop Your Story From Beginning to End

As we mentioned before, the key to writing a killer maid of honor speech is to tell it like a story. And just like any good story, you must develop it from beginning to middle to end (think along the lines of “ once upon a time ” to “ they lived happily ever after ”). While it’s entirely up to you to decide what constitutes the beginning, middle, and end of your particular story, you should avoid big jumps in time. In other words, do your best to develop it in chronological order so you don’t confuse wedding guests.

For instance: Start by telling the story of how you and the bride met, continue on with a memory you have of the bride and groom, and finish with a toast for the couple. Again, there is no magic formula when it comes to writing a maid of honor speech, but having a clear and concise storyline is highly suggested.

MODERN MOH TIP: Don’t be predictable. Chances are you and your best friend didn’t cross paths in some epic way (especially if you’re sisters), so skip the generic “this is how we met” story. Instead, dive right into a funny/crazy/holy s*$&! moment to get the crowd’s attention. And don’t be boring with your finale either. No generic “cheers to the Mr. & Mrs.” toast, we know you can do better than that. Your goal should be to receive a standing ovation from the couple and their wedding guests, not a polite golf clap.

5. Describe Your Characters in Detail

We can’t stress how important this final step is when it comes to writing your maid of honor speech. Seriously, taking the extra step to describe your characters in detail is what differentiates the bland from the bomb. And just so we’re clear, by characters we mean the bride and groom, and by detail we mean elaboration. For example, instead of saying “Taylor is such a great friend, she’s always been there for me whenever I needed her” , you should say “I’ve never met a more loving and loyal person than Taylor, she truly exemplifies what it means to be a best friend” .

These extra tweaks may seem insignificant to you, but they’re exactly the lines that will resonate with your audience and more importantly, the couple. And if writing isn’t your strong suit, don’t worry. Simply speak from the heart, you’ll be surprised at how well your final product turns out.

MODERN MOH TIP: Use a thesaurus (seriously, we do it all the time). It’s a good way to spice up your word choice and will stop you from repeating yourself. On the flip side, don’t feel like you have to use a ton of fancy words- you want to sound like yourself after all, not Shakespeare. Lastly, don’t be afraid to throw a bit of alliteration in there. It brings character to your writing and will make your toast much more memorable ( see what we did there? )

How to End a Maid of Honor Speech

Now that you’ve got the beginning and middle of your speech outlined, it’s time to work on your ending. As this will be your final moment with the mic, your goal should be to make it a memorable one.

One hard-fast rule on ending any maid of honor speech is to address both the bride and groom as a newlywed couple and offer your best wishes for a happy marriage. The easiest way to accomplish this is by raising a toast.

As far as the contents of your toast, it’s up to you if you want to use your own words or prefer to recite a heartfelt quote . To help you decide, ask yourself the following question:

If the answer is yes, by all means, write up your own personal toast. If the answer is no, start searching for the perfect quote.

MODERN MOH TIP:  Select a few possible endings for your maid of honor speech and do test runs through them all to see which flows the best. Oftentimes it’s easier to decide based on how you deliver the words than how they sound in your head.

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How to Write The Perfect Maid of Honor Speech

Whether it's a maid of honor speech for your best friend , or a maid of honor speech for your sister , it’s the little things that mean the most.  Do you want a friend who always knows where the best parties are, or one who shows up with your favorite meal when you’re having a tough time?  Admittedly, both are nice, but nothing says, “I got your back,” like baked ziti.

A great maid of honor speech is heartfelt and funny and has a clear, easy to follow structure .

It’s also the ideal place to recognize and share those little moments that make you grateful to have the bride in your life… e specially if she might not be aware of the impact those little moments made.

Here’s an example from my own life.

A few years ago, both my parents ended up in the hospital at the same time with life-threatening issues.

My BFF, mom to 3 school-aged kids, and herself dealing with aging in-laws, asked if I wanted her to come to the hospital. I thanked her, but told her she had enough to do without driving an hour across town on a school night. Her phone calls and texts were plenty.

She said ok — and then showed up anyway, with hot pizza and a purse full of candy.  I burst into tears at the sight of her. She hugged me, called me a moron, and I’ve got a lump in my throat even now at the memory.

It’s the little things.

At the risk of sounding like Yoda, everything you need to write a standout wedding speech is already inside you. The stories, the sentiment, the humor – all of it. The trick is pulling it out of yourself and putting it all together.

So, how do you do that?

Think about the times the subject of your speech made you feel strong emotions.

When did the bride make you feel happy, joyful, heard, crazy — even angry. (If you’re her MOH, I assume you got over it.)

Then tell your audience about those times, in your own words, and be specific.

Did the details of my friend’s hospital visit give you insight into our relationship and our personalities? Did it give you a sense why our friendship has endured for over 30 years? That’s the goal.

They don’t all have to be big, dramatic moments.

Is she a great listener? Do you hate-watch “The Bachelor” together? Is she your personal stylist? Does she have incredible parking karma? Does she make you laugh every time you speak? Does she have a GIF addiction and text them incessantly? Give the best hugs? Tell you the truth about the people you date — even when you’d prefer she didn’t?

Those seemingly little moments let us know exactly who she is, and why you’re grateful to have her in your life.

If you can show us those, you’re on your way to an unforgettable maid of honor speech for your best friend or sister .

 For step by step advice on how to write a unique, heartfelt and funny maid of honor speech for your best friend or sister, watch the video below.

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Well, here we are! This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. It’s time to give an amazing maid of honor speech. We’ll show you how to make it unforgettable.

We are going to make your life so much easier because we have the ultimate guide to writing the perfect maid of honor speech. And we are not just talking about a good game, we WILL deliver!

In this blog post, we will give you a step-by-step guide for writing a fabulous MOH speech that will make the bride and her wedding guests happy to hear.

Get your FREE maid of honor speech outline at the end of this post if you need an extra boost.

Now it is time for your grand (MOH) finale! Let’s begin so you can write a phenomenal piece for the bride’s big day.

What is a maid of honor speech? Why is it so scary?

At the wedding reception, the maid of honor speaks to the couple in front of everyone. It is a major part of the maid of honor duties for the wedding day. She expresses her well wishes during her speech. The maid of honor toast concludes with a declaration and the attendees take a drink.

Giving a maid of honor speech can be nerve-wracking because it includes speaking in front of a crowd. However, with the right tools and preparation, you can overcome this. Out of all of the maid of honor responsibilities, the speech is the most important.

Let’s look at the maid of honor speech by considering types, timing, and content to include.

Types of maid of honor speeches

There are many unique styles for a MOH speech. There, are funny ones, emotional ones, unique ones, and even short maid of honor speeches you could go for.

The speaker determines the type of maid of honor speech. If the maid of honor is the bride’s sister, best friend, or a close relative (like a cousin). It all depends on your relationship with the bride and your personality.

For example, If you are an extrovert, you may be more comfortable speaking a little longer because you are familiar with the bride’s family and friends.

If you are a shy maid of honor and the bride’s college friend, you may consider delivering a unique speech.

Timing of maid of honor speech

Wedding speeches always begin after the meal of the reception. It’s typically the maid of honor’s turn to say her speech after the father of the bride or the best man.

How long should your maid of honor speech be?  Your speech should be about 3-7 minutes long. That time provides sufficient insight, without being too long to distract or encourage side conversations among guests.

What to cover in your speech?

Talk about the bride first. Congratulate her and offer her your sincerest well wishes for a happy union. You should tell a personal story about the bride.

Give characteristics of the bride that tell why she is so amazing. Share a brief history of the happy couple. And end with more well wishes by giving a toast to true love.

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During your talk, be sure to include jokes, and tell fun facts about the bride or the couple. Interact with guests by pausing. This gives time to respond or react you parts of your speech.

Last minute adds to your speech:

Before the wedding, prepare your speech. You may mention the wonderful experience of seeing the bride walk down the aisle and get married. This part will not be in the initial speech you’ve prepared, but it adds a nice touch of originality. Don’t feel limited to only your written speech.

How to write a maid of honor speech for the best wedding toast

Now we will take a closer look at what to cover in your maid of honor speech. Let’s go through each point and elaborate more on how you could use them.

7 Steps For The Perfect MOH Speech

• Talk about the bride. Remember that it is not about you. After you introduce yourself, start talking about the bride and how you know her. How did you meet? What is something you find amazing about her?
• Congratulations and well wishes. Express your happiness at her wedding and how amazing it was to share this amazing journey with her. Wish her and the groom the best.
• A personal story about your relationship. Talk about your friendship, a heartfelt or funny story on why she is your BFF.
• Touch on the bride’s character. Discuss the joy she brings into your life. This is a time to give some fun facts about her that some of the guests may not know.
• Talk about the couple. Say something nice about the two being together and their love story. Like how she is a lot happier or how they are perfect for each other.
• Thank you and more well wishes. Again, wish them the very best with all of your love and your blessing. And thank them for making you a big part of their special day.
• Toast . Now celebrate the couple. Say cheers and take a much-deserved drink!

WHAT NOT TO DO!

• No clichés (they’re corny)
• No long quotes (they’re boring)
• No inside jokes (they’re awkward)

Please know that there is nothing set in stone. If you want a short and sweet maid of honor speech, just subtract some of the sentences or paragraphs from each section.

For example, you could shorten number 3 significantly by reducing the number of paragraphs you write in your speech. Lastly, be sure to recite your speech in front of a small crowd like the bridal party or a relative.

Make sure you practice your speech well in advance to be prepared.

Maid of Honor Speech Examples

We will provide 3 examples for a maid of honor speech. Use these as inspiration for your future speech. Or use them word for word (just change names lol). You will find speech ideas for a best friend, sister, and a funny example.

Maid of honor speech for best friend

“ Hi, I’m Shante, I am Ariana’s maid of honor. I’ve known Ariana since college and since then, my life has changed for the better she is really one of my favorite people and one of the best humans on this planet.

When you asked me to be your maid of honor I was overjoyed. The first thing I thought about was the bachelorette party!

I cannot put into words how much you mean to me. You know that I’m so happy for you and_____. And I will be rooting for your relationship for the rest of my life.

When I met you I was going through such a difficult time you’ve taught me to be strong and always strive to be my best self.

There were times when I would almost lose it, and then a phone call from you would make things so much better.

One of my favorite memories was when we went to the B2K concert and got backstage pass security. And we got to meet Omarion.

We didn’t sneak in nor did we pay for passes. We got in all because you weren’t scared to just walkthrough.

I followed you in, and because of your bravery, audacity, and fearlessness, I got to have one of the best nights of my life.

Groom, this is what you’re dealing with here! She’s a woman who was bold, fearless, and a badass!

My wish if I get to have one is for everyone to have an Ariana in their life. She is the most loving and caring person that I’ve ever met.

Her heart is a reflection of what she does. And all she wants to do is take care of everyone around her. At the end of the day, she just wants everyone to love one another.

When you got engaged, I knew that this would be the best decision you’ve ever made. The smile you both put on each other’s faces are fascinating and I pray that you both remain happy forever .

Thank you so much for letting me be a part of this and I want to wish you all the love and happiness int.

Now let’s toast to the bride and the groom! “

Maid of honor speech for sister

“ Hello, my name is LeCole, Tasha’s little sister. Tash, You have been my backbone. The foundation for our family. I do not know where I would be without you.

I am so happy for you and Kwame and want to tell you both congratulations on your union. I know you guys will have so many wonderful moments together in your marriage.

Tash, when mom died you really showed me, our brother, and your son that nothing would ever break our bond.

As long as we have each other, everything will be okay. Going through such a traumatic thing like that should have made us all statistics.

But because of you taking care of us, we are now successful people. You’ve made us examples of what good could come from a bad situation.

Now that we are adults all we want is for you to be happy and loved. And we know you’ve got that with Kwame. And Kwame, get used to sister tattoos, sister bracelets, and hair emergencies. Welcome to the family!

Now that you’re officially a part of our cult, cheers to you both! “

Funny maid of honor speech

“ Hello my name is Tammy and Carla is my best friend And we’ve known each other since elementary school. She’s my best friend, confidant, and sometimes therapist.

I am so happy that you picked me to be by your side on this marvelous journey. You are an amazing friend and there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for you…. Even this sappy maid of honor speech (LOL).

I will try not to cry because I’m a very ugly crier and I don’t wanna ruin any photos (LOL). I want to wish you and Tony many many years of happiness.

Y ou deserve the best that life has to offer in love and marriage.

If you ask Carla about some of our adventures she’s probably a little hesitant (LOL). There are countless times that she is saving me from making a bad decision.

For the times she’s made me laugh uncontrollably on what I thought was a bad day.

Carla, it’s clear that everyone’s life is just better with you in it. Watching you go after your career and climb the corporate ladder and do wedding planning all in the same year has inspired me to be better and reach for the stars in life.

Because of you, I did manage to wear a real pair of pants this week, so here’s my progress in life’s achievements (LOL).

But in all seriousness, you have such a beautiful soul. She is someone I look up to because she is a positive influence in my life.

You know you’re a good person when someone’s pet prefers you over their owner. My dog absolutely loves Carla and would leave with her every time if she could. I mean seriously she would leave me for Carla any day LOL.

I know you will make a great wife and you two make a wonderful couple.

Umm…I think this is the part where I give relationship advice but I am 28 and single so I’m no help in that department (LOL) .

I want to end this by doing an activity with the couple. Carla put your hand on the table. Tony put your hand over Carla’s………

……..Take a good look Tony, and savor this moment. Because this will be the last time that you will EVER have the upper hand (LOL).

God Bless you both! Raise your glasses for Mr. and Mrs. Davis! “

Here is a Funny Maid of Honor Speech Template HERE

Perfect Maid of Honor Speech Template

Now you have everything you need to draft up the perfect maid of honor speech. If you use this guide, we are pretty sure you will NAIL your MOH speech. And before you go, we’ve got a FREE template for you to use to make writing your maid of honor speech easier. So start writing now!

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And when you’ve completed your maid or matron of honor speech, take a breath of relief and have a good time!

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When you're asked to be a maid of honor, it's an incredible ahem… honor. But it also comes with a lot of responsibility — especially if you're asked to give a speech. 

 So how do you go about writing a maid of honor speech that will be memorable, touch the bride & groom and hopefully bring out a few laughs? We've got you covered! 

In this post, we'll give you a step-by-step guide on how to write a maid of honor speech. We'll break down the speech structure, share important do's and don'ts, dive into FAQs and of course some examples to inspire you.

Maid of Honor Speech Template & Structure

This section of the article is going to talk about what goes into a great maid of honor speech. You'll learn about the basic template and structure but we've also included some questions to help you get started with each section.

• Who you are
• How you know the bride
• Thank the guests
• Thank everyone involved in wedding planning
• A story about how you met
• What she means to you
• How has she made an impact on your life?
• Favorite memory
• Her character (how would you describe her in 3 words)
• Fun Facts / Jokes
• Share a story about first meeting the groom
• First impressions
• His character (how would you describe him in 3 words)
• Why he's right for the bride
• How you knew he was the “one” for her
• Share a story about them (maybe how they met?)
• How they are together as a couple (how would you describe the couple in 3 words)
• How do they complement each other
• What do they bring out in each other
• What do you admire most about the couple?
• What makes them unique?
• What are your hopes for their future together?
• When have you been witness to a lovely moment.
• Congratulate the bride and groom
• Say the bride's new last name.
• Announce its time to celebrate

Maid of Honor Speech Dos, Don'ts & Tips

Here are some dos and don'ts to help make your speech a success. While these are considered widely agreed upon ‘rules'; rules are meant to be broken, so you make the final call!

• Do try and include funny stories.
• Do poke fun, but don't cross the line. Don't embarrass anyone.
• Do leave room for any crowd reaction.
• Do be short and sweet.
• Don't tell your life story.
• DO talk about the couple, not just the bride
• Don't drink too much before the speech but a tipple can help!
• Don't include inside jokes.
• Don't reference any exes.
• Do practice, practice, practice.

What are the Main Components of a Great Speech

According to this Toastmaster , a great speech is formed of 3 main components:

• Structure:  A great speech has a beginning, middle, and end. The beginning of a great speech should capture the audience's attention. The middle of a great speech should be where the majority of the content is delivered.   The end of a great speech should neatly round the speech off and leave guests with a strong impression. 
• Content:  Make sure your speech is interesting, relevant, and engaging. To do this, use stories and humor; and try to stay focused on the core topic of the speech, in this case the bride and the couple.  
• Delivery:  Practice performing your speech so that you sound confident and natural. Work on your vocal delivery by speaking clearly and projecting your voice. Practice gestures and expressions to help you appear natural when delivering your speech. Try to relax before delivering your speech so that you don't appear nervous; easier said than done we realize! While we don't recommend drinking a lot, a tipple might help ease the nerves.

If you watch one video on public speaking, this is it .

Sample Maid of Honor Speeches

We've gathered some examples of wonderful maid-of-honor speeches to give you an idea of what you could say on the big day. We've tried to pick a range of styles and included a transcript on a few to help when it's time for you to begin writing yours.

• 0:01 – 0:13 Good evening everyone. So I thought the most nerve-wracking part of my job as May of honor was going to be this speech, but managing Mara's bail was definitely,.

• 0:16 – 0:17 Definitely.

• 0:17 – 0:21 Out there. Uh, but I've stopped sweating now. So.

• 0:22 – 0:24 Good. Uh,.

• 0:24 – 0:47 So I hope you're all having a wonderful time celebrating the special day of these two lovebirds here. For those of you who don't know me, my name is Kristen and I know Mark and Mara from college. I met Mara when she joined our sorority Kappa Alpha Data.

• 0:48 – 0:48 ,.

• 0:51 – 1:39 And we instantly became best friends and soon after I chose her as my little sister and she chose me as her big sister since we met when she was a freshman and I was a sophomore, I was there for every significant ma moment in MA's life throughout her four years in college. The biggest being the start of a beautiful love story between Mark and Ma. As many of you know, Mark and Ma met through ones as student ambassadors for the University of Florida, but it was participation, the talent show for the Filipino Students Association where their love story began.

• 1:41 – 1:48 I first heard about Mara during a three hour road trip down to Daytona for a beach weekend. Sorry. I first heard about Mark.

• 1:49 – 1:49 .

• 1:50 – 1:51 I already knew Mara.

• 1:52 – 1:52 .

• 1:53 – 1:54 We were having gossip time.

• 1:55 – 1:56 And we.

• 1:56 – 2:20 Were headed down to Daytona for a beach weekend with MA's family. And she very casually told me about how the two of them were performing a duet to the Bruno Mars song. Amazing for the talent show right then a burst of excitement pulse through me as I imagine how perfectly romantic it would be if Mark and Mars started to fall for each other. And what could be a scene straight out of high school musical.

• 2:21 – 2:22 .

• 2:24 – 2:40 He was Filipino attractive and he could see him play the piano. So pretty much MA's perfect man, right? But when I brought this to MA's attention, her initial reaction was something along the lines of, Ew,.

• 2:40 – 2:43 Big See the Boy.

• 0:00 – 0:00

• 2:51 – 2:58 And to be fair, I probably would've had the same reaction because Ma and I were a bit shy when it came to the idea of liking your dating boys in college,.

• 2:59 – 2:59 .

• 3:01 – 3:25 They may not have fully recognized just what a special relationship with student develop, but for those three minutes when they performed together on stage, the world stood still and it was obvious there was something truly amazing between the two of them. Four months of courting in a very, very, very confused mark. Later.

• 3:26 – 3:26 .

• 3:28 – 3:54 Mara finally accepted his proposal to be boyfriend and girlfriend, and the rest is history. For the past six years, Mark and Mara have continued to show us the true meaning of love. Our friends always say how obviously perfect they are for each other. You take one look at them when they're together. And the idea of meant to be is depicted in its truest form,.

• 3:56 – 4:37 But it's the deeper side of their relationship, which reminds us all what it means to truly be and love. No relationship is perfect. There are always ups and downs, different viewpoints which can cause conflict and hard times that must both must face together. And like every couple in this room, Mark and Ma have dealt with their such trials throughout the relationship, but they have pushed through every single one, not by sweeping them under the rug, but by facing them full on and together as a couple, working through their challenges, while always maintaining the respect and love they have for each other.

• 4:40 – 5:10 They have been there for each other in countless times of need and supporting each other through both the difficult and wonderful times in each other's lives. And that is the true definition of a love and marriage that will last in the eternity. Mark and Mara, you are an inspiration to all of us, both individually as two people who strive to be a light in the lives of others.

• 5:12 – 5:34 And together as a gorgeous couple radiating love. I am honored to be not only a significant part of your special day, but a significant person in your lives. And I am beyond excited to watch the next chapter of your lives unfold together as husband and wife.

• 5:36 – 5:57 I love you both so much, and I wish you a lifetime of laughter in those joyous moments, loving support in those trialing times, and excitement for all of the adventures that lie ahead to the happily ever her mottos. Cheers.

• 0:00 – 0:31 Hello everyone. Hello. Hello. Thank you. Um, I hope everyone is digesting their salads well. Um, I know I am actually tonight, um, this is actually the first wedding I've ever been to. So naturally I consulted my lifelong friend and fae the internet, um, in order to give me some criteria. So wedding words.us really pulled through for me. . So here it goes.

• 0:32 – 0:42 Step one, start your speech with a simple yet direct introduction. Hi, I'm Claire. I'm Kelsey's little sister. I'm 25 years old and I have IBS.

• 0:43 – 0:43 .

• 0:46 – 1:00 Thank you. Step two, remember that this isn't about you. See, that is one of the many things that are hard for me to digest because when you think about it, this union is absolutely about me.

• 1:00 – 1:00 .

• 1:01 – 1:26 Before Corey entered my life, I did not have access to 24 7 iced coffee, which she keeps in the fridge at all times, and from which I benefit greatly. . Before Corey, Kelsey had her ups and downs, but now she's pretty much constantly happy. Do you know what that does for my mental health? To have an older sister who is constantly happy, significantly lowered rates of verbal abuse in the household.

• 1:26 – 1:26 .

• 1:27 – 1:50 Before Corey, Kelsey was dating scrubs like Aiden, who spells his name, a o d h a n. Corey spells his name like a normal person, and as a fellow normal person, I can appreciate that. Step three, don't talk about Xes.

• 1:52 – 1:52 Oops.

• 1:53 – 2:24 Step four, talk about the bride. When I first saw Kelsey take the stage, it was a singing competition, and she was performing born to entertain, looking like a Disney princess and a sequin top hat, sequin, leotard, tights, top shoes, the holy grail. In my six year old eyes, when the music began, her hips started moving. I couldn't believe what I was witnessing. And a miserable middle school auditorium full of tired stage moms and kids who couldn't sit still. My big sister was having fun all by herself.

• 2:24 – 2:24 .

• 2:25 – 2:57 She, she had a spark and she could manufacture it all on her own with nobody's permission, and I wanted to be just like her. As the years went by, I'm about to get serious warning. As the years went by, Kelsey's spark grew and my, my admiration for her grew along with it. Okay? I always followed in Kelsey's footsteps, dipping my toe in every pond along the way, and feeling safe in the knowledge that she tested the water for me. First, Kelsey played basketball, so I played basketball. Kelsey did musicals, so I did musicals.

• 2:57 – 3:26 Kelsey did cotillion, so, oh, actually I got out of that one. . Thank God. No. No. More importantly though, Kelsey forged the way in pushing our parents. It's pushing the limits of our parents' sanity. My parents ran a pretty tight ship, uh, all girls school for seven years. No parties, uh, door opened when a boy is over, et cetera. But on the night of Kelsey's senior prom, my eyes were opened.

• 3:27 – 3:27 .

• 3:30 – 3:42 Naturally prom after party was out of the question. Proctor party, uh, for poor Kelsey, but she did manage to pull it off by claiming she was stuck in traffic for three full hours.

• 3:43 – 3:43 .

• 3:43 – 3:49 Eventually my parents smart as they are connected, the dots when she came home and spent the rest of the night hanging over the toilet,.

• 3:50 – 3:50 .

• 3:52 – 4:11 Her boyfriend Mikey sat downstairs telling us how ugly Kelsey looked when she threw up. But Kelsey, I thought you never looked more beautiful that night. , at the time, I didn't quite understand, but she was introducing me to a new art form, The art of lying to our parents.

• 4:12 – 4:12 .

• 4:13 – 4:17 Thank you, Kelsey. You walked so I could run.

• 4:25 – 4:26 Thank you.

• 4:28 – 5:04 As I've gotten older, I realized Kelsey didn't have it always figured out. Um, she didn't always know it was serious again, where her footsteps were gonna take her, but this realization has only made her stronger and braver in my eyes. She forges ahead with all, always knowing where she's gonna land, because she's someone you wanna follow because you know she was born with some sort of innate treasure map. And you know, she's yelped all the best taco spots to hit along the way. When Kelsey shows you love, it hits different. Yeah, She's not afraid to get into excruciating detail about her own insecurities and her own struggles, and it makes you feel a little bit less burdened by your own.

• 5:06 – 5:37 She's like my metaphorical flight attendant warning me that there might be some slight turbulence along the way, but it's all good. Own it. It's all part of the journey. Step five, breathe some life into your speech with some inspirational quotes. I'm a savage. Yeah. Classy, bougie, ratchet. Yeah, Sassy, moody, nasty. Hey, hey. Yeah, Acting stupid. What's happening, bitch? Whoa, whoa. What's happening? That's from Megan, The Stallion, One of Kelsey's favorite.

• 5:41 – 6:19 Um, another great quote I love is from American author, Bell Hooks. The word love is often defined as a noun, but we would all be better if we used the word love as a verb, which leads me into step six. Talk about the couple. As much as I hate to let wedding words.us down, I'm not in the business of following rules. So I'd like to take this moment to give Corey Jacobi some airtime. Uh, after months of after months quarantined with Corey, I've studied this human with the precision of the David Attenborough documentary, and I can say with full confidence that he embodies the verb of loving.

• 6:21 – 6:23 When I first met Corey, I was kind of confused.

• 6:24 – 6:24 .

• 6:25 – 6:39 Not gonna lie, I thought to myself, There's literally no way that someone can be this selfless and kind without having an ulterior motive. Turns out there is no ulterior motive with Corey. He's just a good person.

• 6:41 – 6:41 .

• 6:42 – 6:44 Okay. Still watching you.

• 6:45 – 6:45 .

• 6:46 – 7:22 Throughout 2020, while the world was ravaged by a pandemic, the Boston family household faced a virus of its own. The love of Corey Jacobi, Oh God, it's inescapable, it's contagious. It doesn't discriminate. It started small. He'd mediate an argument or two, he'd fix a light bulb, he'd make some breakfast tacos, but it grew in ferocity in size quickly. Corey believes in the innate goodness of people, and I'll never stop trying to emulate him.

• 7:23 – 7:32 Thank you, Kelsey, for bringing this wonderful person into our lives and for sharing him with us. Corey, you are the bonus baby. Our family never knew we needed.

• 7:34 – 7:35 ,.

• 7:35 – 8:06 And most importantly, thank you for teaming up almost every night to create unnecessarily elaborate dinners for family, for family dinners, family meals. When two foodies come together in love, it's a win-win for everyone. , and it's hotter than Awan Pepper. I didn't know if I was gonna put that in, but I just did. . Um, in many ways, Corey and Kelsey are similar people. They're both focused and driven. They're both enthusiastic about the finer things in life. They're both fiercely loyal to the people they love the most.

• 8:07 – 8:23 Um, but they also challenge each other. Duh. They push each other. They're both not afraid to call each other out when necessary. Kelsey, you are your most compassionate, loving, positive, and silly self around Corey. Truly. Corey, I didn't know you before Kelsey, so I, I don't know if you've improved.

• 8:26 – 8:39 Hopefully you have. I don't know. Can't speak to that. All I know is a room with Corey and Kelsey in it is a room I wanna be in, so I'm pretty happy right now.

• 8:46 – 9:04 Step seven, end with a callback. That is not too cliche, Kelsey. You can manufacture your own spark all on your own, but with, with Corey, by your side, you're a wildfire. Congratulations to you both, but most importantly, congratulations to me.

• 9:07 – 9:07 Thank You guys.

Jokes & One Liners to Include in a Maid of Honor Speech

• “I met the groom's parents earlier and they told me to cut some inappropriate stories out, so nothing about ex-girlfriends…” (drop an index card)…. “alcohol…” (drop another index card) …. “the police….” (drop another index card)…
• “Well, what can I tell you about the bride? I've known her for about 10 years, she's beautiful, intelligent, kind, caring” squint at cards “Wait, sorry, wrong wedding.”
• “I read somewhere the perfect maid of honor speech should last as long as it takes for the bride and groom to make love. So ladies and gentlemen, please raise a glass to the happy couple!”
• “I'd like to give you and the groom relationship advice, but what do I know? I'm single and have a cat.”
• “There comes a time in everyone's life where they met their one true love, their soulmates. The person that's going to love them and cherish them for the rest of their life. And that moment came for [Bride's Name]…[dramatic effect pause] When she met me 25 years ago.”
• “The start of their relationship was fast and furious: he was fast and she was furious”
• “Everyone says this is meant to be the best day of your life, but I know it isn't. It's the best day of your life SO FAR, because I know you have so many more amazing days to come together.”
• “I know I'm not supposed to speak for more than 45 minutes, so I'm just going to apologize now for going over a little.”
• “All those among you who know the bride will know that she is a wonderful and caring person. She deserves a good husband. Thank God *insert grooms name* married her before she found one.”
• Loyal, caring, sincere, honest, a great woman… but that's enough about me, I'm here to give a speech about [Bride]!
• [Bride] and I have always loved each other like sisters. Hopefully she'll feel the same after she hears my speech.
• You know what they say: behind every great woman… is a group of other great women cheering her on.” 
• “Good evening everyone! I'm [Maid of Honor]. I'm sure you all know me as [Bride] ‘s younger sister, but if you don't, well done on sneaking into the wedding unnoticed!”
• “Ladies and gentlemen, we are gathered here today to celebrate something truly magical. Something so rare and wondrous that it simply must be celebrated. I am, of course, talking about the free booze.”
• “The best thing about being in love is hearing someone say ‘I love you' for the first time…but the second best thing is hearing them say it again after they already know everything about you.”  
• “I knew [bride] was meant for [groom] when I saw how well she tolerates his terrible puns.”
• “(Bride), if you would, please place your hand on the table. (Groom), I'd like to ask you place your hand on your beautiful wife's hand. Now everyone, I'd like to ask for a moment of silence. This is for you, (Groom), so enjoy it. Cherish it. Savor it. Because it's the last upper hand you're ever going to have.”
• “When (legendary aunty) decided to get married she called up the smartest friend she had, and asked her to be the maid of honor. But that young lady declined. She then called up the most fun friend she had. Buts she too declined. Then she decided to call up the most beautiful friend of hers and I told her…” stop calling dammit. This is the 3rd time. I'll be your maid of honor”.
• “It's strange to be giving a speech like this one, because my parents taught me that if I had nothing good to say about someone, I should say nothing at all.”
• “[Groom], thank you for loving our girl even on her worst days – including today, when she threatened to kill me if I didn't write a good Maid of Honor speech.” 
• I'm [Maid of Honor], maid of honor, but I think I was picked by default since the bride doesn't like people.
• “The bride is known to be beautiful, gracious, kinda and remar….remarkca… shit… then turn to the bride and say “sorry girlfriend I cant read your handwriting”
• Each one of us gathered together in this room has something really important in common: none of us have a clue what I'm going to say next!
• [Bride] knew I was a bit nervous about giving this speech, so she gave me some great advice. She said “Don't try to be too charming, witty or intellectual — just be yourself!'”
• “[Groom] may not be perfect but he's perfect for [bride].”  
• Marriage isn't for everyone—but it obviously works for them because here we are.” 
• If your speech is following someone else's, you can say, (Name) gave a great speech and I agree with everything he/she said. Then sit down.
• “I asked [bride] what she loves most about [groom], and she said his ability to make her laugh – even when she doesn't want to.”
• “I'd like to start by congratulating [Bride] on her excellent taste in speech givers.”
• “I don't believe in roasting the couple on their special day. Therefore this speech won't contain anything embarrassing or controversial. Instead I'll refer only to the kind, funny side of their characters. Thank you and goodnight.”
• “I have to admit, I was a little skeptical when [bride] first told me she was dating [groom]. But then I realized, love is blind!”
• “I'm so happy that you two found each other. Because let's be honest, we all know that dating apps are a crap shoot.” 
• “I used to think love was finding someone who knows all your secrets and still loves you anyway…then I met [bride] and realized love is finding someone who knows all your secrets and still puts up with you anyway.” 
• “I can only say in my defense that [Bride] and I share a common sense of humor so if this speech isn't funny, blame her.”
• “Good evening everyone, today you are witness to a unique and important event in history: the first and presumably last time anyone will ever trust me to give a speech.”

Maid of Honor Final Toast Examples

• Please raise your glasses in honor of Bride and Groom.
• Let us toast the happiness of Bride with her new husband, [Groom's Name]!
• Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.
• Here's to love, laughter and happily ever after.
• Here's to the health of the happy pair; may good luck follow them everywhere; And may each day of wedded bliss be always as sweet and joyous as this.
• Cheers to the happy newlyweds! May you love each other more every day you spend together!
• Let's toast to the new husband and wife!
• Best wishes and years of bliss to the new couple!
• Here's to the husband, And here's to the wife;, May they remain, Lovers for life.
• Let's drink to love, which is nothing—unless it's divided into two with someone you love.
• Join me in honoring the marriage of Bride and Groom!
• As (Groom) and (Bride) start their new life together,
• What a wonderful wedding day indeed, so let's raise our glasses to wherever their lives may lead.
• With love and happiness, here's to you, Bride and Groom!

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Giving a maid of honor speech is an honor – and also a responsibility.

If you’re invited to be maid of honor at a family member or friend’s wedding, you have a huge role in the wedding ceremony. Writing the perfect wedding toast or speech can often seem like the hardest part.

Coming up with the perfect toast for this special day is much easier when you have sample speeches to be inspired by. We’ve compiled an essential list of maid of honor speech examples, from roast to religious.

Read on for our step-by-step guide to writing a maid of honor speech, and then watch the examples below. Now you’re ready to prepare a great speech with confidence.

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The Maid of Honor, sometimes also called the Bridesmaid or even the Matron of Honor, speaks after the Best Man. Remember, the audience has to listen to lots of speeches before and after you.

So, my tip number one is: Keep it brief and simple; for your own utility and the convenience of the guests.

Maid of honor speeches can take many different forms. They might be funny or sweet, creative or traditional . Often, the speech will incorporate different elements, like humor and nostalgia, to hit all the right notes. Most speeches are 5 to 10 minutes long, but wedding speeches can also take many shapes, from short toasts to extended performances.

These simple tips will help you write a maid of honor speech that’s a perfect fit for the wedding day.

Begin Early

When you need to write a maid of honor speech, you’ll want to start early.

Begin the brainstorming process as soon as you’re asked to be maid of honor or bridesmaid. This might involve jotting down fun memories or an embarrassing story you’ve shared with the bride. You can also consider talking about the groom, the bride and groom’s relationship, or how they met.

Write down some ideas early on and then take a few days or weeks to let them percolate. When you come back to your ideas, the speech outline will start to become more clear.

Try a Quote

A great way to start or end your speech can be with a beautiful quote that has meaning for the wedding day. It can be funny, emotional, or poignant. Just make sure it’s something that has meaning for the newlyweds and that wedding guests can resonate with as well.

Tell Stories

The best speeches combine quotes or big ideas about love with real stories. Stories are fun for guests to listen to, and give your speech a solid foundation.

Choosing the right stories about the bride, or the bride and groom, is important. Do you want your speech to be funny, inspiring, or touching? The stories you tell will help set the tone. Think about details: the sights, sounds, or sensations you remember will keep the audience’s attention. Just don’t let it get too long – most speeches should be 10 minutes or less.

Be Prepared

Your speech will go much better if you’ve practiced ahead of time – more than once. The more you practice, the more confident you will feel when the big day comes.

Practice reading your speech, and time yourself to make sure it’s the length you want. Keep in mind that at the wedding ceremony or reception there will be pauses for laughter or applause, which will make your speech a few minutes longer.

You might want to videotape yourself practicing, or even practice in front of a friend or family member to get some feedback on your delivery. Just make sure not to give it to the bride ahead of time – your speech should come as a surprise on the wedding day.

Don’t forget to bring notes, too. Even if you never actually look at them, they will help you feel more comfortable when you take the microphone, and can save you if you draw a blank when it’s time to start.

A heartfelt speech is better than a perfect one.

Don’t be afraid that you’re going to stumble over a word or mess up somehow. If you’ve practiced ahead of time and drafted your speech early, you’ve done all the preparation you need.

Take the stage with confidence, knowing that little mistakes and imperfections can sometimes make a speech that much more meaningful because it’s genuine. If you laugh or cry, the wedding guests are probably going to laugh or cry with you. Keep your sense of humor if the mic cuts out or you stumble over a word. Enjoy the moment!

Here are our maid of honor speech tips in a sample template plus the speaking do’s and don’ts in a matrimonial ceremony based on their complimentary life styles. You are invited and do not know what to say?

Use our template for outlining thoughts, ideas and facts about the bridal couple. I will show you what you should mention and what the text should focus on. If you are not an experienced talker: relax, you do not have to say much, less is more is often said and well put!

But always: public speeches should be from the heart! Be enthusiastic and sincere, but do not exaggerate.

Maid Of Honor Speech Template

INTRODUCTION

• Tell who you are for the ones who don’t know.
• Thank your friend for asking you to be in this wedding.
• How long have you known the bride and groom?
• Why were you selected to accept the honor giving the oral?
• Why did you accept the invitation?
• How did the two of them met?
• What did you think when you saw their friendship became more serious? Reflect on their complimentary life styles. Approach this from the female side. Be tasteful. The best man is at the grooms’ side … so his job is to cover that part, not you 🙂
• Can you come up with a funny story that illustrates the personality of the wedding couple? Think about characterizing sweet, inspiring, exciting or just average daily events or moments.
• Can you come up with a hilarious anecdote based on a real life situation?
• Conclude this part of this special wedding address with letting them know that’s why you were so happy when they announced their wedding. As I said before: keep it short. Stick to one funny story. Ask others if they really like it, if it’s funny enough to share.

THE CEREMONY

• Stress the importance of the matrimonial ceremony. Give your personal view.
• Use a famous quote about marriage, love or the future.
• Relate a short poem to the couple. Quotes and poems are a good starting point for inspiration.
• Wish the bride and groom a long and happy life.
• Express your love and best wishes for the future.
• If they have had hard times, then mention it briefly in one poetic sentence. Not more. Focus on this happy day!
• You can thank and toast to the bride and groom on behalf of the bride, but only if she asked you to do so.

Do’s And Don’ts

• Bring notes, know what you want to say. Too much improvisation can lead to babbling, stumbling or a too long maid of honor speech.
• Do not get too personal. Ask others if the stories you want to tell will not embarrass the bride and groom or the guests. Check double check is the motto.
• Do not come up with negative or depressing speech topics. Kee it nice and friendly for all.
• Avoid sexual tinted expressions, political engagement or religion issues and hold back your horses when you want to mention actual news or political stories.
• Read a draft out loud in front of somenone else and ask for opinions. Alter with the recommendations in mind.

Although maid of honor speeches can take many forms, having a classic speech outline will help you get started. If you’re not sure what to write, follow these simple steps and you’ll be able to write a beautiful, traditional speech.

1. Introduce Yourself

You can’t count on all the wedding guests knowing who you are or how you know the bride. Make time early in your speech to mention your name, what your relationship to the bride is, and how long you’ve known each other.

2. Thank People

Weddings can be expensive, stressful, and difficult to plan. It’s good to take a moment in your speech to thank the parents and other notable guests who helped make the wedding day happen.

3. Tell Stories

Next, you can launch into a story of your choice. There are many different directions you can take this part of the speech. An embarrassing story you share with the bride can get guests laughing, while a touching anecdote about the newlywed couple’s relationship might make happy tears flow.

4. Add a Quote

You can add a meaningful quote anywhere in your speech. The quotes you choose should have meaning to both you and the bride (and maybe the groom as well), and also be relatable to the other guests in attendance. If it’s an inside joke or an obscure reference that not many people will get, you may want to leave it out.

5. Give Heartfelt Emotion

Even the funniest roasts of the bride often have a moment when the speech becomes touching. No matter what the tone of your speech is, it doesn’t hurt to take a moment and recognize the beauty of the day. The best speeches often aren’t all funny or all sentimental – they’re a mix of both.

6. Finish Strong

Your ending will be the part of the speech guests are most likely to remember. Give a strong ending, whether it’s a quote, a final story, or proposing a toast to the bride and groom.

Sister Maid of Honor Speech

This sister wedding speech celebrates all of the fun of watching your family get married. The bride’s sister starts out with humor, telling family memories through a funny lens. However, she quickly gets emotional as she recounts how much her sister means to her.

“You’ve been a great mentor. You’ve been a beautiful impact on my life, and you taught me that there’s beauty in everyone no matter what they do.”

Best Friend Matron of Honor Speech

The best friend of the bride for over 10 years, this matron of honor has nothing but praise for the bride. She recounts how she approved right away upon meeting the groom, and how excited she was upon learning of their engagement.

“You have really, truly become like my sister. I knew I’d be telling you how beautiful you looked, but seeing you next to your handsome groom, you really are absolutely breathtaking.”

Short Matron of Honor Speech

This short speech starts with a funny memory of the bride talking about the groom years before their engagement. In just a minute and a half, the matron of honor brings both laughter and heartfelt emotion to her speech.

“Speaking from experience, marriage is a wild ride. But when you find that right partner, you never want the ride to end.”

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Maid of Honor Toast

In a fun, beautiful toast to the bride, this bride’s sister thanks guests for coming, and then launches into memories of growing up together. She shouts out to both the bride and the groom for being important parts of her life.

“Katie is so much more than a big sister to me  – she’s my best friend, my mentor, and the unfailing reminder that sometimes being a sister is even better than being a princess.”

Matron of Honor Speech

This matron of honor gets guests laughing by pulling out a scroll to read from at the beginning of her speech. She recounts the embarrassing story of how the bride stole her spot on the varsity team when they first met. However, their friendship quickly blossomed, and the matron of honor touches on many of the fun things they did together as kids.

“I had the time of my life growing up with you.”

Funny Maid of Honor Speech

In a funny, lighthearted speech, this maid of honor recounts growing up with the bride, and even planning her wedding as little girls. The maid of honor also turns to the groom and thanks him for being the perfect partner for her friend. She fills the speech with memories, from embarrassing to sweet, and ends with a song for a truly memorable wedding moment.

“You’re all the things I hoped for my best friend and more, and I’m so grateful you found her and that you love her the way she really deserves.”

Roast Speech

This maid of honor kept guests laughing with her deadpan delivery of jokes in this short speech. Her stand-up comedy is perfect for the occasion, and she pokes fun at everyone from the bride to the groom to herself.

“When I first sat down and started thinking about what I want to say here tonight, I kept thinking to myself, ‘I can’t believe Erin’s getting married…in less than an hour. No, I’m kidding, I had it written before breakfast.”

Christian Maid of Honor Speech

A sweet speech from the bride’s best friend hits the right notes in a short amount of time. She compares the couple’s love to being like the love of Christ because it is so strong and so beautiful.

“The love that these two share is so strong, it doesn’t need a thousand stories, it doesn’t need a thousand words; it just radiates from these two.”

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Creative Maid of Honor Speech

This fun maid of honor speech starts with the bride’s sister recalling dancing to pop songs as a kid with her mom, who was pregnant with the bride. Then, she uses a musical interlude to tell the story of the bride’s life from a sister’s perspective. In a mashup of pop music covers, the maid of honor gives a great performance that gets the wedding guests clapping in time.

“[My mom and I] danced around the house to Cyndi Lauper’s ‘Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. And lo and behold, 9:30 am on day 9…DeeDee arrives. Apparently she also just wanted to have fun.”

Bridesmaid Speech

In this genuine, sweet speech, the bridesmaid’s excitement about the happy couple’s new marriage is truly evident. Her fun while holding the microphone is contagious to all the guests.

“I’m just so excited to be here, to witness the true love that is so evident between Taylor and Niko.”

Touching Maid of Honor Speech

This heartfelt, emotional maid of honor speech was given by a college friend of both the bride and the groom. She recounts the story of how she first met the bride, and then tells the bride and groom’s love story as she saw it unfold.

“It was obvious there was something truly amazing between the two of them. Four months of courting and a very, very, very confused Mark later, Mara finally accepted his proposal to be boyfriend and girlfriend – and the rest is history.”

Bridesmaid Toast

These bridesmaids toast the bride in song form. They celebrate the happy couple in their own words, and then shout out to notable wedding guests, keeping everyone entertained the entire time.

“Love is the reason we’re all here – that’s what you toasted for.”

Maid of Honor Speech

The maid of honor speech can be just as hilarious and emotional as the best man speech . Amusing, creative speeches like this one might get a standing ovation. The maid of honor uses a numerical countdown to format her speech, ending with the number one which is, of course, the bride.

“At the end of the day, you’re always gonna have that one person who’s in your corner, who’s your personal cheerleader.”

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6 Maid of Honor Speech Examples

Giving a maid of honor speech is a beautiful way to celebrate your bond with the bride and convey your heartfelt wishes for the newlyweds.

As you stand before the wedding guests, your words have the power to evoke laughter, tears, and cherished memories that will last a lifetime.

Maid of Honor Speech Examples

To help you write a speech that perfectly captures your unique relationship with the bride and the essence of this joyous occasion, we’ve compiled six maid of honor speech examples.

These samples showcase various styles, tones, and lengths, ensuring you’ll find inspiration for your own unforgettable tribute.

Here are six maid of honor speech examples to inspire you:

1. Short and Sweet

[Bride’s Name], my dear friend, I am so honored to stand by your side today as you embark on this new chapter of your life with [Groom’s Name]. Your friendship has been a constant source of joy, laughter, and support throughout the years. I’ve watched your love story unfold, and it’s clear that you two are meant for each other. Your love radiates, and it’s a privilege to witness the beginning of your forever.

[Groom’s Name], thank you for making my best friend so incredibly happy. I know you will cherish and love her always. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and endless love. Cheers to the happy couple!

— END OF SPEECH —

Commentary: This short and sweet speech is perfect for a maid of honor who wants to express her love and support for the bride and groom without being too lengthy. It’s ideal for intimate weddings or when the maid of honor prefers to keep things concise and heartfelt.

2. Heartfelt and Emotional

[Bride’s Name], my sister, my confidante, and my best friend. Today, as you stand beside the love of your life, I can’t help but reflect on the incredible journey that has led us here. From the moments of laughter and tears we’ve shared to the challenges we’ve faced together, you have always been my rock, my guiding light.

[Groom’s Name], I have watched you love and support [Bride’s Name] with unwavering devotion. Your love story is one of patience, understanding, and true partnership. I know that together, you will weather any storm and celebrate every triumph. Your love is an inspiration to us all.

As you embark on this new adventure, I want you both to know that my love and support will always be with you. May your marriage be filled with laughter, joy, and endless moments of happiness. Here’s to a love that will stand the test of time, to a friendship that will never fade, and to a future filled with all the blessings life has to offer. Cheers to the happy couple!

Commentary: This heartfelt and emotional speech is perfect for a maid of honor who shares a deep, lifelong bond with the bride. It’s suitable for weddings where the maid of honor wants to express her love, gratitude, and unwavering support for the newlyweds, while also reflecting on the special moments and challenges they’ve faced together.

3. Humorous and Lighthearted

[Bride’s Name], who would have thought that the girl who once convinced me to sneak out of the house for a midnight ice cream run would be the first of us to get married? I guess your sweet tooth finally paid off!

[Groom’s Name], you’re a brave man for taking on the challenge of being [Bride’s Name]’s partner in crime. I hope you’re ready for a lifetime of adventures, laughter, and the occasional impromptu dance party in the kitchen. Trust me, with [Bride’s Name] by your side, there’s never a dull moment.

On a more serious note, I’ve watched your love story unfold, and it’s clear that you two are perfect for each other. Your love is the kind that makes people believe in soulmates and happily ever afters. I know that together, you will build a life filled with joy, laughter, and endless love.

So, let’s raise our glasses to the happy couple. May your marriage be filled with all the ice cream, dance parties, and laughter your hearts can handle. Cheers to a love that’s as sweet as it is strong!

Commentary: This humorous and lighthearted speech is perfect for a maid of honor who wants to inject some fun and laughter into the wedding festivities. It’s suitable for weddings where the bride and groom appreciate a good joke and enjoy a more relaxed, casual atmosphere. The speech balances humor with heartfelt sentiments, ensuring that the message of love and support shines through.

4. Sentimental and Nostalgic

[Bride’s Name], as I stand here today, I can’t help but think back to the countless memories we’ve shared over the years. From the days of playing dress-up and dreaming of our future weddings to the late-night conversations about love, life, and everything in between, you’ve always been my constant, my safe haven.

I remember the moment you first told me about [Groom’s Name]. Your eyes sparkled with a joy I had never seen before, and I knew that he was the one for you. Watching your love story unfold has been one of the greatest privileges of my life.

[Groom’s Name], I want to thank you for loving [Bride’s Name] the way she deserves to be loved. Your patience, kindness, and unwavering support have been a testament to the depth of your love. I know that with you by her side, [Bride’s Name] will always have a partner who cherishes and supports her dreams.

As you embark on this new chapter, I want you both to know that my love and support will always be with you. May your marriage be a beautiful tapestry woven with the threads of your shared memories, hopes, and dreams. Here’s to a love that will always find its way home, no matter where life’s journey takes you. Cheers to the happy couple!

Commentary: This sentimental and nostalgic speech is perfect for a maid of honor who wants to take a walk down memory lane and celebrate the special bond she shares with the bride. It’s suitable for weddings where the bride and groom appreciate a more emotional and reflective tone, as the speech focuses on the journey that has led them to this moment and the love that will guide them through their future together.

5. Short and Funny

[Bride’s Name], I never thought I’d see the day when you’d willingly wake up before noon on a weekend, but here we are at your wedding! Miracles do happen.

[Groom’s Name], you must be pretty special to have captured [Bride’s Name]’s heart. I mean, she’s never shared her secret stash of chocolate with anyone, but I’ve seen her sneaking you a piece or two. If that’s not true love, I don’t know what is.

All jokes aside, I couldn’t be happier for you both. Your love is the kind that makes the world a little brighter and reminds us all of what truly matters. I know that together, you’ll create a life filled with laughter, love, and endless happiness.

So, let’s raise our glasses to the happy couple. May your marriage be filled with all the joy, laughter, and chocolate you can handle. Cheers to a love that’s as sweet as it is strong!

Commentary: This short and funny speech is perfect for a maid of honor who wants to keep things light and humorous while still expressing her love and support for the newlyweds. It’s suitable for weddings where the bride and groom enjoy a good laugh and appreciate a more casual, laid-back atmosphere.

6. Lengthy and Heartfelt

[Bride’s Name], my dearest friend, I stand here today with a heart full of love and gratitude for the incredible bond we share. From the moment we met, I knew that you were someone special, someone who would change my life in ways I never could have imagined.

As children, we dreamed of the day when we would stand beside each other on our wedding days, promising to be there through every twist and turn life had to offer. Little did we know that those dreams would become a reality, and that I would have the honor of standing by your side as you marry the love of your life.

[Groom’s Name], I want to thank you for being the partner that [Bride’s Name] has always deserved. Your love for her is a testament to the power of true partnership, and I know that together, you will build a life filled with joy, laughter, and endless love. I’ve watched you love and support [Bride’s Name] through every challenge and celebrate every triumph, and I know that with you by her side, she will always have a safe haven to call home.

As I look back on the memories we’ve shared, [Bride’s Name], I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotion. From the late-night conversations about our hopes and dreams to the tears we’ve shed during life’s toughest moments, you have always been my rock, my guiding light. Your strength, resilience, and unwavering love have been an inspiration to me, and I know that they will continue to guide you as you embark on this new chapter of your life.

[Groom’s Name], I want you to know that you’re not just gaining a wife today; you’re also gaining a family. We welcome you with open arms and promise to love and support you just as we do [Bride’s Name]. Your love for each other is a beautiful reminder of what truly matters in this world, and I know that together, you will create a legacy of love that will inspire generations to come.

As you stand here today, surrounded by the love and support of your family and friends, I want you both to know that my love for you knows no bounds. I promise to be there for you through every joy and every sorrow, to celebrate your triumphs and to hold your hand during life’s toughest moments. Your love is a beautiful reminder of what it means to find your soulmate, and I know that together, you will create a life filled with all the happiness and love your hearts can hold.

So, let’s raise our glasses to the happy couple. May your marriage be a beautiful tapestry woven with the threads of your shared memories, hopes, and dreams. May you always find comfort in each other’s arms and joy in each other’s laughter. And may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day, reminding us all of the power of true partnership and the beauty of a love that knows no bounds. Cheers to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], and to a lifetime of happiness together!

Commentary: This lengthy and heartfelt speech is perfect for a maid of honor who wants to express the depth of her love and gratitude for the bride and the special bond they share. It’s suitable for weddings where the maid of honor and bride have a long history together and have supported each other through life’s ups and downs. The speech is emotional, reflective, and focuses on the power of true love and partnership, making it ideal for couples who value heartfelt expressions of love and support.

Writing the perfect maid of honor speech is a beautiful way to celebrate your bond with the bride and express your heartfelt wishes for the newlyweds.

By drawing inspiration from these examples and tailoring your words to your unique relationship, you’ll create a speech that will be remembered for years to come.

Remember, the most memorable speeches come from the heart.

Whether you choose to be humorous, sentimental, or a mix of both, let your love and support for the bride and groom shine through.

Your words have the power to make their special day even more unforgettable, so speak from the heart and enjoy every moment of this joyous occasion.

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Funny Maid of Honor Speeches That’ll Have Your Guests in Splits

Maid of honor speeches have to be written with a lot of care and thought. People are always waiting for the speech by the maid of honor as they are the most entertaining speeches.

Maid of honor speeches are very difficult to pen. You need to think carefully and make them interesting with responsibility. You can write an emotional or funny speech; a funny speech will lighten up the atmosphere, one that is already charged up with an array of emotions.

There are many maid of honor speech ideas that you can come up with. You are the most special friend of the bride, as you are chosen to be her maid of honor. Thus, your speech has to be likable and memorable. You need to add emotion to the speech, yet make it funny and entertaining for the audience. Here’s more on how to draft the speech, after which are listed a few ideas.

How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech?

You need to begin by introducing yourself to the ones who don’t know you. Thank your friend for selecting you as her maid of honor. Talk about how long you have known the bride and groom, and the reason for expecting the invitation.

Speak about the importance of the institution of marriage and give your point of view on it. Begin with a short poem or a quote on weddings, love, or the future.

Focus on the couple in your next paragraph. Speak about how the couple met and say it with a dash of humor. Speak how their friendship turned serious and how opposites attract (if that is the case). Try to make the events as funny as you can without compromising on the actual intention.

Add a funny story related to the couple. This will add to the entertainment part of your speech. Make sure the speech is funny and doesn’t cause any embarrassment to the bride or groom.

Add a hilarious anecdote that is related to the couples real life. Conclude your maid of honor wedding speech explaining how happy you are for them. Keep the speech short and simple.

Wish the couple a happy married life together and express your love and best wishes. End the speech on a happy note and a thank you.

You can raise a toast to the bride and groom on behalf of the bride, only if asked to do so by the bride herself.

Your focus should be the bride as the best man speech will focus on the groom.

Humorous Maid of Honor Speech Examples

“Never forget the two most important replies: ‘you’re right, dear’ and ‘okay, buy it’. Never be afraid that Maggie will leave you, she has spent years training you and she won’t give that up lightly.”

“It is said that before marriage a man will lay awake thinking about something you said, after marriage he’ll fall asleep before you have finished saying it. I can see many nodding heads that proves some of you out there can relate to this statement.”

“Maggie just glows when she talks about John. She obviously hasn’t asked him to take out the garbage yet!”

“John, always remember the famous quote by Zsa Zsa Gabor – “A man in love is incomplete until he is married. Then he’s finished.”

“John and Maggie have set the ground rules for their marriage; he won’t try to run her life and he won’t attempt to run his own life either!”

“When Maggie first asked me to be her bridesmaid I felt delighted. As the big day approached, I was asked to give a speech and a toast. I fall into the shy and retiring category, so I obviously tried to think of ways to get out of it. But have you ever tried saying no to Maggie and succeed?”

Make a sincere effort and try to keep the speech genuine and heartfelt. You can always take help of someone you know who is good at humor. A simple play of words will help you make memorable and well-appreciated speech.

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8 Ideas For Your Maid Of Honor Speech

Often the hardest part of writing a maid of honor speech for a wedding is figuring out just how to start your speech. You know what not to say in a wedding toast (like mentioning exes, embarrassing stories, or drunken debacles), but knowing what to say about a great friend and her new spouse can leave even the best of public speakers a bit overwhelmed. There is so much to say in just two to three minutes! Thankfully, there are a few tried and true ways to start a speech that will help get your creative juices flowing in no time. Your friend or family member asked you to give a speech for a reason, so don't worry — you got this.

The list below lays out eight intro ideas for your maid of honor speech, but you can also use them to write your whole entire speech. Simply pick one idea to start your speech, or follow numbers one to eight to write your entire speech. Either way, once you start brainstorming a few different intros, you're likely to stumble on a gem of an idea and find your maid-of-honor-speech-writing stride before you know it. So take a deep breath, grab a glass of wine (preferably poured into one of those big goblet glasses), and let your maid of honor awesomeness flow! After all, who could do this better than you? Literally nobody , obviously.

1. Tell who you are

It's always a good idea to start your speech by letting the crowd know who you are, and how you know the bride. Otherwise, they may be asking the people around them, "Who is she?" right as you're getting to the best part of your speech, and they might not be fully engaged in the rest of it.

2. Give thanks

Since everyone knows weddings are expensive and require a lot of time and energy to plan, it's a good idea to recognize the parents who helped contribute to make the celebration possible. Particularly if the parents are hosting the wedding reception, or have hosted any of the wedding festivities, now is an appropriate time to thank them, and it gives everyone else the opportunity to clap and show their appreciation as well.

3. Tell a story about the bride

You can start off by telling a story about the bride, or by telling the story of how you and the bride first met. Just remember to leave exes, drunken shenanigans, and unflattering stories of the bride out. This is definitely a situation where the "whole truth and nothing but the truth" is not applicable.

4. Tell a story about the first time you met the groom

Beginning your speech with a funny story about how you met the groom for the first time can be a good way to get people laughing. Were you at a concert with your friend when this random guy (a.k.a. the groom) tripped and spilled a drink on her? Did she try on 15 different outfits before he came to your shared post-college apartment to pick her up for their first date? Any fun stories about your first impressions can make for a good laugh, and provide a window into the couple's first days together for the rest of the guests.

5. Tell a story about the couple

Telling a story about the couple is always a great segue into saying "That was the time I knew it was true love..." You can start by saying you remember that time they went to a baseball game together, or camping for the weekend, or out to lunch at that corner cafe, and that's when you saw a change in your friend. Something was different after that one time, and it would never be the same again (in a really good way).

6. Use a prop

Using a prop for a wedding speech is something that can go fantastically well if it ties into the main idea of the speech. Some good props can be old photos, slideshows, or an unexpected item like a childhood toy. This is not something that you want to force into your speech by any means, but if you happen to think of a prop that would work well, it can absolutely make a good wedding speech all that more amazing and memorable.

7. Share a love quote

A good way to start (or end) a speech is with a powerful quote about love that will resonate with the couple and the guests. Something meaningful that gives guests something to think about is always a safe bet.

8. Ask the audience a question

A good way to pick up everyone's energy is to bring an interactive component to your speech, like asking the audience a question. If done at the start of your speech, you may use a question like "Raise your hand if..." and "How many people here..." and then insert something funny about the couple. If you're going this route, it's a good idea to have a few shills in the audience who can get the audience going and encourage others to respond to the question. A question at the end of the speech can be something simple that will leave guests cheering like "Who is ready to celebrate this couple with an awesome party?" (and who doesn't like a good cheer after a speech!?).

Just remember to keep it short, keep it sweet, and keep it about the couple. As long as you speak from your heart, the couple will love it no matter what — and that's all that really counts.

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How To Write A Maid Of Honor Speech (That's Funny And Heartfelt At The Same Time)

Write and deliver a speech that everyone will remember (in a good way).

• Ossiana Tepfenhart

Written on Jul 03, 2018

So, you’ve been selected to have the role of Maid of Honor at your friend’s wedding. Congratulations! This means that you have a friend who really, truly appreciates you and everything you do for her. She trusts you and loves you so much, she wants you to be the one to help her as she has the biggest day of your life.

That’s an amazing honor to have, but with great pride comes great responsibility. As a Maid of Honor, you will be expected to help her out during the wedding with planning, wardrobe malfunctions, and possibly also cool out a Bridezilla moment before it takes over everything. The biggest thing you may be asked to do, though, is write a Maid of Honor speech. And if you don't know how to write a maid of honor speech, you might feel nervous about the whole thing.

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Speaking as a professional writer who has written a couple of speeches in their past, the art of creating a tactful speech isn’t easy to master. If executed incorrectly, a Maid of Honor speech is something that could easily turn into a disaster. Here’s how to write a maid of honor speech and do it right.

1. Write it out and practice it.

Do not be the one woman who insists that they “can totally wing it.” You will not be able to, especially when you have hundreds of eyes waiting for you to give a stirring speech. You will run out of things to say really quickly.

Jot down your speech and practice it. Don’t be afraid to carry the speech with you in your purse. It’s much better to look at a paper and read aloud than to sit in front of people looking like a deer in the headlights.

2. Follow a list of dos and don'ts.

The problem with writing a Maid of Honor Speech is how quickly things can go South. So, let’s start with a couple of things you should not do if this is your first time speaking at a wedding:

• If you’re not the type of person who typically does well with jokes, don’t force a joke in. While it could have worked for your Uncle Harry, it might not work for you. It’s better to be heartfelt than to have an awkward laugh.
• Don’t say anything you wouldn’t say in front of your own grandmother during the speech. It’s a wedding, not a bachelorette party. The bride’s 89-year-old Grandma Gertie will be there. She doesn’t need to hear about the bride and groom popping Molly at Coachella.
• Never mention anything that suggests that the bride was desperate. Things like “she’s finally met her dream man” or “she finally got what she wanted” will cast her in a bad light. Don’t do that to her.
• Never, EVER compare the groom or bride to past exes. This is just gauche, even if it’s in praise of the groom or bride. The wedding isn’t about exes; it’s about the couple who found love.
• Don't start drama or upstage the couple.  Now is not the time to reveal you're pregnant. Now is also not the time to reveal you slept with the groom. Capiche?
• Don’t make it about you. Have you ever listened to a wedding speech that made it clear that the couple weren’t the stars of the show? Did you ever see a speech where the Maid of Honor started talking about inside jokes few others knew? Cringey, right? Yeah, don’t do that .

3. Get your introduction right.

Unless this is the world’s smallest wedding, not everyone will know who you are. So, the best way to open up your speech is to talk about how you know the bride and who you are. This allows people from the groom’s party to connect with you and feel at ease with having a stranger extolling the happy couple.

Though you should introduce yourself and the relationship you have with the bride, there are a couple of things you should not do during your introduction. The biggest thing that you should remember is that the speech is about the bride and groom, not about you. So, while you should introduce yourself, it should be brief.

Engaging with the audience during the introduction is a good idea. Ask questions like, “How many people here have had Sally make them laugh with one of her killer jokes?” The more you interact with the audience, the better it usually is.

The bulk of the introduction should talk about the couples’ love story, and how important love is. It also should include a “thanks” for the honor that you’ve been given. After all, it’s a major compliment!

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4. Praise them, and if you have experience, offer them advice.

A Maid of Honor speech isn’t just a speech; it’s a way of showing that the bride’s best friend wishes to send them off into a happy marriage. This is the time for you to make them realize how much you treasure them. If you have been happily married, it’s also time to offer them advice.

Talk about how great the bride is and how wonderful the groom is. Tell them that you see the way they look at each other, and how happy you are that they have found the love. Things like talking about the groom’s wicked sense of humor, the bride’s loving family, and their wonderful future are highly encouraged here.

Then, if you have experience, offer them advice for the future. Tell them to look forward to each day as they age, and to work together to build a future together. Should you choose to do this, make a point of keeping the advice positive. You don’t want to scare them!

5. Wish them luck.

Finally, once you have given them the awesome energy you know you can give, wish them luck. It’s just that simple. The only thing that you need to make sure to do in this part of the speech is to be sincere, like in the Maid of Honor speech from My Best Friend’s Wedding .

6. Practice your delivery.

It seems simple, right? The Devil’s in the delivery. In theory, writing a good Maid of Honor speech is a cinch. However, in practice, things tend to fall apart. The issue that most people soon realize is that what looks good on paper doesn’t always sound good. Being able to deliver a killer speech is just as important as writing a good one.

It’s important to tailor your speech to actually sound good when you say it, rather than just look nice on paper. Here are some of the most important things to do when you’re tweaking your speech:

• Keep it short. A great Maid of Honor speech shouldn’t last more than three minutes, tops. It sounds short, but believe it or not, that’s a lot of time to stand up there talking. Read your speech slowly and time it.
• Practice makes perfect. Being a great speaker doesn’t happen overnight, nor does delivering an electrifying speech. Grab a friend and practice your delivery before the big day. If you are really struggling, hire a speech coach.
• For the love of all that is holy, stay sober until after the speech. A common way of handling stage fright is to drink it into submission. Do not do this. Slurred speech and rambling isn’t charming.

7. Finally, it’s okay to get a little bit misty-eyed.

Your bestie is just about to be married. It’s so incredible that you’re getting to witness this, right? Of course! It’s only natural that those who tend to get a bit emotional may get a couple of tears in their eyes. It’s okay to cry a little. Love is beautiful like that.

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50 Hilarious Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes to Lighten the Mood

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October 14, 2024

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Crafting a speech as the mother of the groom can be a daunting task, but adding humor can transform it into a memorable highlight of the wedding. This guide will walk you through 50 funny jokes tailored for a mother of the groom speech. From self-deprecating humor to playful teasing, and welcoming the bride, these jokes will help you convey warmth and joy. Plus, we’ll delve into tips for delivering these jokes effectively and steering clear of common pitfalls.

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Key Takeaways

• Understand your audience to tailor your jokes effectively.
• Balance humor with heartfelt moments to create a meaningful speech.
• Practice delivery and timing for maximum comedic effect.
• Incorporate personal experiences to make your jokes relatable.

Understanding Mother of the Groom Speech Humor

Humor is a vital element in mother of the groom speeches, helping to captivate the audience and create unforgettable memories. It’s all about understanding your audience and the event’s tone to use humor effectively. Recognize the audience’s demographics and preferences to tailor your speech. This insight helps you choose the right jokes and avoid content that may be deemed offensive. A good joke should resonate with the entire audience, not just a select few.

Analyzing your audience’s demographics is crucial. You might have a mix of ages, cultural backgrounds, and relationships with the couple. This diversity means you should choose jokes with universal appeal. Avoid inside jokes that only a handful of people will understand. Instead, test your material with trusted friends or family to ensure it resonates well with a wider group.

Keep your humor appropriate and family-friendly. Avoid jokes that could offend or embarrass guests. Double-check your content for unintended implications and consider cultural sensitivities. Have a trusted person review your speech to ensure it’s suitable for all attendees. Remember, your goal is to celebrate and make people smile, not cringe.

For more insights on crafting a humorous speech, check out How to Write a Funny Maid of Honor Speech .

Categories of Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes

Mother of the groom speech jokes can be divided into various categories, each serving a different purpose and adding variety to your speech. Understanding these categories will help you create an engaging and entertaining speech.

Self-Deprecating Humor

Self-deprecating humor involves making light of oneself, which can be an excellent way to break the ice and relate to your audience. It shows humility and helps endear you to the crowd. Identify personal quirks or experiences that can be turned into jokes, but balance self-deprecation with confidence to avoid seeming insecure. Use this type of humor to foster a connection with the audience while maintaining your role as the mother of the groom.

Playful Teasing of the Groom

Teasing the groom gently can be a fun way to highlight your close relationship. These jokes often draw on childhood memories or quirks. Choose stories that showcase the groom’s lovable qualities, and balance teasing with compliments to keep the tone positive. Avoid jokes that might embarrass or upset the groom, using teasing as a way to illustrate his growth and maturity.

Welcoming the Bride to the Family

Jokes about welcoming the bride into the family can show acceptance and affection for your new daughter-in-law. Often, these jokes play on family quirks or the challenges of joining a new family. Craft jokes that convey warmth and acceptance, using humor to address common in-law stereotypes positively. Balance jokes about family quirks with genuine welcome messages to ensure the bride feels included.

Marriage Advice with a Humorous Twist

Offering marriage advice with a humorous spin can be entertaining and meaningful. These jokes often touch on common marital challenges or stereotypes, ultimately conveying a message of love and commitment. Identify common marital situations that can be turned into light-hearted advice, balancing humor with genuine wisdom about relationships.

Funny Anecdotes from the Groom’s Childhood

Sharing amusing stories from the groom’s childhood can provide a great source of humor. These anecdotes give the audience insight into the groom’s personality and your relationship with him. Select childhood stories that highlight the groom’s personality, balancing humorous anecdotes with touching memories. Ensure stories are appropriate and won’t cause discomfort, using anecdotes to illustrate the groom’s growth and character.

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50 Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes Across Categories

Here is a comprehensive list of 50 mother of the groom speech jokes, divided into the categories discussed earlier. These jokes serve as examples and inspiration for crafting your own humorous speech.

Self-Deprecating Humor (10 jokes)

• “I’ve been practicing this speech for weeks. My husband says I talk in my sleep now, so at least someone’s been listening.”
• “I was so nervous about this speech, I considered hiring a stand-up comedian. Then I remembered I’m already married to one.”
• “They say public speaking is one of the biggest fears. Right now, I’d rather be swimming with sharks.”
• “I tried to write this speech on my own, but after the 10th crumpled paper, I realized why my son always asked his father for help with homework.”
• “I’m not used to public speaking. The last time I addressed a crowd this size was to yell at the neighborhood kids to get off my lawn.”
• “I spent hours trying to find the perfect outfit for today. Then I remembered, no one’s looking at me anyway.”
• “I’ve been dieting for months to fit into this dress. Turns out, all I needed was the stress of giving this speech.”
• “I considered using cue cards, but with my eyesight, I’d probably end up reading my grocery list instead.”
• “They say mothers-in-law should be seen and not heard. Well, too late for that now!”
• “I was told to speak from the heart. I just hope my heart is more eloquent than my mouth usually is.”

Playful Teasing of the Groom (10 jokes)

• “To my son, who always said he’d never get married. I guess miracles do happen.”
• “I remember when [Groom’s name] said girls were yucky. Look how far we’ve come!”
• “I’ve been waiting for this day since [Groom’s name] was born. I was starting to think I’d have to arrange the marriage myself.”
• “To think, all those years of teaching [Groom’s name] to share, and now he’s sharing his life with someone.”
• “[Groom’s name] always said he wanted to marry someone just like his mother. [Bride’s name], I’m so sorry.”
• “I never thought I’d see the day when [Groom’s name] would willingly put on a suit without being bribed.”
• “They say a son is a son till he takes a wife. [Groom’s name], does this mean you’ll finally move out?”
• “I used to be the number one woman in [Groom’s name]’s life. Now I’m happy to settle for number two… or three if we count his Xbox.”
• “[Groom’s name] always said he’d only get married when pigs fly. I’m glad he finally realized bacon doesn’t count.”
• “I’ve spent years trying to domesticate [Groom’s name]. [Bride’s name], he’s your project now.”

Welcoming the Bride to the Family (10 jokes)

• “Welcome to the family, [Bride’s name]. We’re all a little crazy, but I promise we’re mostly harmless.”
• “[Bride’s name], you’re not losing a family, you’re gaining a circus. Welcome to the show!”
• “To [Bride’s name], who had the courage to say ‘I do’ even after meeting us all.”
• “Welcome, [Bride’s name]. We’ve been looking for someone to take [Groom’s name] off our hands for years!”
• “[Bride’s name], welcome to the family. We have a great return policy, but all sales are final.”
• “To our new daughter-in-law. The family tree was looking a bit wilted, thanks for being our new bloom.”
• “[Bride’s name], welcome to the family. We’re not perfect, but we’re perfectly entertaining.”
• “To [Bride’s name], who clearly has excellent taste in men… and now, in-laws.”
• “Welcome to the family, [Bride’s name]. We promise to only show you [ Groom’s name]’s embarrassing baby photos on special occasions.”
• “[Bride’s name], you’re officially one of us now. Don’t worry, the initiation ceremony is mostly painless.”

Marriage Advice with a Humorous Twist (10 jokes)

• “Remember, marriage is all about compromise. It’s important to admit when you’re wrong, and to admit when your husband is right… which is never.”
• “The secret to a happy marriage? Two TVs and separate Netflix accounts.”
• “In marriage, it’s important to share responsibilities. One of you can be right, and the other can be happy.”
• “They say marriage is all about teamwork. Remember, there’s no ‘I’ in team, but there is a ‘me’.”
• “The key to a successful marriage is to find someone who puts up with your quirks. Or in [Groom’s name]’s case, someone who has more quirks than him.”
• “Marriage is like a walk in the park… Jurassic Park.”
• “Always go to bed angry. It’s much easier to solve problems after a good night’s sleep and a strong cup of coffee.”
• “In marriage, it’s the little things that count. Like how many times you have to ask for something to be done before doing it yourself.”
• “Remember, ‘Yes, dear’ is not just a phrase, it’s a survival tactic.”
• “Marriage is a workshop where the husband works and the wife shops. Or was it the other way around?”

Funny Anecdotes from the Groom’s Childhood (10 jokes)

• “When [Groom’s name] was five, he said he wanted to be a dinosaur when he grew up. I’d say becoming a husband is close enough.”
• “I remember when [Groom’s name] insisted on wearing his Superman costume to school every day for a month. [Bride’s name], I hope you’re prepared for his unique fashion choices.”
• “[Groom’s name] once tried to sell his little sister at a garage sale. Thankfully, his negotiation skills have improved since then.”
• “At age 10, [Groom’s name] declared he was moving out. He made it all the way to the treehouse in the backyard before coming home for dinner.”
• “[Groom’s name] used to insist that vegetables were poisonous. [Bride’s name], good luck with that one.”
• “When [Groom’s name] was 7, he wanted to marry our dog. I’m glad to see his taste has improved.”
• “[Groom’s name] once tried to wash the car with peanut butter. He said it would make it shiny. Creativity has always been his strong suit.”
• “At 13, [Groom’s name] decided to become a rock star. The neighbors still haven’t forgiven us for those three months.”
• “[Groom’s name] used to say girls had cooties. [Bride’s name], I assume you’ve been vaccinated?”
• “When [Groom’s name] was 6, he tried to mail himself to Disneyland. [Bride’s name], I hope you’re ready for his adventurous spirit.”

How to UseUsing These Jokes

While these jokes can add humor to your speech, consider several factors to ensure they land well and enhance your speech. First and foremost, understand your audience. Consider the age range, cultural backgrounds, and relationships among the wedding guests. What’s hilarious to close family might not resonate with distant relatives or the bride’s family. Tailor your jokes to fit your personal style and relationship with the groom.

Practice delivery to ensure a natural and effective presentation. Timing is crucial, so pay attention to your vocal inflections and pauses. Use body language and facial expressions to enhance joke delivery. Prepare backup options in case certain jokes don’t resonate with the audience. Being prepared to handle unexpected reactions and sensitive family situations is essential.

Tips for Writing Your Own Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes

Creating your own humor can make your speech more personal and memorable. Start by identifying personal experiences that can be transformed into humorous anecdotes. Use the structure of successful jokes as a template for your own, balancing specificity with relatability. Test and refine your jokes before the big day, seeking feedback from trusted friends or family.

Draw from personal experiences with your son. Think about funny incidents from his childhood, quirky family traditions, or amusing misunderstandings you’ve had. These personal touches will make your jokes more authentic and engaging. Keep your humor light and positive, focusing on moments that highlight positive traits or growth. Avoid jokes that could be interpreted as criticism or disapproval.

Once you’ve written your jokes, practice delivering them. Pay attention to your timing, tone, and body language. Consider rehearsing in front of a trusted friend or family member who can provide feedback. Adjust your delivery based on reactions during practice.

Common Pitfalls to Avoid in Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes

While humor can greatly enhance your speech, there are several common mistakes to avoid. Overusing humor can make your speech feel insincere or like you’re not taking the occasion seriously. Strike a balance between funny moments and heartfelt sentiments. Avoid jokes that could be considered offensive, inappropriate, or too personal. Have a trusted person review your speech for potentially offensive content.

While childhood stories can be amusing, avoid dwelling too much on the past. Your speech should also acknowledge the present moment and look forward to the couple’s future together. Balance anecdotes from different periods of the groom’s life, connecting past stories to his present character or relationship.

Adapting Jokes for Different Wedding Styles

Different wedding styles call for different types of humor. For a traditional wedding, humor should be more restrained and elegant, focusing on gentle wit. Modern or unconventional weddings often allow for more relaxed and diverse humor, incorporating pop culture references or playful banter. Be mindful of different cultural norms and sensitivities in multicultural weddings.

Incorporating the Groom’s Personality into Your Jokes

Your son’s unique personality should shine through in your humor. Incorporate his hobbies and interests into your jokes, whether he’s a sports fanatic, a tech geek, or a music lover. These aspects of his personality can provide great material for gentle teasing and endearing stories. Use family inside jokes to add a personal touch, but ensure you’re not excluding other guests. Balance any teasing with genuine compliments and expressions of pride in your son.

Handling Sensitive Family Situations with Humor

Weddings can bring up complex family dynamics, and humor can be a tool for unity rather than division. If the groom’s parents are divorced, focus on jokes that celebrate your son rather than dwelling on past family dynamics. In blended families, use jokes that celebrate the diversity of your family and the love that brings you all together. If there are important family members who couldn’t attend or have passed away, keep references light and positive.

Using Props or Visual Aids for Comedic Effect

Props and visual aids can add an extra layer of humor to your speech. Sharing funny childhood photos of the groom can be a great source of laughter. Choose photos that are amusing but not embarrassing, and be prepared to explain the context briefly. Using meaningful objects as props can add both humor and sentiment. This could be a childhood toy, a school project, or any item with a funny story attached. Incorporating surprise elements can add fun, as long as they’re appropriate and well-executed.

Engaging the Audience with Interactive Humor

Involving the audience in your humor can create a more engaging and memorable speech. Call and response jokes can be a fun way to get the audience involved. Set up a pattern where they can anticipate and join in on a punchline. Including other family members in your jokes can add depth to your humor and create a sense of unity. Encourage light audience participation, such as a show of hands or a quick game.

Cultural Considerations for Mother of the Groom Speech Jokes

In our diverse world, it’s crucial to consider cultural sensitivities when crafting your speech. Different cultures have varying traditions and expectations for wedding speeches. Ensure your humor aligns with these traditions and doesn’t unintentionally offend. In multicultural weddings, focus on universal experiences and shared values. Avoid jokes based on cultural stereotypes, focusing instead on personal stories and observations.

Timing Your Jokes Within the Speech Structure

The placement of your jokes within your speech can greatly impact their effectiveness. Starting with a well-chosen joke can help relax both you and your audience. Distribute your humor evenly throughout your speech, rather than clustering all jokes together. Conclude your speech with a well-chosen joke or humorous observation that ties back to your main message or theme.

For more help, read this post on how to write a funny mother of the groom speech .

Handling Unexpected Reactions to Your Jokes

Even with careful preparation, sometimes jokes don’t land as expected. If a joke doesn’t get the reaction you hoped for, don’t dwell on it. Have a quick transition ready to move smoothly to your next point. Be prepared to adjust your delivery based on the room’s atmosphere. If the energy is low, you might need to tone down your humor or switch to more heartfelt content. If an awkward moment occurs, acknowledge it briefly if necessary, then move on confidently.

Collaborating with Other Speakers for Comedic Effect

Coordinating with other speakers, like the best man or father of the bride, can create opportunities for running jokes or playful banter. Consider coordinating with the best man to set up a joke he can pay off, or vice versa. If appropriate, some light-hearted banter with the father of the bride can add a fun dynamic to the speeches. Ensure any planned exchanges are mutually agreed upon and in good taste.

Using Technology for Humorous Effect

In today’s digital age, technology can be a great tool for adding humor to your speech. A short, funny video or slideshow can add visual interest, but keep it brief and ensure it’s visible to all guests. Using a live polling app can engage the audience. Prepare light-hearted questions related to the couple or wedding theme. If appropriate for your audience, incorporating social media trends or memes can add a modern touch to your humor.

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Balancing Humor with Emotional Moments

A great mother of the groom speech balances humor with sincere, emotional moments. Transitioning from humor to more emotional content can be powerful when done well. Prepare clear transition phrases and adjust your tone accordingly. After a particularly emotional moment, a well-placed light joke can help release tension and keep the overall tone celebratory. Conclude your speech by tying together the humorous and heartfelt elements, leaving the audience both smiling and touched.

For more advice, check out our mother of the groom speech examples post.

Preparing for Different Wedding Venues

The venue can significantly impact how your humor is received. Outdoor weddings present unique challenges and opportunities for humor. Be prepared for environmental factors and adjust your jokes accordingly. For smaller, intimate weddings, your humor can be more personal and subtle. In a large venue, your delivery needs to be bigger and your jokes more broadly appealing. Consider how to project your voice and personality to reach all guests.

Addressing Common Wedding Themes in Your Jokes

Incorporating common wedding themes into your humor can make your jokes more relevant and relatable. Love and romance offer plenty of room for light-hearted jokes about relationships. Family dynamics can be a rich source of humor, celebrating the joining of families and the creation of new bonds. The theme of new beginnings offers many opportunities for humor, joking about the changes that come with marriage while keeping the tone optimistic.

Tailoring Jokes to the Time of Day

The time of day can influence the reception of your humor. For morning weddings, keep your humor light and energetic. Afternoon weddings allow for a wider range of humor, referencing the day’s events or playing with the idea of time passing. Adjust your joke content and delivery for various wedding schedules, understanding how audience energy levels and alcohol consumption might affect joke reception later in the day.

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50 Inspiring Maid of Honor Speech Examples to Craft Your Unforgettable Toast

Being chosen as the Maid of Honor is a cherished honor, but it also comes with the delightful responsibility of delivering a memorable speech that celebrates the bride and groom. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or a first-timer, finding the right words can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. To help you navigate this important task, we've curated 50 maid of honor speech examples that cater to various tones, relationships, and styles. Plus, we'll share a secret tool that can make crafting your speech a breeze!

Why a Great Maid of Honor Speech Matters

A maid of honor speech is more than just a few heartfelt words; it's a celebration of friendship, love, and the journey the bride and groom are embarking on together. A well-crafted speech can leave a lasting impression, making the special day even more unforgettable. Whether you aim for humor, sentimentality, or inspiration, having a solid example to draw from can significantly ease the process.

Top Maid of Honor Speech Examples to Inspire You

1. humorous maid of honor speech.

Ladies and gentlemen, esteemed guests, and anyone who wandered in looking for the open bar – I’m Sarah, [Bride’s name]’s maid of honor and designated comedy relief for the evening.

For those who don’t know me, I’m the one who’s been by [Bride’s name]’s side through thick and thin, good hair days and bad, and more failed DIY projects than I care to count. [Bride’s name] and I have been best friends since we were in diapers, which, coincidentally, is also how most of you will end up by the end of tonight’s open bar.

Growing up with [Bride’s name] was like living in a sitcom, minus the laugh track. There was the time she decided to give herself a haircut the night before school pictures. Let’s just say, her mom still keeps that photo hidden. Or when she tried to impress her first crush by serenading him… with a kazoo. Surprisingly, it didn’t work out.

[Groom’s name], you’re getting a real catch here. Sure, she can’t cook to save her life, and her idea of cleaning is shoving everything into the closet, but she’ll love you with every fiber of her being. She’ll make you laugh until your sides hurt, support you in all your dreams, and probably drive you a little crazy sometimes. But that’s all part of her charm.

To the happy couple: May your love be as strong as [Bride’s name]’s coffee and as long-lasting as her Netflix binges. May you always find reasons to laugh together, even when life gets tough. And may your biggest arguments be about who loves who more… or possibly about [Bride’s name]’s extensive collection of shoes that’s slowly taking over your closet.

Let’s raise our glasses to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and maybe some cooking lessons. Cheers!

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2. Sentimental Maid of Honor Speech

Good evening, everyone. I’m Emily, [Bride’s name]’s maid of honor and best friend since childhood. As I stand here today, looking at my beautiful friend in her wedding gown, I’m overwhelmed with emotions and memories.

[Bride’s name], from the moment we met on the first day of kindergarten, sharing crayons and dreams, I knew you were going to be a special part of my life. Little did I know then that I was meeting the person who would become my sister in all but blood, my partner in adventure, and my rock through all of life’s ups and downs.

I remember the day you told me about [Groom’s name]. We were having our weekly coffee date, and your eyes lit up in a way I’d never seen before. You talked about him with such joy and excitement, and I knew then that this was something special. Watching your love story unfold has been like watching the most beautiful flower bloom – delicate, vibrant, and full of life.

[Groom’s name], you’re marrying not just a beautiful woman, but a beautiful soul. [Bride’s name] has a heart big enough to love the whole world, and I’m so grateful that she’s found someone who loves her just as fiercely and completely as she deserves. The way you look at her, the way you support her dreams, the way you make her laugh – it’s everything I could have hoped for my best friend.

To the happy couple, may your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. May you face life’s challenges hand in hand, celebrate its joys heart to heart, and always find comfort in each other’s arms. May your life together be filled with as much laughter, love, and beautiful moments as you’ve brought into the lives of everyone in this room.

[Bride’s name], my dear friend, my sister, thank you for allowing me to be a part of your special day. I love you more than words can express, and I couldn’t be happier for you. Here’s to a lifetime of love, happiness, and friendship. Cheers!

3. Inspirational Maid of Honor Speech

Good evening, everyone. I’m Jessica, [Bride’s name]’s maid of honor and friend of over two decades. Today, we’re not just celebrating a wedding; we’re celebrating a love that inspires, a partnership that uplifts, and a couple that truly embodies what it means to grow together.

[Bride’s name], from the day I met you, I knew you were destined for greatness. Your determination, your compassion, and your unwavering optimism have always been a source of inspiration to everyone around you. I’ve watched you overcome obstacles with grace, chase your dreams with fervor, and love with your whole heart.

I remember when you decided to run your first marathon. Many thought it was an impossible goal, given that you’d never run more than a mile before. But you were determined. You trained in the rain, in the snow, at dawn before work. You pushed through pain, doubt, and fatigue. And on race day, as I watched you cross that finish line, tears streaming down your face, I saw the embodiment of perseverance and the power of believing in oneself.

But your greatest achievement, in my opinion, is the love you’ve found with [Groom’s name]. Together, you two are a force to be reckoned with. You push each other to be better, to dream bigger, to love deeper. Your relationship is a testament to what can happen when two people commit to growing together, supporting each other’s dreams, and facing life’s challenges as a team.

[Groom’s name], you’re marrying a woman who can move mountains with her determination and melt hearts with her kindness. But I’ve seen how you inspire her too, how you encourage her to reach for the stars, how you provide a safe space for her to be vulnerable and true to herself.

To the happy couple, may your love continue to be a beacon of hope and inspiration to others. May you always find strength in each other, courage in your combined spirit, and joy in your shared journey. Remember, the greatest adventures often begin with a single step, and today, you’ve taken that step hand in hand.

Let’s raise our glasses to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Here’s to a lifetime of setting goals, dreaming big, and inspiring not just each other, but everyone around you. May your love story continue to show the world that with passion, perseverance, and a partner who believes in you, anything is possible. Cheers to love, to growth, and to new beginnings!

4. Witty and Sophisticated Maid of Honor Speech

Good evening, distinguished guests, family, friends, and anyone who’s here for the free food – I’m Charlotte, [Bride’s name]’s maid of honor and longtime partner in crime.

Now, I could regale you with tales of [Bride’s name]’s many accomplishments – her impressive career, her philanthropic endeavors, her ability to pair wine with any meal – but I think we all know that her greatest achievement to date is convincing [Groom’s name] that her snoring is actually “aggressive breathing.”

[Bride’s name] and I have been friends since university, where we bonded over our shared love of obscure literature and our mutual disdain for early morning lectures. I’ve watched her evolve from a caffeine-fueled student into the poised and accomplished woman before you today. Although, I must say, the caffeine dependency hasn’t changed much.

I remember when [Bride’s name] first told me about [Groom’s name]. She described him as “devastatingly handsome, intellectually stimulating, and possessing an excellent taste in cheese.” I thought to myself, “Well, two out of three isn’t bad.” I’m joking, of course. [Groom’s name], you’re a wonderful match for our dear [Bride’s name], even if your cheese selection skills are somewhat questionable.

To the happy couple, may your love be like a fine wine – complex, full-bodied, and improving with age. May your arguments be few, your adventures many, and may you always remember that in the grand chess game of life, you’re each other’s queen – the most powerful piece on the board.

Let’s raise our glasses to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Here’s to a lifetime of witty banter, sophisticated soirées, and the occasional lowbrow Netflix binge. After all, balance is key. Cheers!

5. Nostalgic Maid of Honor Speech

Good evening, everyone. I’m Rachel, [Bride’s name]’s maid of honor and friend since we were just kids with big dreams and even bigger hair scrunchies.

[Bride’s name], as I stand here today, I can’t help but think back to all the moments that have led us here. Do you remember when we were seven, playing dress-up in your mom’s closet? You always insisted on being the bride, draping yourself in white curtains and carrying a bouquet of dandelions. Who would have thought that all these years later, I’d be standing beside you on your actual wedding day?

I remember our first day of high school, how nervous we were. We spent hours the night before, planning our outfits and practicing our “cool” walks. We thought we were so grown up then, didn’t we? Little did we know that true adulthood was still a long way off, and would involve a lot less glitter and a lot more coffee.

And then there was our college years. Late night study sessions that turned into deep conversations about life and love. The time we decided to road trip to the beach on a whim, singing off-key to 90s pop songs all the way there. Those memories are etched in my heart forever.

[Bride’s name], I’ve watched you grow from that little girl in makeshift wedding dresses to the beautiful, strong woman you are today. You’ve been there for every important moment in my life, and I’m so honored to be here for this momentous occasion in yours.

[Groom’s name], you’re marrying not just my best friend, but a part of my history. Take care of her, cherish her, and maybe learn all the words to “Wannabe” by the Spice Girls – it’s kind of our anthem.

To the happy couple, may your future be as bright as our past has been. May you create a lifetime of memories as precious as the ones we’ve shared. And may you always remember, no matter where life takes you, you’ll always have a friend in me.

Let’s raise our glasses to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Here’s to old memories and new beginnings. Cheers!

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How to Write the Perfect Wedding Toast: 10 Inspiring Examples

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Delivering a  wedding toast  can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Whether you’re the  best man ,  maid of honor , or a close friend, finding the right words to honor the newlyweds is a special responsibility. Many people struggle with public speaking, especially when it comes to such an important occasion.

This guide will help you craft and deliver the perfect wedding toast. We’ll cover the  structure of a great toast , how to write a  heartfelt message , and tips for  confident delivery . You’ll also find 10 inspiring wedding toast examples to spark your creativity. By the end, you’ll have the tools and ideas to create a  memorable toast  that celebrates the happy couple.

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Understand the Structure of a Great Wedding Toast

A  well-structured wedding toast  is essential for delivering a memorable and impactful message. By following a clear format, speakers can effectively convey their thoughts and emotions while keeping the audience engaged. Let’s explore the key elements that make up a great wedding toast.

Opening with a memorable line

The opening line of a wedding toast sets the tone for the entire speech. It’s crucial to capture the audience’s attention right from the start. A strong opening can be funny, heartfelt, or thought-provoking, depending on the speaker’s style and the overall atmosphere of the wedding. For example, a best man might begin with a humorous quip about the groom, while a maid of honor could start with a touching anecdote about her friendship with the bride.

Sharing a personal story or anecdote

The heart of any great wedding toast lies in its personal stories. These anecdotes bring the speech to life and allow guests to connect with the couple on a deeper level. When crafting your stories, aim for a  balance between humor and sentimentality . Choose tales that highlight the couple’s unique qualities or showcase significant moments in their relationship. For instance, you might share how the bride and groom met or recount a time when you witnessed their love for each other.

Offering congratulations and well wishes

As the toast comes to a close, it’s important to offer sincere congratulations and well wishes to the newlyweds. This is your opportunity to express your happiness and support for their union. You might share your hopes for their future together or offer a piece of advice for a happy marriage. Keep this part of the toast heartfelt and genuine, avoiding clichés or overly sentimental language.

Remember, the structure of your wedding toast should feel natural and authentic to your relationship with the couple. While these elements provide a solid foundation, feel free to adapt them to suit your personal style and the unique aspects of the wedding celebration. By following this structure, you’ll have a better chance of delivering a wedding toast that resonates with the couple and leaves a lasting impression on all who hear it.

Craft a Heartfelt Message

Creating a memorable wedding toast  involves more than just stringing together a few nice words. It’s about  expressing genuine emotions  and striking the right balance between humor and sincerity. Here’s how to craft a heartfelt message that will resonate with the newlyweds and their guests.

Expressing genuine emotions

When writing your wedding toast, it’s crucial to tap into your authentic feelings. Think about your relationship with the couple and what makes them special. Share personal stories that highlight their unique qualities or significant moments in their relationship. For instance, you might recount how the bride and groom met or a time when you witnessed their love for each other.

Remember, the best wedding toasts are sincere and focus on the couple’s journey. Express your admiration for them and offer meaningful wishes for their future together. This approach keeps the toast personal and avoids it becoming a mere performance.

Balancing humor and sincerity

A great wedding speech strikes a balance between heartfelt sentiment and well-timed humor. Think of your speech as a rollercoaster of emotions – ups of laughter and downs of touching moments. This balance keeps your audience engaged and creates a more impactful speech overall.

When incorporating humor, keep it clean and family-friendly. Avoid controversial topics or anything that might make guests uncomfortable. Instead, focus on lighthearted anecdotes that showcase the couple’s quirks or shared interests. For example, you could say, “Sure, Tom might burn everything he cooks and Lisa can’t keep a plant alive to save her life. But together, they’ve created something beautiful – a love that nourishes the soul and warms the heart.”

Avoiding common pitfalls

To ensure your wedding toast hits the mark, steer clear of these common mistakes:

• Don’t make it all about you. While it’s okay to share personal stories, remember that the focus should be on the couple.
• Avoid mentioning exes or past relationships. This can create awkwardness and potentially hurt feelings.
• Skip the inside jokes. While you and the newlyweds might get a kick out of your quips, it might be a little awkward if none of the wedding guests can follow along.
• Don’t bring up past planning stressors or any tough moments leading up to the wedding day.
• Keep it concise. Aim for about five minutes to maintain everyone’s attention.

By following these guidelines, you’ll be well on your way to delivering a wedding toast that’s both heartfelt and memorable. Remember, the goal is to celebrate the couple’s love and offer your sincere wishes for their future together. With a little thought and preparation, your speech can be a highlight of the wedding reception, leaving a lasting impression on the newlyweds and all who hear it.

Deliver Your Toast with Confidence

Practice and preparation tips.

To deliver a memorable wedding toast,  preparation is key . Start by writing down your thoughts and organizing them into a clear structure. Once you have a draft,  practice reading it aloud  several times. This helps you become familiar with the flow and timing of your speech. It’s also a good idea to record yourself or practice in front of a mirror to observe your delivery and make necessary adjustments.

As you rehearse, focus on  speaking slowly and clearly . Many people tend to rush through their words when nervous, so consciously slow down your pace. Time yourself to ensure your toast falls within the  ideal 2-5 minute range . This allows you to share your message without losing the audience’s attention.

Consider asking a  trusted friend or family member  to be your practice audience. Their feedback can be invaluable in refining your delivery and content. They might catch areas that need improvement or suggest ways to make your toast more engaging.

Body language and  voice projection

Your  physical presence  plays a crucial role in delivering a confident wedding toast. Start by standing tall with your feet shoulder-width apart. This posture not only projects confidence but also helps with proper breathing, which is essential for voice projection.

When speaking, make eye contact with different people around the room. This connection helps you appear more confident and keeps the audience engaged. Remember to smile naturally – it will help you relax and create a warm atmosphere.

Voice projection is more than just speaking loudly. It involves using your diaphragm to create a resonant, clear sound. Take deep breaths and speak from your chest rather than your throat. This technique will help you project your voice without straining or shouting.

Vary your volume and tone throughout your speech to maintain interest. You can use a softer voice for emotional moments and a more energetic tone for humorous anecdotes. This variation in delivery keeps your audience attentive and adds depth to your toast.

Handling nerves  on the big day

It’s natural to feel nervous before giving a wedding toast. Remember, most people experience some level of anxiety when speaking in public. To manage your nerves, try deep breathing exercises just before your speech. Inhale deeply for a count of four, hold for four, and exhale slowly for eight. This can help calm your heart rate and center your thoughts.

On the day of the wedding,  avoid excessive alcohol  before your toast. While a small drink might help calm your nerves, too much can impair your delivery. Instead, focus on staying hydrated and eating something light to maintain your energy.

When it’s time to give your toast, take a moment to ground yourself. Feel your feet connecting with the floor and take a deep breath. Remember that you’re surrounded by friends and family who are there to celebrate love, not judge your public speaking skills.

If you feel overwhelmed during your speech, pause briefly and take a breath. It’s okay to  show emotion  – it adds authenticity to your words. Focus on the happy couple and the joy of the occasion rather than your nervousness.

By following these tips and practicing regularly, you’ll be well-prepared to deliver a heartfelt and confident wedding toast that the newlyweds and guests will remember fondly.

10 Inspiring Wedding Toast Examples

Wedding toasts  are a cherished tradition that allows friends and family to express their love and support for the newlyweds. Here are some inspiring examples to help you craft the perfect toast for your loved ones’ special day.

Best man toasts

The  best man’s toast  is often a highlight of the reception. Here are two examples that strike the right balance between humor and heartfelt sentiment:

• “To my best friend and his beautiful bride: I’ve known [Groom’s name] since we were kids, and I’ve never seen him happier than he is today. [Bride’s name], you’ve brought out the best in him, and I’m grateful to welcome you to our extended family. May your love story be the greatest one ever told. Cheers to the happy couple!”
• “Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses to [Groom’s name] and [Bride’s name]. They say you don’t marry the person you can live with, but the person you can’t live without. That sums up these two perfectly. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and adventure together!”

Maid of honor toasts

The  maid of honor’s speech  often combines touching memories with wishes for the couple’s future. Consider these examples:

• “I’ve had the joy of being [Bride’s name]’s best friend for years, and today, I’m thrilled to celebrate her marriage to [Groom’s name]. You two complement each other beautifully, and your love is an inspiration to us all. May your days be filled with laughter and your nights with romance. To the newlyweds!”
• “[Bride’s name], from our childhood adventures to this magical day, you’ve always been like a sister to me. [Groom’s name], thank you for making her so happy. May your love grow stronger with each passing day. Let’s toast to a lifetime of happiness for the bride and groom!”

Parent toasts

Parents often deliver emotional toasts that reflect on their child’s journey and welcome their new spouse to the family. Here are two examples:

• “As [Bride’s/Groom’s name]’s parent, I’ve watched them grow into the amazing person they are today. [Partner’s name], we’re overjoyed to welcome you into our family. May your marriage be filled with love, understanding, and endless joy. To the happy couple!”
• “They say when children find true love, parents find true joy. Today, our hearts are full as we celebrate [Bride’s/Groom’s name] and [Partner’s name]’s union. May your love be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever. Cheers!”

Sibling toasts

Siblings often share unique perspectives on the couple’s relationship. Here’s an example:

“Growing up with [Bride’s/Groom’s name] was quite an adventure. Now, as they embark on this new journey with [Partner’s name], I couldn’t be happier. You two are perfect for each other. Here’s to a lifetime of love and laughter!”

Friend toasts

Close friends can offer heartfelt and often humorous toasts. Consider this example:

“[Bride’s/Groom’s name] and I have been friends for years, and I’ve never seen them happier than they are with [Partner’s name]. You two are a perfect match. May your love be as strong as the drinks at this open bar. Cheers to the newlyweds!”

These wedding toast examples showcase various styles and perspectives, from best man speeches to maid of honor toasts. Whether you’re aiming for humor, sentimentality, or a mix of both, these ideas can help you craft a memorable toast that celebrates the couple’s love and future together.

Crafting the  perfect wedding toast  is an art that combines  heartfelt emotions  with a  touch of humor . This guide has provided a roadmap to create a  memorable speech  that  celebrates the newlyweds  and their  love story . From understanding the  structure  to  delivering with confidence , these tips and examples aim to help you  express your joy and support  for the happy couple on their  special day .

Remember, the  most impactful toasts  come from the heart. By sharing  personal stories , balancing sentiment with light-hearted moments, and  speaking genuinely , you’ll create a toast that resonates with the couple and their guests. So, take these insights, make them your own, and  raise a glass to love ,  laughter , and  happily ever after . Your words will undoubtedly add to the magic of the wedding celebration.